Lilu

For me it has change it has gotten better. I feel the changed was with me. It took me a long time to find my soul mate. So I think that is very important to know. How strong is your marriage? these are the question you need to ask yourself. Sit down and discuss on what your mate feels about WLS. Explain your feelings. Tell your mate why this is go for you and the marriage.
I was with a man that use to tell me he loved me just the way I was but when I met my husband I told him that I never want to hear those word again. Every body has a problem with something.
So as for me I am happy to have done this for myself. I am having more loving moments with hubby. He can't keep his hands off of me. I walk more and able to do more around the house.
I am finishing off school and going back to work.

It happen to me too. but it was after 3 month I was eating a sandwich I took two bites and then it just all came up. I told the doctor the next day during my regular visit he could not give me an answer. It has not happen again.
Good luck hope i can find the reason

It happen to me too. but it was after 3 month I was eating a sandwich I took two bites and then it just all came up. I told the doctor the next day during my regular visit he could not give me an answer. It has not happen again.
Good luck hope i can find the reason

In my opinion a relationship ship built on anything other than love,understanding and the most important thing communication are doom to fail. If you ca call your mate a friend you will be okay. I hae children and the weight lost has hange my marriage in a way that has made my hubby and I happier. Bause we have kids we can't get the amount of alone time that we wish but he trys t do little get aways and we still try out new resturants. Eventhough this is TMI the best thing I am enjoying is my husband. I was the ft one in the relationship and sex ws a big issue, but not anymore.
I am looking forward to the changes in our marriage I am truly blessed he is a soulmate.
So look at the positive things that can happen. You enjoy the energy your going to gain and pray that your hubby can keep up.LOL
Good luck

My first meal was ground turkey with burilla pasta I measure it in a 1/2 cup the turkey had protien and so did the pasta which was a good in take. good luck Remember protien first at all times.

Well I am about four months out and have always had a high sexual want and my hubby was not like me. But once we started having sex again he seems to want me all the time. This was my biggest complaint and we would fight because I thought that he did not love me.
But I now can do the thing I did as a teenager with out the pain of the weight . I also notice I feel him alot more.
This is one of the best things of weight lost, the ability to put your legs around your man or for him to do positions you see on tv is the greats. Fifty shades of grey has nothing on me.
I told hubby we need to make our own porn and he laugh and said what ever you want but I don't want to share you.
We are going to our second honeymoon for my one year goal.
Good luck all glad to hear I am not the only having this experience

Well I am about four months out and have always had a high sexual want and my hubby was not like me. But once we started having sex again he seems to want me all the time. This was my biggest complaint and we would fight because I thought that he did not love me.
But I now can do the thing I did as a teenager with out the pain of the weight . I also notice I feel him alot more.
This is one of the best things of weight lost, the ability to put your legs around your man or for him to do positions you see on tv is the greats. Fifty shades of grey has nothing on me.
I told hubby we need to make our own porn and he laugh and said what ever you want but I don't want to share you.
We are going to our second honeymoon for my one year goal.
Good luck all glad to hear I am not the only having this experience

Well I am about four months out and have always had a high sexual want and my hubby was not like me. But once we started having sex again he seems to want me all the time. This was my biggest complaint and we would fight because I thought that he did not love me.
But I now can do the thing I did as a teenager with out the pain of the weight . I also notice I feel him alot more.
This is one of the best things of weight lost, the ability to put your legs around your man or for him to do positions you see on tv is the greats. Fifty shades of grey has nothing on me.
I told hubby we need to make our own porn and he laugh and said what ever you want but I don't want to share you.
We are going to our second honeymoon for my one year goal.
Good luck all glad to hear I am not the only having this experience

