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I'm so frustrated and angry right now. I'll start by saying that I'm a self pay.

I was banded 3/04 in Mexico and everything was fine. Had my first fill down there, and then was able to find a somewhat close doctor in the States for subsequent fills. I never really reached that "sweet" spot and noticed in '08 that I had almost no restriction, but I chose to ignore it because it was so inconvenient getting fills. Last summer, after gaining back 30 pounds, I decided enough was enough and started calling local doctors. I was very pleasantly surprised to discover that US doctors are now open to seeing people banded in Mexico.

Well, after getting 2 fills, turns out I had a leak. Prior to the surgery to take care of it, the doctor discussed that it was probably the port, but that he would do a procedure (can't remember the name) and check out the band while I was on the table. I told him to do whatever he had to do, including replacing the band if necessary. Well, for reasons unknown to me, he only replaced the port, which did have a definite hole in it and didn't do that procedure to check out the rest of the band.

I had to wait 6 weeks for the first fill and did notice restriction. A month later, in October, I had my second post-replacement fill and had good restriction. However, it didn't seem to last long and I went in for my 3rd fill a little over a week ago. I received 3 ccs and the doctor wanted to know if I lived close, because it was a large fill. I should note that I always seem to see different doctors for each fill. So, it's been almost 2 weeks and I have absolutely no restriction. I'm going back this week for another fill and will definitely discuss my lack of restriction at that time.

So, my greatest fear is that my band has a leak or the port has a leak. I've spent about $7,000 in the last 6 months and for nothing.

Also, my husband told me that the doctor explained the sleeve to him the day of my surgery. As I was sort of out of it due to medication at the time, I don't remember if it was pre or post surgery. If he had even discussed that with me prior to scheduling the surgery, I may have gone that route. Wouldn't have cost all that much more considering the cost of fills and other visits.

If it turns out that I have a leak, do I have any recourse with the doctor to take care of it for free or give me a drastically reduced revision to the sleeve? I think he should have checked out the entire system while he was replacing the port as I did tell him to do it and that I would consent to total band replacement if necessary. Of course, if this wasn't noted in my chart, it's my word against theirs.

So any suggestions on what I should do?

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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