Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

I have a Date set!!!!



Recommended Posts

I have my date set for surgery. December 6, 2005 I am feeling mixed emotions scared, excited, nervous. I was soooooo excited about it but now that I have a date set I am really nervous. Boy....do I need to stay positive the 10 day diet I am not looking forward to. Does anyone have any suggestions how to make it easy? The date of my surgery is perfect, I start my 10 day diet the Saturday after Thanksgiving and I should be on Soft foods by Christmas. It must be a sign. LOL:banana

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congratulations! I hope to join you soon.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Shelly,

Congrats on your date!! I was just banded on 11-1-05. I know how you feel being excited, but anxious. I went for my surgeon consult on Oct 12. I went there thinking, well maybe by the end of the year I'd have a date set. Then after talking to my surgeon, they set my date just 19 days from then. I was scared to death. I thought, "Oh my god, I didn't expect it to be so soon!!" Then I was scared if I could be prepared mentally in just 19 days. They told me about the liquid diet for two weeks prior, but I started it the very next day. I was determined to loose as much as I could before the surgery to make sure the doctor did not have any problems placing the band. I lost 20 pounds by my surgery date. My doctor said everything went great!!

Now to back track a minute... On my drive home from my consult appointment (I live 3 hours away from Abbott) I stopped at Burger King for dinner. I also bought a package of Cookies. I was thinking - ok, so here is my last hurrah with food for a while. I ate my BK meal and then some of the Cookies. I had quit smoking 10 yrs ago and was thinking about that major accomplishment and how I had done that one. When I finally decided it was time to quit smoking I crumpled up my remaining cigarettes and threw them away. I figured I need the same type of mental committment from food too. So I took the left over cookies and one by one threw them out of my car window as I drove. Each time I threw a cookie out the window, I said something like, "Food will not control me again!" "I do not need food for support". By the time I got home, I knew I was mentally prepared for this challenge. That is why I started the liquid diet the next day. The first couple of days on the pre-op diet were still a little challenging, but after that it became easier. I think once you have the mindset that this is it, it helps you through it. Like I said, I wanted to make sure my surgeon had an easy time placing the band, so I'd have the best possible surgery. My pre-op diet consisted of, chicken broth, beef broth, Jello, Tomato juice, apple juice, pudding, applesauce, and most importantly - Protein drinks. I usually did a Protein Drink 3 times a day and sometimes 4 if I was feeling hungry. The Protein really helps control the appetite and cravings.

You can do this too! Just start working on your mental readiness and you will do fine on the pre-op!! Just keep telling yourself that this is only temporary, you will be able to eat almost anything again later, just in smaller portions. That is the good thing about the band. There is not too much that become totally off limits, so it's only temporary.

You can do it!!!! :banana :banana :banana I know you can!!!! :banana :banana :banana

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Shelly,

Congratulations! I am having surgery tomorrow at Abbott Northwestern

Hospital with Dr. Schwartz. Arrive at 7:15 AM and surgery at 9:30 AM. I have been on liquids for 15 days now. I would be curious where are you having surgery and what Dr? Good Luck and great to hear from a fellow Minnesotian!

Rrogulla,

Did you have your surgery at Abbott?

If so with who?

Was your experience good?

Were you glad you did?

Whould you do it again?

When was your surgery?

What was your post op diet like? (Details please if you have time)

I know I have lots of questions, but it looked like you had surgery at Abbott and if so I'd love to chit chat more if you dont mind.

Schel from Big Lake MN

__________________

Band date November 22nd 2005

Dr. Schwartz

Abbott Northwestern Hospital

MPLS. MN

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow!! That went fast didn't it!! Yes, the timing will be perfect for the holidays!! Won't it be great to lose weight over the holidays?? I am so glad for you!!! Will you be banded in Morris?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks guys for your encouragement!! I am being banded in Morris MN by Dr. Frotier. I have not started the liquid diet yet. I will start on Saturday....NOT looking forward to that. Any suggestion......what kind of Protein drinks did you guys like? I bought a case of Atkins when I was at Sams the other day. Now since its Thanksgiving time chicken broth has been on sale so I have been buying that like crazy.

Nancy...how are you doing, I almost called you last night. I am really getting nervous now since I have a date set. It almost scares me that it did go so smooth.

Thanks for all the support!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Congratulations!! December 6th is a great Re-Birthday.

Hopefully, I will be joining you soon with a date of my own. Preferred One has my info loading in their computer and it was assigned to Sue. I have Sue's extension & a reference # so I will be calling her tomorrow and hopefully getting an APPROVAL.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Rrogulla,

Did you have your surgery at Abbott?

If so with who?

Was your experience good?

Were you glad you did?

Whould you do it again?

When was your surgery?

What was your post op diet like? (Details please if you have time)

I know I have lots of questions, but it looked like you had surgery at Abbott and if so I'd love to chit chat more if you dont mind.