I wish I could read about the truth about having gastric surgery. When you decide to do this there are alot of thoughts about How fast am I going to lose the weight? OMG I think I messed up! Or you have food funnerals. This is not a quick fixes it is a life time commitment. You must truly be ready to change your life if you want to achieve the desire out come. I had to wait a year an six months till I could get the surgery. I found out that at my old wait I was not the healthiest person in the world. I was sadden about news, I cried alot and was fearing about going to the doctor. At my height and weight I was feeling alone. I had family there but that was no confort for me. I was looking for a buddy to go thru this with. When I was post-op some of the advice was just to successful at times. Truthfully I had a hard time after I had my surgery. I could not sleep in my bed at home. I slept in a chair. I could not drink anything or eat anythings for two days after i left hospital. I also caught an infection and return back to hospital.
Now I am two month plus out, and I now hit a stall but I am not worried about that because this is going to be a slow and steady process and when the weight is not coming off the size is getting smaller. I am reaching many mile stones and I am proud of it.
So lets stop depending on everyone else because it is you job to make the correct changes in your life.
This is a tool not a miracle. So if you have a food addiction get it treated first because you are setting your self up for failure.

I wish I could read about the truth about having gastric surgery. When you decide to do this there are alot of thoughts about How fast am I going to lose the weight? OMG I think I messed up! Or you have food funnerals. This is not a quick fixes it is a life time commitment. You must truly be ready to change your life if you want to achieve the desire out come. I had to wait a year an six months till I could get the surgery. I found out that at my old wait I was not the healthiest person in the world. I was sadden about news, I cried alot and was fearing about going to the doctor. At my height and weight I was feeling alone. I had family there but that was no confort for me. I was looking for a buddy to go thru this with. When I was post-op some of the advice was just to successful at times. Truthfully I had a hard time after I had my surgery. I could not sleep in my bed at home. I slept in a chair. I could not drink anything or eat anythings for two days after i left hospital. I also caught an infection and return back to hospital.
Now I am two month plus out, and I now hit a stall but I am not worried about that because this is going to be a slow and steady process and when the weight is not coming off the size is getting smaller. I am reaching many mile stones and I am proud of it.
So lets stop depending on everyone else because it is you job to make the correct changes in your life.
This is a tool not a miracle. So if you have a food addiction get it treated first because you are setting your self up for failure.

My story is I need emergency surgery to remove a from my stomach. Because after surgery did not do so well. I was okay about what I did. Only my household know and my mom. I now tell people I am change my life and doing some for my self to eat healthier.

I wish I would have been told the following truth;
1. you must practice stop eating and drinking at the same time
2. you must practice chewing your food about 30 chew before you swallow
3. All doctors have different diet plans before surgery
4. to have this surgery you might have to jump thru some hoops depending on your health, insurance, and Doctor
5.I knew this one be very honest about your health issuse your succees depends on it.
After surgery it was going to be another rocky road that you have to travel.
6. Really take it easy and try your best to plan at least a month of rest
7. Plan for set backs that could happen like infection, pain, not being able to move in the diet like others
8. The gas pain is worst than site pain
9. Your brain needs time to catch up with your sleeve and it will take you time to retrain your self to eat.
The last truth I can say right now is we are all different and our bodies react to things very different. Once you get yourself over some humps you will start to feel that you did the right thing to get a handle on your weight issue.
I am about five weeks out and feeling much better, still some bumps with eating but I will get a handle on it.
So good luck to all that are thinking about doing this for themselves you will love it.

I wish I would have been told the following truth;
1. you must practice stop eating and drinking at the same time
2. you must practice chewing your food about 30 chew before you swallow
3. All doctors have different diet plans before surgery
4. to have this surgery you might have to jump thru some hoops depending on your health, insurance, and Doctor
5.I knew this one be very honest about your health issuse your succees depends on it.
After surgery it was going to be another rocky road that you have to travel.
6. Really take it easy and try your best to plan at least a month of rest
7. Plan for set backs that could happen like infection, pain, not being able to move in the diet like others
8. The gas pain is worst than site pain
9. Your brain needs time to catch up with your sleeve and it will take you time to retrain your self to eat.
The last truth I can say right now is we are all different and our bodies react to things very different. Once you get yourself over some humps you will start to feel that you did the right thing to get a handle on your weight issue.
I am about five weeks out and feeling much better, still some bumps with eating but I will get a handle on it.
So good luck to all that are thinking about doing this for themselves you will love it.

