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I've been banded for 5 months and have not lost a pound since! Yes my clothes feel a little looser but the metal monster is not budging and I'm getting very depressed! I have had 4 fills so far and I do eat a lot less than what I did before surgery but I feel like I still eat more than what I'm supposed to. My dr says it takes time and I will hit my sweet spot but I'm getting depressed about it I go for another full next Wednesday... I don't wanna be the one who had the surgery and its not gonna work :((

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how many calories are you eating and are you exercising?

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It is very common to read posts just like yours on here. Some folks take many fills over several MONTHS (unless your doctor uses fluoro to adjust your band) to get to a point where the band is doing what its supposed to do. Until then, its all on you....just like before banding.

You don't mention one important thing: Are you hungry often? Constantly?

Hang in there....It can get much better when you do get to that Green zone.... Best wishes. :)

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Thanks everyone! I eat around 800-900 calories a day and exercise 3-4 times a week.... I do not track my food but I'm guessing I should start doing that and after I eat a meal about 4-5 hours later is when I start to get hungry and some days I don't even eat the 3 meals a day like I'm supposed to because I'm not really hungry or I usually get to busy and by the time I think about eating its to late.. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong

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Thanks everyone! I eat around 800-900 calories a day and exercise 3-4 times a week.... I do not track my food but I'm guessing I should start doing that and after I eat a meal about 4-5 hours later is when I start to get hungry and some days I don't even eat the 3 meals a day like I'm supposed to because I'm not really hungry or I usually get to busy and by the time I think about eating its to late.. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong

See the problem is, you don't know for sure you're eating 800-900 calories a day because you aren't tracking your calories. If you start tracking and find you are eating that little, I'd actually increase your calories to about 1000 and see if that doesn't kick start your metabolism. But...you have to track your calories to know for sure.

You're definitely in the Green Zone if you can go 4-5 hours without hunger, so that's very good.

Best wishes

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Your profile states you started at 250 but you're 220 now? Have you lost weight or not? Confused?

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That weight loss is from the liver diet I had to do before surgery.

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I'm the same had surgery in jan and I've gained weight I'm so depressed and sick of it had 3 fills up to 7 in a 10 band but not feeling any restriction :( starting to regret getting it I know how u feel hugs

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The only way you can be sure you're not eating too much is to track your calories and measure your portions.

I'd start doing both if I were you.

I agree get a food journal and count calories.

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That weight loss is from the liver diet I had to do before surgery.

Good luck Hun I hope you start losing. I replied before reading the whole post sorry

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Thanks all!! I went for a fill today and I'm down 4.5 pounds! Not a lot but I will take it!!

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Thanks all!! I went for a fill today and I'm down 4.5 pounds! Not a lot but I will take it!!

Awesome congrats :)

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I had lost 43 lbs on my 6 month before band diet. I hit a plateau and it took about 4 months to really see a big weight loss. My surgeon was not concerned as I was doing 1-2 lbs thing. It sounds like maybe you are on a plateau, and need to do something different like increasing your calories to 1000 as stated above. best wishes,Karen

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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