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I went to info session this evening. Super discouraged and wish I hadn't even gone. Found out today my employer has an "obesity exclusion" on our BCBS of AL policy. The surgeon's office where I attended the seminar advised me they have no financing options and they don't accept Care Credit. A clinic in neighboring state does. I'm still considering the Mexico option, even though my bf & bestie both have a fit when I mention it. I am terrified of the debt w/Care Credit but just as terrified of diabetes, heart trouble, joint replacement, etc (all of which would be covered by my policy). I have some savings, but definitely not anywhere near $15K. Ughhh.... Any suggestions? Thoughts? Encouragement? BMI is 39, I'm 40 & ready to live healthy! Help :(

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Is the exclusion just for your particular employer? I also have BCBS of AL but with PEEHIP. Have you checked around with other surgeon's offices to see if they offer financing options?

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I can definately relate, only I went through all of the pre-op tests BEFORE I was Informed that my BCBS also had an obesity clause!!! That was 6 years ago. Last year I decided to bite the bullet and just pay for it. UGH!!!! I'm also getting ready for a TT and breast Reduction that I'll also be paying! My only advise to you is figure it out, whatever it takes. I gained another 30 pounds and aged Nother six years into my fifties by waiting. So wish I had figured out a way to pay six years ago. Best wishes to you. Hope you can figure something out.

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Is the exclusion just for your particular employer? I also have BCBS of AL but with PEEHIP. Have you checked around with other surgeon's offices to see if they offer financing options?

There's a clinic in Mobile that I'm going to call tomorrow and register for yet another seminar. If all else fails, I could possibly look into refi on my home. :/ My employer set the exclusion - And I'm a nurse. Lol!

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Cheaper in Houston. Worth the drive. I was self pay in Houston. Put it on a zero interest credit card so worth it!

Cheri

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On this forum in the self pay section someone mentioned a doctor in Dearborn Michigan names Dr Ali Elhorr or something to that effect that does surgery for less than 10k.

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I went to info session this evening. Super discouraged and wish I hadn't even gone. Found out today my employer has an "obesity exclusion" on our BCBS of AL policy. The surgeon's office where I attended the seminar advised me they have no financing options and they don't accept Care Credit. A clinic in neighboring state does. I'm still considering the Mexico option, even though my bf & bestie both have a fit when I mention it. I am terrified of the debt w/Care Credit but just as terrified of diabetes, heart trouble, joint replacement, etc (all of which would be covered by my policy). I have some savings, but definitely not anywhere near $15K. Ughhh.... Any suggestions? Thoughts? Encouragement? BMI is 39, I'm 40 & ready to live healthy! Help :(

I am all for Mexico....there are alot of wonderful doctors there. Just do your research. I have a group of girls on Facebook that go to Clinica Jerusalem in Tijuana. I am going to Mexico for plastic surgery in June. I believe the clinic I am attending also does lapband. It is called cosmed clinic. Google them and do research...I was going to originally go to Mexico for my band...then finances happened and it was put off. Then I got insurance that covered it...but my surgeon from Oregon was trained in Tijuana. Also, Mexico has been doing the band alot longer than the U.S. good luck to you...

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I did it in Mexico with Dr. Pedro Kuri. The price was $5000 and the experience was way better than expected. Beautiful clinic and he has been doing lap band surgery longer than most US doctors. His website is lapbandsurgery.com.

I have no regrets. His staff picks you up at the San Diego airport and drives you into Tijuana. You stay the night in his clinic that actually looks lie a very nice hotel.

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I would look around the US a little- seems there's a guy in Colorado who does it for fairly cheap and it seems like true Results is usually around 10k. I have no idea about business practices, etc of these places but have read about other self-payers going to them.

If you go to Mexico, make sure to set up a fill doc before. I have heard that it can be hard to find someone.

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Well... Went to a different seminar today. I've decided to refinance my home (I'm only 2yrs into my mortgage) and self pay locally. I'm super excited! Start the refi process tomorrow and first dr appt is next week :)

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Well... Went to a different seminar today. I've decided to refinance my home (I'm only 2yrs into my mortgage) and self pay locally. I'm super excited! Start the refi process tomorrow and first dr appt is next week :)

Good for you! I find out tomorrow if my insurance will pay. If not, I'll take the money out of my 401k. I'm so determined to do this. I'm 61 and have been dieting since I was 12. This is my last-ditch effort. I've done a lot of research about lap band and talked to several people so I'm psyched. Good luck to you!

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True Results in Houston was $9000 with a year of follow care and fills. My insurance also had an exclusion...however True Results was able to go in and find a loop hole that allowed me to have a hernia repair (which insurance covered part of) and the lap band at the same time. It ended up being only $5500 out of pocket.

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$5500 would be bettern than $9888, for sure.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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