Ok I'm going crazy. I was banded on May 15th and haven't had sex since May 12th and my husband says that I need to get an okay from the doctor, but that was one of the questions I didn't ask and am to embarrass to asked. Help???***

My hubby is starting to make noises about when... My hospital advice sheet said 'it is fine to resume sexual activity when you return to work' so he's waiting until Sunday night.

WARNING! THE FOLLOWING IS REAL TALK!!

I had sex the next day and while I never asked the doctors advice on intercourse I did ask about oral sex and his advice to me was "avoid it if its gonna make you gag, but if you absolutetly feel the NEED, go slow and dont swallow... until your on solid food"

That is absolutely hysterical! solid food.. hmm..

We waited a week and were careful of my stomach.

Dr. told me to wait 1 week needless to say i'm not a good listener. I had sex 2 days after my surgery! :wub:

LMBO- wondered why you called me "aspiring"...then saw under my name "aspiring evangelist"....I never noticed that before. I guess it has to do with the amount of posts you make...which translates into...I am a stalker that has no life!

I noticed mine changed too, I'm an addict now!

WARNING! THE FOLLOWING IS REAL TALK!!

I had sex the next day and while I never asked the doctors advice on intercourse I did ask about oral sex and his advice to me was "avoid it if its gonna make you gag' date=' but if you absolutetly feel the NEED, go slow and dont swallow... until your on solid food"[/quote']

This just made my day!!! Lol my "friend" asked ...well since you can't use a straw...does that mean you can't.....??? I laughed so hard my stomach hurt lol he looked like a sad puppy

I noticed mine changed too, I'm an addict now!

Which translates into...I kind of have no life....just wait you will be a stalker one day too....lol

This just made my day!!! Lol my "friend" asked ...well since you can't use a straw...does that mean you can't.....??? I laughed so hard my stomach hurt lol he looked like a sad puppy

I truly understand everyone situation but I'm definitely taking advantage that I can't use a straw meaning I might accidentally swallow. Lol

I waited 2 days...I wasted no time lol!

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I don't understand the no sex thing... We didn't get our vajayjays banded, what's the big deal??

I waited two weeks but just bc I didn't feel like it. It was fine and it also turned into my second NSV - next morning my hubby told me "baby I could really tell last night that you are down a lot in weight". It was sweet in a weird way. I am down twenty pounds and most from my tummy.

I don't have that problem!! Thank God for now!! Giving up Sex & Food for awhile!!

Dr. told me 4weeks but it didnt happen. I was just very careful