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I totally understand that one of the reasons I am the position that I am in of having a BMI of 48 at the age of 23 is because I enjoy food... I am more than willing to make life changes, but I am wondering if you are still able to "enjoy" food after being banded? I guess I mean enjoy in a variety of sense, enjoy the taste/texture, eating with family, eating out...I would appreciate anyone to share their experiences! :hungry:

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More than ever before in my life, quite honestly. I never used to bother to cook anything special before becuase I knew I'd pig out, now I make the effort all the time. When I go out to eat now, I dont get pissed about the tiny little bit of food in the middle of the huge white plate, lol.

Everything tastes better becuase you dont just inhale it, you take your time to eat carefully.

Even things like Cookies, which I used to just stuff in are not satisfying because I eat one or two slowly.

I havent had to give up ANY food at all, my band is pretty much half filled and I can eat any food, perhaps with the exception of tough red meat. Well cooked red meat I can do. Which means I often eat it if I go out or go to Mum and Dad's since I tend to murder it if I cook it.

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Thanks for the reply, gives me hope. I am hoping that since I am a vegetarian that will make things a little bit easier for me b/c I wont have to worry about digesting meat!

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I think I enjoy food more now than before. Like Jacqui, I have not given up any food. I do count calories (because it works for me) and I have anything that is within my daily "allowance".

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Having the band will definitely change how you feel about certain foods. But you most defintiely will continue to enjoy eating, sometimes even more than pre-band. One thing I have noticed is that some things I thought I loved before now just gross me out. That is because of the chew, chew, chew rule. I used to love McDonald's french fries and shovel them in. Now, I have had them twice since being banded and after only eating a couple ended up throwing them away. I found that because I chew them more, they just taste like grease to me. Other foods, such as certain fruits and chicken are foods that I have found I actually enjoy the flavor of more because I am chewing them longer. And, I actually found I am more satisified with what I eat as well.

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I have had to give up ALOT of foods that I like (both healthy & unhealthy), but I definately do enjoy what I eat alot more than before.

The process of overchewing my food really lets me savor the flavor and enjoy it more than I thought it would.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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