I wish I would have been told the following truth;
1. you must practice stop eating and drinking at the same time
2. you must practice chewing your food about 30 chew before you swallow
3. All doctors have different diet plans before surgery
4. to have this surgery you might have to jump thru some hoops depending on your health, insurance, and Doctor
5.I knew this one be very honest about your health issuse your succees depends on it.
After surgery it was going to be another rocky road that you have to travel.
6. Really take it easy and try your best to plan at least a month of rest
7. Plan for set backs that could happen like infection, pain, not being able to move in the diet like others
8. The gas pain is worst than site pain
9. Your brain needs time to catch up with your sleeve and it will take you time to retrain your self to eat.
The last truth I can say right now is we are all different and our bodies react to things very different. Once you get yourself over some humps you will start to feel that you did the right thing to get a handle on your weight issue.
I am about five weeks out and feeling much better, still some bumps with eating but I will get a handle on it.
So good luck to all that are thinking about doing this for themselves you will love it.

I wish I would have been told the following truth;
1. you must practice stop eating and drinking at the same time
2. you must practice chewing your food about 30 chew before you swallow
3. All doctors have different diet plans before surgery
4. to have this surgery you might have to jump thru some hoops depending on your health, insurance, and Doctor
5.I knew this one be very honest about your health issuse your succees depends on it.
After surgery it was going to be another rocky road that you have to travel.
6. Really take it easy and try your best to plan at least a month of rest
7. Plan for set backs that could happen like infection, pain, not being able to move in the diet like others
8. The gas pain is worst than site pain
9. Your brain needs time to catch up with your sleeve and it will take you time to retrain your self to eat.
The last truth I can say right now is we are all different and our bodies react to things very different. Once you get yourself over some humps you will start to feel that you did the right thing to get a handle on your weight issue.
I am about five weeks out and feeling much better, still some bumps with eating but I will get a handle on it.
So good luck to all that are thinking about doing this for themselves you will love it.

The first person I want to thank is god. I had a rough time, I was sleeved on 4-11-12 and caught a bad infection and went back to hospital. Then I was in alot of pain and thought that I was never going to get better.
I also want to thank you guys because if it was not for your kind words I would not have mad it to the LOSER club (LOL).
I have move up to the third stage of my diet solid food and was told by my doctor that I am doing great. He wants me to walk more at least 30 mins a day five days a week. and try going up hills.
I laughed and said well my little dog will be happy about that she will get more time outside. And walking the dog around my home will be up and down hill.
Feeling Great I don't regret anything. All the hoops and hurddles were worth it.
27 pounds down and 78 pounds to go.

Good luck to me and all my fellow sleevers. My god bless you all. My new birth date will be 4/11/12

Amen god, it is my turn today please watch over me and bless me with the success.
I will come out better than ever.
Amen Amen amen!!!!

Tomorrow is my turn! I am so excited to know that it will be happen tom. I am looking forward to being ready for my healing to be managable to deal with our memorial day get together. I will be pray for my doctor and for myself for a speedy recover. Good luck to everyone. Yeah!!!!!! Yes, god it is my turn.
Sorry the excitment is just overwhelming and over flowing.

Yes god its my turn and if someone trys to take this from me I am going to hurt them! That right I jump, I hopped, I ran, I even begged for this and finally I have all my "T" crossed and my "i" dotted. My ducks in a roll. What ever people can say I did it and I never give up. I thought I was going to have to change my name to neverforme! But GOD you made it possible for me. I to thank everyone for there kind words when I would hit the wall hard and allowing me to vent. I want to thank GOD for the courage you have given me to ensure that I don't have second thoughts about doing this with all my medical problems.
I went in today for my pre-op testing and found out what the problem was for the last cancellation and had it remove from my medical records. The doctor said I thought you were not going to do this because you were so heart broken. I told him about the many friends I found on this site and there words would not let me quit.
I am on cloud nine and see such a bright future in front of me. I am finallying do me so that I can do my family. I started to look at the pictures of the wedding dress I want to renew my vows at a church cermony because I got married at city hall.
I will no longer be in pain. I will no longer be breaking chairs when I sit in them.
Look out world here I finally come!!!!! April 11th Bye Bye fat me and all the stupid saying like she has such a pretty face.!!!!
Thanks everyone for allowing me to cry, vent, and laugh.
Well all are going to get there because God said so!!!!!!!

