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You won't get in trouble. I think thats just something they tell you. My husband and all the rest of the guys he knew had a stack of porn in Iraq they shared. He was there for 18mo. so he had to do something!! They buy them boot leg. But good luck with that...lol:tongue_smilie:

It's different for the guys and definitely different for the soldiers. I could order stuff that comes in "a brown paper wrapper" haha, but there's no way I could get stuff here! Besides, the kind of porn that dudes circulate - no thanx.

Without an outlet I suppose I could burn this up at the gym but that might make it worse, seeing all the sleek fit young soldiers, dripping in sweat, breathing heavy ...... :drool:

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Jonathan Rhys Meyer was my "boyfriend"during the deployment, and secretly, I still wanna hump his brains out ha ha ha ! ! !

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And then there was Henry Cavill, ohhh how I miss the Tudors ! ! !

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I cried when the series ended, and I wasn't sure if it was because the show ended, or because I knew that I'd only be able to watch them on reruns through On Demand programming.

*all images found through google image search*

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Nice one, I had forgotten about him Tiff!!

Jane x

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How do I say this ... my sex drive is uh, in high gear, since the surgery. Did this happen to anyone else? The only word for it is ... horny, or randy, or whatever slang you can come up with to indicate the desire to get some RIGHT NOW!! My environment doesn't lend itself toward fixing this er, problem. I work with soldiers and they are rather single minded and NOT in the way that helps me, lol! I have several months before I can be back in the States and this could get tense!!:scared0:

Lucky you! Mine died with the hysterectomy and when i had the WLS it died even more. . . thank god my hubbie is diabetic and takes gobs of meds which doesn't make things any better for him either! :drool: Oh well, such is life. . .I'd rather be thin anyday then horney.:lol0:

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OHHHHH TIFFF~~

Did you have to show MY BOYFRIEND?? I'm with you, I cried when it ended too...

I think I'm going to molest my puter screen now. LOL~~

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Oh, I forgot about Lee Pace, (Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day, Pushing Daisies) yummy Lee Pace ...

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well thank GOD I'm not the only one experiencing this! Being single is not helping at all!!! Everywhere I look I catch myself drooling!! And the weird thing is I'm finding myself attracted to younger men. I'm 34, but the 24 year olds are really turning my head. Wondering if it's because I feel younger? Oh, and apparently with the hormones all crazy, it also took away my shyness, because girls, I am not afraid to tell a guy I think he's hot!!! My friends all think I'm insane, but I'm just ready for this libido to slow down a little!! (Just a little)

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Hahahahah! Awesome thread!

I know my boyfriend is going to be ecstatic when my sex drive returns. I know that especially over the past year I have been avoiding it because I feel undesirable.

Great to know that will change very soon!

Oh and Jonathan Rhys Meyer.... YES PLEASE!!!!!! Blimey he's hot.

Here is my little crumpet of the moment, who I am going to see in November in concert. I'm hoping to get standing tickets as he is known to crowd surf, and I'd quite like to attempt a grab at his man bits! LMAO!

Jared Letoooooooooo

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umfff, Jared Leto has been hot since I first saw him in My So-Called Life, mm-mm, that man never stops being good looking!

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I keep watching Bully Beatdown on MTV.

MMA fighter and the host of the show..Jason "Mayhem" Miller....YUMMMY

Im a sucker for a guy with dimples anyways.

He is nuts and he has an amazing amount of energy.

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Let me just say two words:

Robson.

Green.

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But yes, I've noticed the same effect.

Edited by Jolanda

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You guys are a pisser! Jane, you set a whirlwind in motion! But I'll put in my two cents with a nod to the French. I give you... Vincent Cassel:

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Check out his latest films, "Mesrine" in 2 parts- he won the Caesar award (French Oscar) for best actor. Also hot, Romain Duris:

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His latest film is "Heartbreaker" with Vanessa Paradis (wife of Johnny Depp).

Enjoy!

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Good information! My poor boyfriend hardly gets any now. It reminds me of Blue Collar Comedy when Bill Engval compares sex to getting a chess set (or something like that) in the mail. "You get one piece every 6-8 weeks...." HAHAHA.

So I'm sure he will appreciate this :scared0:

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