Schel from Big Lake MN

Schel,

Yes, I had my surgery at Abbott. Dr. Chute was my doctor. It was a very good experience, I'm glad I did it and I would do it again in a heartbeat!! I just had my surgery on November 1st, so I'm may not be the best person to ask about post-op diet. There may be some more experienced banders out there who could help you with that. I'm on my soft food diet right now and it is going well. I basically eat yogurt, cottage cheese, applesauce, egg salad, chicken salad with saltines, Soups. And of course, my Protein drinks!!! I've been keeping it simple so I don't have to worry about eating something I shouldn't and vomiting. So far, so good, I haven't vomited from anything yet! Sorry I didn't get you a reply before you went in for surgery. I've heard good things about Dr. Schwartz and I'm sure you will do just great!! I hope you are feeling well when you get home and read this. Take it slow the first week. Sip lots of Water, even if that is all you can do!! Let me know how you are doing. I'll be happy to answer any other questions you may have.

Best of luck!! And congrats on your band!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      Four days post surgery. I am sipping as fast as I can and getting NO WHERE near the goal of 60 - 80 grams of protein or the 64 oz of liquids. I just feel FULL. I don't know if it can still be the gas build up (I would think by now that would be gone) but it is a struggle to drink. And so far I have not had the nausea or spasms and don't want to wander into that territory by pushing too hard with liquids. I about passed out today as it was my most "strenuous" day. Went from second story to basement for shower and I was sure I was going to pass out. Looking back on my last few days I have had a total of less than 1000 calories. Am I just not getting enough nourishment in me? Once again a friday where I can't get ahold of the doc until Monday rolls back around so I am hoping maybe someone here has some experience on how to keep energy going. I do have fibromyalgia too and that may be where some added fatigue comes into play. How did you all fair with the goals the week after surgery?
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      2 days until I fly out to San Diego to have my Bypass Surg. in Tiajuana Mexico. Not gonna lie, the nerves are starting to surface. I don't fear the surgery itself, or the fact that I'm traveling alone, but its the aftermath that I'm stressing about the most, after this 8 week wait. I'm excited to finally be here, but I am really dreading the post surgical chapter. I know its going to be tough, real tough and I think I'm just in my head to much now that the day i here. Wish me luck, Hopefully I'm one of the lucky ones, and everything goes smoothly. Cant wait to give an exciting update,. If there is anyone else have a June bypass or even a recent one, Id love to have someone to compare war stories with. Also, anyone near San Antonio Tx? See ya soon with the future me. 💜
      · 3 replies
      1. Phil Penn

        Good Luck this procedure is well worth it I am down to 249.6 lb please continue with the process..

      2. Selina333

        I'm in Houston so kind of near you and had the sleeve in Dec. Down 61 lbs. Feeling better. Was definitely worth it. I hope the everything is going well for you. Update us when you can!

      3. Doughgurl

        I am back home after my bypass surgery in Tiajuana. I'm post op day 4. Everything went great! I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who have not encountered much pain at all, no nausea thus far and I'm having no problem keeping down broths and water. Thank you for your well wishes. I cant wait to keep up this journey and have a chance at better health and simply better quality of life. I know there will be bumps in the road ahead, and everything won't be peaches and cream, but at least I have a great start so far. 😍

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 2 replies
      1. Selina333

        I'm so happy for you! You are about to change your life. I was so glad to get the sleeve done in Dec. I didn't have feelings of regret overall. And I'm down almost 60 lbs. I do feel a little sad at restaurants. I can barely eat half a kid's meal. I get adults meals often because kid ones don't have the same offerings at times. Then I feel obligated to eat on that until it's gone and that can be days. So the restaurant thing isn't great for me. All the rest is fine by me! I love feeling full with very little. I do wish I could drink when eating. And will sip at the end. Just a strong habit to stop. But I'm working on it! You will do fine! Just keep focused on your desire to be different. Not better or worse. But different. I am happy both ways but my low back doesn't like me that heavy. So I listened (also my feet!). LOL! Update us on your journey! I'm not far from you. I'm in Houston. Good luck and I hope it all goes smoothly! Would love to see pics of the town you go to for this. I've never been there. Neat you will be traveling for this! Enjoy the journey. Take it one day at a time. Sometimes a few hours at a time. Follow all recommendations as best you can. 💗

      2. Doughgurl

        Thank you so much for your well wishes. I am hoping that everything goes easy for me as well. We don't eat out much as it is, so it wont be too bad in that department. Thankfully. Also, I hear you regarding your back and feet!! I'd like to add knees to the list. Killing me as we speak! I'm only 5' so the weight has to go. Too short to carry all this weight. Menopause really did a doosey on me. (😶lol) My daughter also lives in Houston. with her Husband and my 5 grand-littles. I grew up in Beaumont, so I know Houston well, I will be sure to keep in touch and update you on my journey. I may need some advice in the future, or just motivation. Thank You so much for reaching out, I was hoping to connect with someone in the community. I really appreciate it. 💜

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×