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It's been a while, a long while since I posted. I've been so frustrated it's hard to see everyone in their successes. I was obsessing and made myself take a break. I was hoping for some encouragent and/or answers.

I was supposed to go back to work two weeks ago, but ran into some complications. If I walk too much (in reality no more than 1 mile) or do too much

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Sorry, my daughter pushed send ;)

If I do too much I get a shredding sharp pain from my side. It's coming from under my port. I had an X ray to make sure the port didn't move, and it was fine. I'm not a wimp about pain. this pain is borderline unbearable.

Three days ago the shoulder pain and abdominal soreness came back. Abdominal soreness I can deal with and even the shoulder pain to some extent. It just seems like one thing after another, and I'm wondering what next. I'm 8 weeks out, and willing to wait this out. I was wondering if anyone else had this and how it was fixed, or what helped. Thanks!

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Hugs sue. I dont have any answers for you but i do want you to know miss seeing you on springers. And your in my thuoghts for much success.

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I have experienced some complications post op, and have been in the hospital twice for evaluation...so I do relate to the recurring pain. They are still running tests on me...

Do you still have your gall bladder? During my post op journey, I have discovered that the gall bladder can become easily inflamed as a side effect of rapid weight loss. As with many other pain, this pain can be "referred", meaning it may be coming from somewhere else than from where you are feeling it. I may need to have mine removed...

I'm not saying this is what is going on with you, only suggesting that you discuss it with your doctor if you pain is not resolving as a possible explanation.

I really hope you will feel much better soon!

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Thanks ladies.

I still have my gallbladder and have had a couple of attacks, mostly before I had the lap band. I've only had one since. I'll keep that in my thoughts and ask about my pain being from that the next time I see my doctor. I appreciate the suggestion.

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I'd ask for a HIDA scan, to check the function of your gallbladder. Best of luck to you.

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Hope you are feeling better soon

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Almost six yrs out I still get cramps and.pain around my port especially if I fall asleep.on it or get constipated.. Also I have shoulder pain if I get stuck or when I get gas stuck up in my rib cage I take gas x (thanks for the suggestion fellow banders) and use a heating pad it usually helps

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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