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What is your BMI? Do you have any comorbidities??? If not, I was told I had to gain another 10 pounds. Well, that just does not sound right. So, I decided to go to Mexico for the surgery without going through that process. I don't care to compromise my integrity to gain weight so I can get them to pay. Plus, you never know, they may say no anyhow. So my husband and I talked about it and he agreed, the way the traditional medical world and insurance takes care of business is horrible. I wish you great luck.

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Texasgirl...greetings from the top of Texas. The doctors at the seminars I attended all said UHC is the easiest company to get approval from.

Gretta.....I did a lot of doctor shopping and research on the drs in DFW.....so far have had a great experience with the ones I chose. I did all my pre-op testing with Dr. Maese, a cardiologist who specializes in wls patients....has been in it longer than most people. His office did all the paperwork and submitted it. He also does my fills and charges just the co-pay. He uses floroscope each time and it is totally painless. The surgery was with Dr. Richard Benavidez, a very experienced lapband surgeon. As I have said before, I've had haircuts that were more traumatic......no problems at all, not even a gas pain. My surgery was at Wise Health Center in Decatur (my insurance requirement....they are very experienced there).

There are a number of good DFW surgeons but that is just my personal experience. Your success will depend largely on your own behavior after the surgery.....most people don't realize you have a lot of restrictions regarding foods afterward. It's not the 'easy way out'.

Best wishes.....

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Welcome. I am relatively new to this community, too. I also have UHC, but all weight-loss surgery is excluded from my company's policy. So, I am going the self-pay route. I started investigating the lap band back in 2001 right after it was approved by the FDA. Now, five years later, I'm finally doing it!

I have an Upper GI tomorrow and hopefully, if all goes well, my date for surgery is Aug. 2 with Dr. Spivak.

I wish you luck in fighting the insurance battle.

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I will be doing the Mexico trip. I hate spending the money, but just don't want to wait for insurance to consider it. I will need someone to do fills for me once I return and can be filled. I understand they want you to wait 6-8 weeks for fills. Would you ask Dr. Wilkenfeld if he will do fills for someone that has gone to Dr. Ortiz? What will it cost? I am spending all my extra money in the world on the surgery and have no idea how I am going to afford the fills. I know I will do it, but sure would appreciate knowing who can and will do the fills and the cost of it.

Thanks........Wild.

Hi Wild - I have high blood pressure, pre-diabetic, sleep apnea, arthritis... boy if I was a horse - I'd been shot! LOL I had carpel tunnel surgery done last year and little did I know that condition is aggrivated by being overweight. From what I understand (and we'll find out) the blood pressure and pre-diabetic issue should do it for UHC. I've had a friend who went to Mexico for dental work and she was very pleased, I've just been a real chicken about going there. My appointment is with Dr. Wilkenfeld in Conroe next Thursday. Lapband of Texas. If you need his number - let me know!

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Gretta - try doing a search for Lapband of Texas - they say they have offices in Dallas/Fort Worth. Best of luck. I'm going to my first appointment tomorrow - I'm so nervous!!

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Jenna - thank you so much for thinking of me! My family and I just got back from a few days in Galveston!! Wish I could go this year - but no time available with my job! YUCK!! I'll keep this one in mind for next year - that would be so much fun! Hope ya'll have a great time!!!!!! Thanks again!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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