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So my surgery is scheduled for Wednesday 3/31. As of today I am still waiting on insurance approval. I have been calling everyday for the past week a couple times a day and all I ever get is it is pending and they are working on it. The surgeons office is no help as all insurance approval is done through the admissions dept. All they can say is that they have submitted to insurance and all they can so it wait for a reply.

Talk about anxiety and frustration. You would think they would want a patient to relax and cut down on stress before surgery. Well that sure isn't happening... I could sure use a liquid diet..just not the kind the Dr's office has in mind :thumbup:

They told me to try back tomorrow 3/30 to see what the status is then. Thanks for letting me vent. Maybe they will have better news later this afternoon.

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Good Luck, I am sure that it will all work out.

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Hang in there. It will happen when the time is right. I hope it is Wednesday as I know how you feel. I was scheduled before and it did not work out. I am scheduled again for April 7 and I feel I am more ready now than I was then. Trust the universe and send out positive thoughts so you get positive back. Being stressed and angry is natural but doesn't really help.

I will be thinking about you!

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Thanks for the kind thoughts. It actually did work out OK. I got a call from the Dr's office last night saying that they are going to delay the surgery for a few weeks.

The issue is that I had a sleep study done which resulted in a sleep apnea diagnosis. My pulmonary appointment wasn't scheduled until 2/29. Both the pulmonary Dr and the insurance Co felt it was necessary to have me on a CPAP machine for a few week prior to surgery which is why they were delaying the approval.

This makes sense, but I just wish they had told me that and not caused me so much stress. I feel much better now about it.

Now I will just wait for a new date.

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How frustrating! I hope you get good news today. (I would be pulling my hair out!)

I'm kind of surprised they scheduled you without clearance. There's still the same wait, but it's a little less nerve-wracking if you don't already have your hopes up (and plans made).

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I know you must be frustrated, but it is better to find this out now and do well in surgery. It will happen when it is time. Then you will really be ready and do great!

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The rest of your life is a very long time compared to a few weeks. It seems huge right now but in the big picture, it is only a hiccup!!! Hugs!!!

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Why didn't your doctor just wait to schedule the surgery AFTER your approval? That doesn't make sense to me.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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