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I was banded Dec 16th and have lost 48lbs since before surgery, 38lbs since surgery. Since my 2nd fill I have hit the crap stage I am calling it!

I am hungry again I have only lost 2 lbs in 3 weeks and I am waiting for my 3rd fill next week.

I was not really expecting such an emotional roller coaster afterwards. I am happy about the weight I have lost but I feel like it sucks that it has slowed.

I went jeans shopping and I have gone from a 22 to an 18 so thats something to be happy about but it still hard cause I just want to walk in and whatever I want to fit fit again. Ha ha. The expectations we as women have.

Oh well I am done venting for now I hope everyone else is doing good!

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I was banded Dec 16th and have lost 48lbs since before surgery, 38lbs since surgery. Since my 2nd fill I have hit the crap stage I am calling it!

I am hungry again I have only lost 2 lbs in 3 weeks and I am waiting for my 3rd fill next week.

I was not really expecting such an emotional roller coaster afterwards. I am happy about the weight I have lost but I feel like it sucks that it has slowed.

I went jeans shopping and I have gone from a 22 to an 18 so thats something to be happy about but it still hard cause I just want to walk in and whatever I want to fit fit again. Ha ha. The expectations we as women have.

Oh well I am done venting for now I hope everyone else is doing good!

We share a bandiversary!!!

I have lost a total of 57 pounds, but 9 of that was from August-November before my first consult, so only 48 of it has been surgery related. I hate to admit in writing (for fear of jinxing it) that I have been one of the lucky ones who have not needed a fill and everything has gone super simple for me. Sometimes I feel like I am cheating the system. I can pretty much eat what I want and have not had any stuck episodes or PBing. I THINK I recognize when I am satisfied and of course "what I want" is not the same as it was before being banded. For example, I chose a grilled chicken sandwich from Chick-Fil-A for lunch today, ate about 1/4-1/3 of it, then gave the rest to my husband. The (wheat) bread didn't bother me, but after that little bit, I was satisfied and done. I feel like I SHOULD need a fill, but I am afraid I would end up too tight and start having issues.

I know what you mean about wanting to walk in and fit into whatever I choose. I carried the majority of my weight below the waist, so my pant sizes have dropped considerably (from a tight 20W to a loose 14), but I read about these people fitting into 4's and even into 0's and I just can't fathom it.

People comment all the time about the weight having just "fallen off" and I am not sure how to take that. There were a couple of weeks that it dropped quickly, during my pre-op liquids phase and for a week or so after surgery, but it has been 1-2 pounds each week other than that. Sometimes I actually make it to 3, but this week it was only .6, so it averages out. Pretty much everybody at work knows about it (I teach) and have been extremely supportive, so I am very fortunate in that aspect. As a matter of fact, another teacher had it done a little over a month later (but had been trying to get insurance approval long before my consult...I was self-pay), and I have had 3 others get the name of my doctor.

So far the best compliment I have received has been from my 18 yo daughter. Her graduation present is a mother-daughter cruise and she was perusing the various excursion options. She was getting excited about all the cool things available and said...

"...and you know what the best part is, mom? A lot of these have a weight limit and you meet ALL of them now, so we can do whatever we want!"

Isn't it funny how we think our weight only affects us and not those of us we care about?

Well, VERY long rambling to your check-in. Sorry about that! It just seems like there are very few people out there that might actually UNDERSTAND my rant. Take care and keep in touch!

Renee

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

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        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

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