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I have yet to be banded, but have seen quite a few people commenting on being able to tell when food or liquid has gone to the "other side" of the stomach, and has passed through the band...how the heck do you guys know that?!

Another thing i worry about is, how will I know when my pouch is full, how will i know when to stop eating...since clearly, im here for a reason, I ignore my body's signals of fullness, to the point where im afraid I will not KNOW when my pouch is full! I want to succeed, how did you guys tune into your band so well?

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Feeling stuff pass depends on your level of restriction. When my band is loose, I can't really feel it. When it is tighter, I can feel liquids sort of gurgle on the way down. Somewhat like a 5 gallon Water bottle on a dispenser. You sometimes see the bubbles as you are pouring Water into a glass.

With food, if I have chewed well, I don't feel much, if I haven't..I can feel it reflux a bit before it goes down. I even saw it on my last Upper GI. Very strange to watch it.

For how much to eat..for me, full hurts. I eat to satiety, then I am done. If I go to full, I am miserable. I have to pay close attention to what I am doing when I eat. This is especially true after my last fill a few weeks ago. A couple bites extra can put me over the top into misery. In our world, a clean plate is not always a happy plate.

You will learn, just be aware of what you are doing, don't eat brainlessly. That is not an option after you are banded. Enjoy every bite. Chew it well. Think about it.

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I quickly learnt that not paying attention to my full signals led to disastrous consequences. I have to pay attention to every mouthful and stop when I have eaten enough and no more!

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Full is painful - you MUST stop eating when you've eaten your portion and no more. I feel miserable if I overeat or eat too fast - sort of like the afternoon of Thanksgiving when you're just stuffed to the gills. I haven't had a fill yet (got 2cc's at surgery) - so I'm sure I'll have to relearn all my current signs again with the new restrictions of a fill. Trust us, you will feel it and you only have to over-do it once or twice and be in that pain before you say NO to cleaning that plate. I try to just put the portion amount I'm going to eat on my plate and I cut it into tiny bites as I'm making the plate so its done for me when I sit to eat. Also - leave your drink in another room so you don't forget and drink as usual with your meals. That is the only way I can NOT drink! You can do it!! Keep us posted :)

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      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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