Positive people unite! This thread is being created for the sole use of positive people to give positive reinforcement to others in the group that we care about. We know that we may disagree on some issues but we will offer constructive criticism, objective suggestions, we will always give kind support even when delivering the occasional (but necessary) kick in the pants.

So, just when I start thinking I'm looking pretty damn good life slaps me upside the head. My first patient this morning, who has known me for 2.5 years, walked up and asked when my little one was due....uh, err, uhhh, umm...yeah. He meant no harm, but, well, DAMN.

Christie, were you lucky enough to be able to give him any injections or draw blood?

Karen, Thanks! To be honest, if I never lost another pound; my competitive side would be a little disappointed but the rest of me is happy with what I have accomplished.

Oh Elfie, I am so sorry for your loss! I have to agree with Karen and commend you on getting rid of the ice cream. I'd have finished it off, too. You do need to go through the grieving process.

Stacie, soy gets me every time! Salt doesn't do it, but something about soy sauce bloats me like crazy for a couple of days.

Karen, this too, shall pass. You had a great weekend, now get back on track! You can do it!

Christie, I have been asked that before. It really stings! Must totally sting now, after losing so much! It's all Steve's fault, leave it to a guy!

I got the results of my Upper GI in the mail today. All is right with the world. My DH did laugh at the line that says I have a "tiny" pouch created by the band. He said it isn't so tiny right now! DOH!

No hiatal hernia, no reflux, no esophageal problems.

Now I just have to find time to call my surgeon's office to schedule the fill. I am still playing catch up at work from being gone. Tomorrow I am facilitating a meeting. Hopefully I can grab a few minutes!

(((Elfie)))-I am so sorry for your loss! You definitly need time to grieve. That was part of your family.

Karen-It's not constant...just if I sit for a while when I go to get up it will feel like it's really pulling or ripping and then when it does start to act up it will do it for like a week. Then if I don't sit for too long it could be weeks before it happens again.

Denise-glad to hear your results were normal and you can go for your fill!

Hopefully this worked and you can see a before (but not really before because I was heavier just refused to allow pictures of me) and after...taken last weekend. Look out size 4...here I come (hahaha well..slowly anyways)

Edited August 11, 201016 yr by chickadee81

Bob, no, however, I've started growing out my nails in anticipation of his next prostate exam

Bob, no, however, I've started growing out my nails in anticipation of his next prostate exam

:w00t::lol::lol::lol::lol:

Bob, no, however, I've started growing out my nails in anticipation of his next prostate exam

Ouch! :w00t:

Ok. Fill Tuesday at 10:45am! Woohoo!

Bob, no, however, I've started growing out my nails in anticipation of his next prostate exam

:thumbup: LOVE IT!

Hello everyone, I came across this thread couple of days ago and been making my way through it reading all your inspring stories and helpful tips. This forum has made my journey so much easier. I was banded on July 19th & feeling really good. Waiting to get my 1st fill on Aug 31st.

A bit about myself. Im 46, single and mom of 2 girls (terriers) the 4 legged kind. I live in Sunny California, borderline Los Angeles and South Pasadena. Ive struggled with overweight since I was 3...thats when my inner thighs decided 2become conjoined twins. I did lose 100 lbs on Lindora back in 1996 and kept it off for 10 yrs then life thru a curve ball . Had been juggling the notion of getting banded since Nov of 2009 & now here I am on this journey with all of you & hoping for the success so many of you have already achieved & that are well on your way. When I started my journey I told myself to take it 1 day at a time. Wishing to get to know all of you better with time. Enjoying the journey :thumbup: but prepared for the bumps along the way.

I've not been doing so well the past 4 days. My 4 year old dog, Sophie, died last Friday afternoon and I've been spending the last 4 days alternately crying and eating. Ice cream seems to be my 'go to' comfort food. I *know* I shouldn't be eating for comfort but losing my little girl has really knocked my pins out from under me. I feel like I've lost a child. :thumbup:

I'm going to try to do better today. I've dumped the remaining ice cream in the trash. Getting on the scale this morning helped because I was horrified at how much weight a person can gain in 4 days. How come it doesn't come off that fast? Sadly, since my last unfill I do not have any restriction at all so I've been able to eat horrific amounts of food. I'm going to try to do better today.

