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Hi there, I made a video about my struggles about being fat =( I'm sure some uf you have some of it, if not all. If you have around 15 minutes of spare time I invite you to watch it and please comment back about some of your stuggles much love!! ;-)

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Just clic on her picture Banjo....

in the above link

watching now....

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Big Hug Nayelli

I can feel your struggles...We have all had our share...

So brave of you to help others making your vidios I hve watched a few of them now....

One scare that I can recall that hurt me so much was We were some place that had a person counter..them barns that turn as a person walks through it...well I really wanted to go but as I started to get to it I knew I wouldnt fit ...so I had to lie to the kids and say I didnt want to go...my husband went with them.....I sat and waited for them to finish wanting to cry....

again hugs to YOU !!!

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How do I access it? Through your profile?

Just click on the video or go to youtube and look for my channel Nasfapcommunity. =)

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Big Hug Nayelli

I can feel your struggles...We have all had our share...

So brave of you to help others making your vidios I hve watched a few of them now....

One scare that I can recall that hurt me so much was We were some place that had a person counter..them barns that turn as a person walks through it...well I really wanted to go but as I started to get to it I knew I wouldnt fit ...so I had to lie to the kids and say I didnt want to go...my husband went with them.....I sat and waited for them to finish wanting to cry....

again hugs to YOU !!!

Thanks for watching my videos and for the hug.That must have been an awful moment it brought me memories about one tim ethat I went to Houston, Texas with my sister and some friends we went to the aquarium. They had a little train that gave you a tour we waited about 30 min. for our turn and then I was not able to fit the sapace between seats to actually sit down I had to leave and tell them to go without me. I was so emberrased with them and the other ppl I wento inside the museum feeling so hurt =( When they came back I wa sall smiles chat I did not want them to see how bad I felt. there is nothing worst than to smile when all you do is wan to cry. Thanks for sharin gyour story with me.

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You are so strong and so brave. Your video would help so many people that feel they are alone. Every time I try to exercise, whether walking or going to a gym, I can feel the stares.

Knowing I weight more than professional football players, ouch.

The pain now is my fear that I won't be able to succeed with the band.

Best of everything to you, you helped me, and I appreciate it.

Banjo

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You are so strong and so brave. Your video would help so many people that feel they are alone. Every time I try to exercise, whether walking or going to a gym, I can feel the stares.

Knowing I weight more than professional football players, ouch.

The pain now is my fear that I won't be able to succeed with the band.

Best of everything to you, you helped me, and I appreciate it.

Banjo

Awwww!! Thankyou sweetheart!! You made my day with your kind words =) I glad I could help you in any way. I have that same fear omg!! if you look a few videos back inmy journey I was onve crying over a 2 lbs gain lol!!! i was a mess beacuse i'm terrified to fail. But that waht this forum is about to help each other. I stall some days and i'm able to breath normally and not panic. We all learn along the way. =) Best of luck to you as well!!

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