Yes god its my turn and if someone trys to take this from me I am going to hurt them! That right I jump, I hopped, I ran, I even begged for this and finally I have all my "T" crossed and my "i" dotted. My ducks in a roll. What ever people can say I did it and I never give up. I thought I was going to have to change my name to neverforme! But GOD you made it possible for me. I to thank everyone for there kind words when I would hit the wall hard and allowing me to vent. I want to thank GOD for the courage you have given me to ensure that I don't have second thoughts about doing this with all my medical problems.
I went in today for my pre-op testing and found out what the problem was for the last cancellation and had it remove from my medical records. The doctor said I thought you were not going to do this because you were so heart broken. I told him about the many friends I found on this site and there words would not let me quit.
I am on cloud nine and see such a bright future in front of me. I am finallying do me so that I can do my family. I started to look at the pictures of the wedding dress I want to renew my vows at a church cermony because I got married at city hall.
I will no longer be in pain. I will no longer be breaking chairs when I sit in them.
Look out world here I finally come!!!!! April 11th Bye Bye fat me and all the stupid saying like she has such a pretty face.!!!!
Thanks everyone for allowing me to cry, vent, and laugh.
Well all are going to get there because God said so!!!!!!!

Yes god its my turn and if someone trys to take this from me I am going to hurt them! That right I jump, I hopped, I ran, I even begged for this and finally I have all my "T" crossed and my "i" dotted. My ducks in a roll. What ever people can say I did it and I never give up. I thought I was going to have to change my name to neverforme! But GOD you made it possible for me. I to thank everyone for there kind words when I would hit the wall hard and allowing me to vent. I want to thank GOD for the courage you have given me to ensure that I don't have second thoughts about doing this with all my medical problems.
I went in today for my pre-op testing and found out what the problem was for the last cancellation and had it remove from my medical records. The doctor said I thought you were not going to do this because you were so heart broken. I told him about the many friends I found on this site and there words would not let me quit.
I am on cloud nine and see such a bright future in front of me. I am finallying do me so that I can do my family. I started to look at the pictures of the wedding dress I want to renew my vows at a church cermony because I got married at city hall.
I will no longer be in pain. I will no longer be breaking chairs when I sit in them.
Look out world here I finally come!!!!! April 11th Bye Bye fat me and all the stupid saying like she has such a pretty face.!!!!
Thanks everyone for allowing me to cry, vent, and laugh.
Well all are going to get there because God said so!!!!!!!

Well the only thing I can say is, Who are you doing this for? You are working out the pro and con through your dreams! Take a Picture of the look you want and replace the face with yours and Put it on you door and write yourself a letter every nite about the positive things that will be different for you when you lose the weight. My date is April 11th and no cold feet here and a high risk person because of medical reasons.You will do fine and the dreams turn from bad to good. I now dream about me in a two piece bathing suit on the beach in rio.

But in my opinion you should never leave a job in the wrong way always keep your door open to return.
When you give notice just say that you are leaving for health reasons and that is a professional answer to why you are leaving. Wait till you get the job before you leave or give notice being unemployed and looking for a new job is hard.
Good Luck

Funny since I decided to go on this journey I have beening dream of myself thinner on the beach with a two piece bathing suit. I was able to find a job that gave me a car and best position in the company. And also a high school reunion that I had to pull out a before picture to my old friends. and last night I had a dream that I got the attention of alot of men and my husband was jealous and paying attention to me too. Just dreaming that I walked so proud made me feel good.