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's all right. I've been known to put my foot in my mouth a time or three. In fact, some days it feels like I only open my mouth to change feet.

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ha, ha, that's a good one!:lol:

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I was not trying to sound like a jerk so I am sorry.

hey youre cute wish you lived in my area,i would try to fix you up with my daughter.THAT'S FOR REAL

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Thanks, Everyone for the posts!! They've been really helpful. I've been distracted, and not in a good way. I'm having a serious Hair loss phase that's got me pre-occupied. I had problems finding someone when I had a full head of hair, I don't stand a chance now. :( Life sucks!

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hey youre cute wish you lived in my area,i would try to fix you up with my daughter.THAT'S FOR REAL

Thank you for the compliment. I'm still trying to get use to it since everyti e I look in the mirror I still see myself as i use to be

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How much weight have you lost? You are VERY handsome!!! I'm sure it'll be no time before you find a girl. How old are you? ;)

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Thank you for the compliment. I'm still trying to get use to it since everyti e I look in the mirror I still see myself as i use to be

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Thanks Redhead. I have lost 90lbs in total with the pre op diet included.

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Dating in your 30's can be tough. I only had the nerve to ask a guy out once (back in my 20's) and got shot down too. I never did that again because the rejection was too painful for me. I don't know how men do it. I've done online dating, meeting guys in volunteer organizations at parties, BBQs and at clubs. I don't date a lot but being social around men is good practice too. I've met some great people and some not so great people and many times have felt like giving up but the fact is this......even when I don't feel like putting myself out there, I still do it so I can at least have the opportunity to meet men.

Here's some advice. Give yourself a few weeks to lick your wounds, heal up and get back out there. Smile or make eye contact with every guy you meet, including the cute guy on this thread who asked you for your picture. It may lead to more and even if it doesn't, it will be good practice for you. I'm about to take my own advice.

Hi NYsLegend78! ;)!

You were probably good looking before the band. Don't kid yourself. You are gorgeous.

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Here's some advice. Give yourself a few weeks to lick your wounds, heal up and get back out there. Smile or make eye contact with every guy you meet, including the cute guy on this thread who asked you for your picture. It may lead to more and even if it doesn't, it will be good practice for you. I'm about to take my own advice.

Hi NYsLegend78! ;)!

You were probably good looking before the band. Don't kid yourself. You are gorgeous.

I dont know about all that but thank you for the compliment lol cause I honestly dont see it

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And a huge congratulations for not turning to food. You are definitely a winner and one day someone special will see that in you as well.

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Honestly I feel like the internet is the way to go these days. Use your common sense when you use the internet for dating though. Always meet in a public place, tell a friend where you're going and how to contact so that you're safe, but I found the love of my life on Craigslist, no joke!

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I dont know about all that but thank you for the compliment lol cause I honestly dont see it

You're always gonna feel that way at least a little bit. It happens to us all. Women, men etc. When you look in the mirror you still see and feel like that really heavy person. It makes shopping for clothes very weird. You're always trying to pick up clothes that are two sizes too big.

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You're always gonna feel that way at least a little bit. It happens to us all. Women, men etc. When you look in the mirror you still see and feel like that really heavy person. It makes shopping for clothes very weird. You're always trying to pick up clothes that are two sizes too big.

I went shopping with my girl cousins and was trying on form fitting shirts and there telling me i look great in it and all i see is my man boobs popping out arrg I hate it why cant I see it

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I recently bought one of those "Scene on TV" girdles (because I'm still a big girl) and the salesperson said I couldn't open the packaging and there were no returns. I swore up and down to myself that I was a 2x based on the sizes listed on the box so I had no problem plunking down the money to make a no-refund purchase. When I got home, I immediately ripped open the package and slid into the girdle. Dang! It was at least a size and a half too big. Its kind of a good problem to have. B)

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Don't worry before you know it Love will be close to you, Just give it time!

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