Okay, so I have only had sex three times all in the last little while. I am very in love w/my boyfriend and we have been together for almost 2 and a half years. I wasn't ready before now. He has been sexually active in the past and knows what he is doing, but I DON"T!!!! He is gentle and patient and is having a good time, but I know that a big part of my orgasm is MY responsiblity but I don't know what I need to be doing. Thanks friends!!!!

Exploring your body alone will definitely help you understand what you like and what makes you feel good. Then you will be able to let him know what you like. Although a lot of women aren't comfortable with it, I am a very big advocate of exploring your own body sexualy. Good luck !!

I agree with Faith. Also, relax and enjoy yourself.

Also, trying different positions, and finding out what really turns you on helps tremendously.

I totally agree with Tiffy and Faith, my hubbie and i are very open about what we want, so we have discussed this and now i know what he likes and he knows what i like, no problems there . . . you have to be open and explain what you like with out being embarrassed. . . then it works fantastically. . . good luck