Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

What To Expect In The First Consultation.



Recommended Posts

Hello Everyone,

I am new to this site and I have enjoyed reading many posts. I have my first consultation on April 9th. What usually happens in that first meeting? Before I was given an appointment, I had to fill out about 20 - 25 pages of information and return it to the Surgeons office, Is that normal?

I am meeting with the surgeon and the nutritionist on the same day, at my first consultation, is that normal? I am excited about starting the process, but I am also very anxious.

I have already completed most of the pre-requisites that my insurance requires. I think the only one that I have not completed is a psychiatric evaluation.

Any information would be helpful.

Thank you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Welcome LadyKay!

The program I am going through is totally different. I think different places prefer different approaches.

For me, I went to the seminar, then filled out a 10 page packet about me and faxed it into the surgery coordinator. After she got it, she got the pre-approval from my insurance company and verified my benefits. I then set my appointment to meet (all in 4 hour session) with the Nutritional Educator (learned about the procedure and diet afterwards), the Internal Medicine doctor to clear me for surgery, the Nutritional Educator again for a 1:1 reviewing my diet, 3 day food log, and what my personalized Pre-Bariatric Surgery Diet is. I then had a 1 hour class on Physical Education where a Physical Therapist taught us the fendamentals for exercising to optimize weight loss.

Once I got medical clearance (that is key) I then got the green light to see the psychriatrist for the psych eval which is two parts; today I took a series of tests (700+ questions) and next Monday I will meet with her 1:1 to make sure I'm mentally fit for surgery.

After alllll of that, I can finally see a surgeon. Luckily, seeing the surgeon is one of the last steps. After that, it's just one Pre-Operative Class, final insurance approval, then surgery. I'm hoping for a late April / early May date, but that could change. I started my Pre Bariatric Surgery diet on March 22nd (not to be confused with the Pre-Op 2-4 week of all skim milk diet I have to do right before surgery). It's super easy, and it's set up to prove that the patient can be compliant with an eating program and also be successful at losing weight. So far in 5 days I've lost 5.8 lbs.

I've only been at this whle process for 3 1/2 weeks and have made huge progress by being really on-the-ball. I'm weeks ahead of the timeline they gave us.

Sorry, I've said a lot, but just hold your head high and go along for the ride! Stay focused on the goal of surgery and time will fly by.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you jen_1381. That was extremely helpful. I hope I can move along as quick as you have.

What insurance do you have? Is the program regulated by the insurance or the surgeons office?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have United Healthcare. It's a program through the local hospital. You can't make an appointment to see a bariatric surgeon without first going through the steps. Its very structured and you're either in and committed, or out. You can't do one thing before another. Honestly, I know the band has about a 15-20% compliance failure rate and I don't know how with this program. It's so informative and actually kind of strict.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have Anthem BCBS and the process went pretty quickly for me. I was scheduled for orientation on Jan 17 where they bring all of the weight loss surgery patients in together and talk about the surgery types, benefits, etc etc etc. At the orientation, we also took a 370 question Psych test that was reviewed by the psychologist prior to meeting.

I was required to fax my insurance ID card in prior to attending the orientation so they could verify I was actually eligible for WLS. I was also mailed a large packet to have filled out and ready to submit on orientation day.

After orientation, I was scheduled to come in over a period of two or three days to meet with the nutritionist, psychologist, nurse practitioner, and physical therapist. Some practices actually schedule patients to try and get all appointments required done in one or two days, since there are so many people to get clearance from. I also was required to get a sleep study done (surgeon requirement, not insurance). After completing all other steps, I met with the surgeon prior to approval submission.

I was not required to do any supervised diet through insurance. I was submitted for pre-certification in early February and received approval in approx. two weeks. My surgeon only does banding on a certain day of the week and was booked through March for band dates. They worked with my time off schedule and I was able to go in as the first patient on a day when she usually does other types of WLS.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thank you for the information. It does seem like a fairly quick process. I have CareFirst BCBS and have met most of the pre-requisites. The one that I beleive would drag the process out is the 6 month of supervised dieting, but I have already completed.

So far I have attended an informational seminar, sent the surgeons office a copy of my insurance card and completed and returned a huge 20-25 page packet of papers.

I would love to have a surgery date in May or June, but I do not know how realistic that is.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×