I haven't been able to do my walk since Friday because I just lose it. Sophie was my walking companion. I tried to walk this morning while it was still cool, but just couldn't do it. Let's face it...I hate to walk at any time and this just makes it worse. Sophie at least made my walks somewhat enjoyable. Now they're just a reminder of her.

Sorry for not commenting on other posts this morning. Just too tired and depressed right now.

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Hi Elfie, Im new to this thread but wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. I was never able to have children so my 2 terriers are my babies. They are my family. I know how difficult this is for you and you do need to allow yourself time to grieve. Dont be so hard on yourself and take it 1 day at a time. As I have read through these post you have lots of love & support here. 1 of the best things about this forum are the beautiful caring people you meet. We are all here to help each other out during lifes tough times.

I've not been doing so well the past 4 days. My 4 year old dog, Sophie, died last Friday afternoon and I've been spending the last 4 days alternately crying and eating. Ice cream seems to be my 'go to' comfort food. I *know* I shouldn't be eating for comfort but losing my little girl has really knocked my pins out from under me. I feel like I've lost a child. :thumbup:

I'm going to try to do better today. I've dumped the remaining ice cream in the trash. Getting on the scale this morning helped because I was horrified at how much weight a person can gain in 4 days. How come it doesn't come off that fast? Sadly, since my last unfill I do not have any restriction at all so I've been able to eat horrific amounts of food. I'm going to try to do better today.

I haven't been able to do my walk since Friday because I just lose it. Sophie was my walking companion. I tried to walk this morning while it was still cool, but just couldn't do it. Let's face it...I hate to walk at any time and this just makes it worse. Sophie at least made my walks somewhat enjoyable. Now they're just a reminder of her.

Sorry for not commenting on other posts this morning. Just too tired and depressed right now.

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Melody,

I overlooked this when you first posted. Perhaps it was subconsciously because I don't know what I'll do when I lose my kids. They are literally the only family I have here.

Congratulations on having the strength to throw out that poison! It is liquor that I turn to in times of trouble and it takes a lot for me to put the bottle down.

As hard as it is, I'd try and replace her immediately. You have to get back into your good habits like walking the dog.

Good luck!

Bob

I want to thank you all for your comfort and support over the loss of my little 'girl'. Today was a particularly bad day as I was packing away some of Sophie's toys, but I didn't wallow in the food. One day at a time...

Welcome Isa Bella!

Thanks for telling us a little about yourself. Just jump on in the thread when you want.

Stacie, love the pics! You look great!

Leigha, you are one hot mama! So proud of you!

Christie, you are snarky and I like it!

Melody, I'm so very sorry for your great loss. Thinking of you.

Karen, I feel like we're on the South Jersey Frustration Express. I relate to so much of what you're saying. You are doing so well, and little road bumps present themselves just to keep us from getting complacent. That's my story, and I'm sticking to it!

I'm at 50% today! My fifth fill (two weeks ago) feels like it's kicking in (yay!), and now I have to really battle the demons of liquid calories. Trying to stick to my diet decaf 4C iced tea powder in Water and that's it! Dunkin' Donuts Coolatas and tasty custard stand milkshakes be damned! I'm trying to balance the stress of my summer (seems like life never stands still, never a break from a new happening to deal with) and my food choices. Seeing 157 on the scale today sure did help to motivate me to keep up the good fight!

And some NSVs -- the bathing suit I got in June is reaching the end of its usefulness! The bottoms try to fall off when I'm in the ocean waves (!!), and the whole suit is just otherwise too stretchy! Also, I went to Clementon Park (amusement park) last weekend. This was the site of my "Holy Crap, I'm fat!" realization last summer. It was nice to go on the rides this summer, forty pounds lighter. :thumbup:

Edited August 12, 201016 yr by sawyer77
typo!