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Well, I am at the end of the line here. I am currently at the heaviest I have ever been. I am serious about having surgery and have an appointment on the 29th of this month at a nearby center. It is a group type meeting and I guess I would make an appointment for a consultation afterwards. My sister and bil are doing the lap band, my bil who is an md in the army is adamant about not doing gastric sleeve. What are the differences really? Is gastric sleeve really that more risky? In the booklet they have sent me it looks like the risks and benefits are pretty much the same. I like the gastric sleeve because it seems the weight loss is quicker. Does anyone want to talk about what they did, what to expect and how much they lost?

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Your BIL may be against the sleeve because it is permanent. 80% of your stomach comes out and hits the bucket. No going back, no redos, no second chances. To me that was a plus! I knew I couldn't back out. The sleeve does not create malabsorption problems, does not introduce any foreign body into you (except the staples.) It does not lead to strictures, erosions, or diarrhea. It does not require frequent adjustments or fills. Your intestines are not harmed at all. It is actually the safest WLS out there. The only major complication possible is a leak, which is rare. The weight comes off at a slightly slower pace, but it will not come back--your stomach cannot possibly return to its former size. Now how does that sound to you?

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Thanks so much for taking the time to answer my post. I have been reading all the wonderful topics on here and so glad I found such a great forum. Personally, the more I read about vsg the more I feel like it is the right surgery for me. I have done so many diets I lose but gain back with + pounds, in the past 5 years I have just been packing on the pounds and now my health is being affected hbp, and pre diabeates lots of joint pain and mestrual problems- I am a hot mess! I have 3 young children ages 7,6 and 4 and I want to be able to do things with them; to run and play and go to the beach without being embarrased. Mostly I want to do this for myself. I used to be a runner when I was younger and I would love to do a 5k again.

I understand my insurance will pay 100% if I am qualified. I am 5" 2.75 inches and 236.4 lbs currently that is a BMI of over 40 and 100+lbs to lose.

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Thanks so much for taking the time to answer my post. I have been reading all the wonderful topics on here and so glad I found such a great forum. Personally, the more I read about vsg the more I feel like it is the right surgery for me. I have done so many diets I lose but gain back with + pounds, in the past 5 years I have just been packing on the pounds and now my health is being affected hbp, and pre diabeates lots of joint pain and mestrual problems- I am a hot mess! I have 3 young children ages 7,6 and 4 and I want to be able to do things with them; to run and play and go to the beach without being embarrased. Mostly I want to do this for myself. I used to be a runner when I was younger and I would love to do a 5k again.

I understand my insurance will pay 100% if I am qualified. I am 5" 2.75 inches and 236.4 lbs currently that is a BMI of over 40 and 100+lbs to lose.

I think you are making the right choice. I did a lot of research and the sleeve seemed like by far the best choice for me. It seemed that not only was the lap band something you could eat around between fills, but there were too many stories of erosions and slippage- and many people have a revision to the sleeve anyway later. I did not want my intestines re routed plus the dumping for both lap band and bypass scared me. I honestly think the sleeve will become the most popular surgery very soon.

I think you will find you are the envy of the two who opt for the lap band.

Good luck to you on this wonderful journey!

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I was first looking at the lab band before my surgeon suggested the sleeve. I went home and did my research. Look on on some of the other threads especially postings by Tiffykins in regards to lap band revisions to the sleeves due to complications. My husband who was just sleeved by another doctor was told they no longer are doing the lap bands and supposely the doctor who created it is no longer doing them. I have no regrets in doing the sleeve over the lapband. You will need to do what is best for you. Good Luck in making your decision.

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I think you are making the right choice. I did a lot of research and the sleeve seemed like by far the best choice for me. It seemed that not only was the lap band something you could eat around between fills, but there were too many stories of erosions and slippage- and many people have a revision to the sleeve anyway later. I did not want my intestines re routed plus the dumping for both lap band and bypass scared me. I honestly think the sleeve will become the most popular surgery very soon.

I think you will find you are the envy of the two who opt for the lap band.

Good luck to you on this wonderful journey!

I agree with Meggiep. Plus with the lapband you have to keep going back for adjustments for life! Good luck to you and your decission.

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Ready4change, its what your gut tells you. Just trust your judgment. It's really a personal preference and to each his/her own I say. Good luck to you.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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