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I have been reading on LBT for a long time now. I have read lots of issues relating to the Band. I myself have experienced several complications post banding and eventually have had to have the band removed due to erosion. I would like to share some insights I have learned along the way.

Listen to your own body and be aggressive when it comes to needing something or just not feeling right. Try meditation and get in touch with your insides. Sounds weird but it works. I can attest to that.

Make your loved ones aware of your wishes if something should occur during surgery that was not expected and making sure the Doctor/Surgeon is aware of those wishes.

Set boundaries with your doctors and nurses by letting them know that when you ask for something they should not be condescending and dismissive. If you are concerned that your breathing is abnormal they should not dismiss it as you being anxious just to placate you.

This is your life you are talking about. This is your lifestyle that will have to adjust. This is your decision to make a change. You can do one of two things, either adjust or continue down the same path. One will work the other will not.

Remember the doctors, surgeons, nurses, psychiatrists, psychologists, receptionists, etc all WORK FOR YOU! You pay them so they need to make you happy. Sometimes they forget that part.

Didn't mean to come across as a know it all. I just wanted to share what I have learned since being banding and actually now that I think about it I learned alot of this while I was a RN for those 8 long years.

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thanks for taking the time. good advice i say! especailly the part about docs, etc. working for YOU! :clap2:

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Thanks Penni60....I am preband and you sure have given me some great things to think about. I've never thought about meditation, but it would make sense to get in touch with your insides b/c I've always listened to my head. :faint: Thank you so much and I appreciate your posts!!!

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You are more than welcome. Meditation is a great stress reliever as well.

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