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Hello! My name is Missy and *hopefully* I will be getting my sleeve next month. I am not new to weight loss surgery, my husband is 18 months post op from his gastric bypass. He started at 457 pounds before his pre-op diet. He lost 16 pounds in his two week pre-op liquid diet and has lost 215 pounds total. He is a new man and it has been so inspiring watching him transform into the man I met when he was 19 and I was 16. I was actually supposed to go first, we started investigating surgery at the same time, but due to my job at the time, completing the 6 month physician monitored diet was a struggle, so he got to be the guinea pig! He had absolutely no complications, has no real food intertolerances, and has been the picture perfect bypass patient. Not going first through may have proved to be a blessing, because our current insurance covers the sleeve! I am thrilled that I have this as an option.

I have been overweight my entire life. My father and other relatives have always been overweight. No matter how I have tried, I cannot seem to take this weight off. My weight issues are also coupled with infertility. I am 31 years old and have been married for almost 13 years. We have not used birth control for 11 years. I have been through every test and it comes down to ovulation, I do not ovulate. I have regular mentrual cycles but do not ovulate. My doctors think that losing weight is my best shot for conceiving. Even if I can't conceive, I want to be healthy, I want to jog with my husband, I want to shop for clothes in a "regular" store. I want to wear shorts at the beach, I want to ditch my hypertension medicine.

I am very excited about having surgery. I have done my 6 month weight monitoring and have all the paperwork I need for my insurance. I will go to my first appointment with the surgeon Monday wilth all my stuff together so hopefully approval should only take a couple weeks. I am thankful that I have had the experience of being my husband's food warden for the past year and a half, so I know exactly what I am getting into and how I need to eat. I am so thankful that I found this board too. I have had some restance from some thinking I should have the gastric band, I mean, I only have 100 pounds to lose right? Finding this board just reaffirms my decision that the VSG is the best option for me.

I look forward to "meeting" all of you!

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Hello Missy and welcome. It is awesome that your husband has done so well! I'm sure you are an inspiration to him also. I went back and forth from band to sleeve also but this site helped me decide. I'll keep my fingers crossed that insurance will approve you quickly. Good luck to you!

Holly

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Welcome, Missy! It sounds like you are way ahead of the curve, knowing what your diet will be already. So many of us agonized over the decision to have surgery. Keep us informed about your progress!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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