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My Dr. Office called today to reschedule my surgery... pushed back a week to 2/20. After the past year of jumping through hoops, it is less then a month away, so I should still be happy...right?

:) (<---that is my fake smile.)

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I can only imagine your disappointment. I will fake smile with you and pray that time speeds along. Don't dwell on what could have been, dwell on what you are going to make happen with your new sleeve.

Feeling you are going to rock your sleeve! Hugs to you.

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My Dr. Office called today to reschedule my surgery... pushed back a week to 2/20. After the past year of jumping through hoops, it is less then a month away, so I should still be happy...right? :) (<---that is my fake smile.)

OOOOHHHHHHH....Bummer!!!! That's hard. Sure, you should still be happy, but that still stinks!!!

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My surgery is scheduled for the 6th- and seriously, I would be a hot mess if they called to push it back! I'm so sorry!

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My Dr. Office called today to reschedule my surgery... pushed back a week to 2/20. After the past year of jumping through hoops, it is less then a month away, so I should still be happy...right?

:smile1: (<---that is my fake smile.)

Hey it's ok... that's very frustrating!! :angry:

That said, it is less than a month away. Time flies super fast - I mean I'm working on my 17th month sleeved now! Sure doesn't feel like it. Your day will be here soon. Xox

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Thanks Ladies! I am coming to terms with it. Lol! An extra week to prepare I suppose... and my kids want to hang out at the hospital while I am 'under the knife' so they can now since it is a school holiday. Thanks again for your kind words. It is very appreciated!

:) (<--- that's a real smile!)

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My Dr. Office called today to reschedule my surgery... pushed back a week to 2/20. After the past year of jumping through hoops, it is less then a month away, so I should still be happy...right?

:) (<---that is my fake smile.)

I know how you feel I am just ten days away and have to wait until friday 2/3/12 to find out if my surgery is going to be cancel or not. I am so depressed out this.

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I know how you feel I am just ten days away and have to wait until friday 2/3/12 to find out if my surgery is going to be cancel or not. I am so depressed out this.

Don't be sad Lilu! Our days are coming! Hopefully no more surprises...

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Aw I would be upset too. Heck I get upset already at all these delays and appointments! To finally have your day and it gets taken, ARGH. Good luck!

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My Dr. Office called today to reschedule my surgery... pushed back a week to 2/20. After the past year of jumping through hoops, it is less then a month away, so I should still be happy...right?

:smile1: (<---that is my fake smile.)

Chin up hun!!! It will all be worth it!! Healthy and looking good oh yeaaaahhh!! Guess what hun were sleeve sisters my date is also 2/20 :)

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any setback is disappointing - you psyche yourself up for a certain goal and then it feels like someone pulls a rug out from under your feet - but it WILL happen. Trust me. Take it from someone that has had several surgery dates only to have something happen through no fault of my own and have my surgery CANCELLED. A week more to get yourself ready - not so bad. I'm now sleeved and so very relieved and happy :)

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A week more to get yourself ready - not so bad. I'm now sleeved and so very relieved and happy :)

Thanks Circa! I have come to terms with 02/20/2012 :) I can't wait to be relieved and happy too!

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That is hard, but sounds like it will be okay! Look at all those 20's and 2's in your new date...good strong date. :-) Mine was 10-22-10 and for some odd reason I really like the date!

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Look at all those 20's and 2's in your new date...good strong date. :-)

M2G! I was thinking the same thing when I typed it out! lol! 3 shoooort weeks left!

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