Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Can someone explain this to me????



Recommended Posts

Went for a physical on the 6th. Just a routine physical. Doc "mentions" lapband. I have been mulling, and researching, and thinking and meditating like a fool since then. Doc orders cholesterol, diabetes, thyroid, et. tests, and I have had high bloodpressure too so a 5 day blood pressure test.

Ok, so my husband and i come to the conclusion that i would LOVE to get the band. (its not like i haven't thought of WLS for the last 5 years) and its like ok what next.

Well I have a "follow up" on Monday to discuss all the results. We plan on telling the doc we want to go foward with Lapband. (were military and our MTF does the procedure)

I am ***** barely***** exactly 100 pounds over my weight according to metlife. Its been the hardest week of my life this last week, to NOT be on a diet!!!!! I am just like a fish out of water!!!!!! I've been on a diet every day of my life for the last 12 years!!!!!! So, Im NOT trying to gain, just not trying to lose................and its so hard im a mess!!!!!

AND GUESS WHAT??????????????? IM DOWN 5 POUNDS!!!!!! wha??????? lol. I want to be so excited but i just don't understand!!!!!!!! Its the 5 pounds that could make me INELIGEBLE for this surgery!!! How does this even happen???????

ARGH im sorry i just needed to vent i guess. Im so confused!!!!!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It really depends... I think most doctors and insurance companies go by BMI, not strictly "100 pounds." Find an online BMI calculator and see what yours is.

Uh, the "good news" is that the high blood pressure counts as a "co-morbidity." Generally with one or two co-morbidities, your BMI only has to be 35 to qualify for the surgery (which is less than 100 pounds overweight).

Try not to stress! Good luck! I guess you could drink a lot of Water before your next visit- and wear heavy shoes! :thumbup:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

thanks for the reply. As far as I have been able to find, tricare requires 100 pounds over weight, not BMI.............but someone on here somewhere did say tricare now uses BMI, so im not sure.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

i was self-pay but when i went to see my doc for a fill this past weekend, there was a new patient and she got on the scale and got back off. she put her coat and shoes on and got back on the scale and got back off. she then picked up her purse and got back on the scale.

there are ways for you to "gain" 5 pounds for insurance reasons and your doc should be aware of that. if all else fails.. a couple of ankle weights should do the trick!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Typically, it is a certain BMI AND a co-morbidity.

However - good luck to you!!! Lapband was one of the best choices in my life!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

They go by the date/weight that you had your first appointment with the doc.

I said the same thing to the nurse. I told her the insurance company would pull something in order not to pay.

She assured me they use that first weight.

:cool:

Edited by angermom

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

This is directly from the Tricare manual:

  • Is 100 pounds over ideal weight for height and bone structure and has one of these associated conditions: diabetes mellitus, hypertension, cholecystitis, narcolepsy, Pickwickian syndrome, hypothalamic disorders or severe arthritis of the weight-bearing joints
  • Is 200 percent or more over ideal weight for height and bone structure

I've heard that they stick to this to the T, but I'm not sure. I just had surgery last week and through the whole process had absolutely no problems with approvals through Tricare (from start to finish). All the approvals were also done very quickly. They should use that initial weight and since you have hypertension you should qualify. I was well over the 100lbs but I also have High BP too.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am just starting my journey with this. We are military too. The Bariatric clinic at Naval Medical Center Portsmouth told me BMI 35 with co morbidity or 40 without. HTH

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

thank you kind people! Does anyone know what criteria they use to determine if you are "100 lbs" overweight? I have seen that "metlife" chart, but there is a small frame, medium frame, and large frame. Then with in EACH frame, there is a low and high......................

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

According to my surgical binder, they use the Modified Metropolitan Life Insurance Company Height Weight Table 1983.

Met life ideal height weight tables references

Click above!

:cool:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

The rules for on base surgeries are different than off base. I had to do the psych eval, and had a long history of weight issues in my medical charts already but other than that I was just 100 pounds overweight with no co-morbidities. The huge bonus is Tricare had ZERO to do with my surgery since it was done on base by a military doctor. I kept worrying about Tricare until it hit me one day that I would not ahve to worry about them at all!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Kalipso said "there are ways for you to "gain" 5 pounds for insurance reasons and your doc should be aware of that. if all else fails.. a couple of ankle weights should do the trick!! "

Yeah what's worng with alittle fraud.:cool:

Regards

Hal

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks for the replies everyone! Linette that is great to hear too :-) Im still down the 5 pounds. Its pretty much in Gods hands at this point hhehehe but it sure is maddening at times!!!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I would pig out on some carbs and salty stuff. This will help you retain Water before your weigh in. Then, just cut the carbs and salt again after and drink a lot of water to flush it through. Best of luck to you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sooooo confused,

Don't fret yet. I was in the same spot as you. I had never been considered small in my life and then all of the sudden I was teeter-tottering on a refusal. Co-morbidities might be your answer. High blood pressure, high cholesterol, thyroid disorder, any kind of muscle or joint disorder are all considered co-morbidities and they allow you to have the surgery with a lower BMI. Ask about that at your visit. Good luck!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LeighaTR

      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Doughgurl

      Hey everyone. I'm new here so I thought I should introduce myself. I am 53y/o and am scheduled for Gastric Bypass on June 25th, 2025. I'm located in San Antonio, Texas. I will be having my surgery in Tiajuana Mexico. I've wanted this for years, but I always had insurance where bariatric procedures were excluded. Finally I am able to afford to pay out of pocket.  I can't wait to get started, and I hope I'm prepared for the initial period of "hell". I know what I have signed up for, but I'm sure the good to come will out way the temporary period of discomfort and feelings of regret. I'd love to find people to talk to who have been through the same procedure or experience before. So I look forward to meeting you all. Hope you have a great week!
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
      · 1 reply
      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×