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Everything posted by KathyM
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Anybody change their mind completely and NOT have the sleeve??
It's absolutely normal and healthy to be worried and scared. This is a life changing decision - once it is done, you can't reverse it. I remember having a last minute panic attack about 30 minutes before my surgery. I went through with it and have never looked back. I have lost almost 50 pounds all together, 33 of those since surgery. I too lost and gained wt a million times over the years, but I was tired of always losing the battle. I can't believe how much better I feel! The only regrets I have are that I didn't do it sooner. Don't get in a hurry. Take your time, read everything you can find, ask questions, ask more questions. When you are ready you will feel confident that THIS is what you want for yourself. That might be now or a year from now. It's your body and your life, you need to do what is right for you! Kathy
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Two weeks post-op enjoying hamburger
How did you feel after you ate it? Were you uncomfortable at all?
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Is it true? No Drinking From A straw
I tried drinking out of a straw at about a month out and had no problelms. I use them all the time now.
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Bag it......
lol - Jane that made me laugh! It reminds me of that saying "Skinny people are crunchy, like carrots." :thumbup:
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To go or not to go....that is the question
Go!! you will love being with your family!! I was there about 2 weeks ago and ordered a cup of a southwest chicken soup - it was perfect and tasted so good. I was completely satisfied afterwards and not too stuffed. Learning to not be scared when you go to a restaurant is a big thing post-sleeve, but there are always things you can have so don't stay home - you will be glad you went!
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Got to have...
I luv luv luv spicy hot V8!!
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So when does the sipping stop?
I am one month out and I don't have any problem drinking normally. I do have to be a little careful not to gulp because then I swallow air with it, but I can drink water and tea pretty much like I did before surgery. Can't do that with crystal light or any other kinds of drinks. Your body will tell you when it is ready, you can try slowly drinking a little more at a time rather than sips and see how it feels. If it works, then great - if it doesn't, then give yourself a few more days or another week and try again.
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white tongue, NOT THRUSH, any ideas?
I had that too for a while - it was really gross. I think it was just from a change in nutritional intake. It improved and then resolved after I started adding in alot more different kinds of foods. When it was just liquids and mushies it was worse, this is just my opinion but I kinda think that eating things with more textures helps clean that tongue off.
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For all of you self-pay VSG'ers.. Why did insurance deny you?
My BC/BS says it will "not pay for any services related to the treatment of obesity." It did however pay $27,000 for my knee replacement, it will pay for my arthritis medication, it also pays for my blood pressure medication. When I was researching my policy limits before my surgery I noticed that it will even pay for treatment of erectile dysfunction lol. It will pay for all of the effects of long term obesity - stroke, heart attack, nursing home care, etc. But nothing preventive so you don't get to that point. :thumbup1:
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July Surgeries
I was sleeved 5 wks ago today. Have been doing pretty well, and have hit that stall that everyone talks about. I too worry that I will fail at this like I have every other diet. Patience is not one of my virtues so lol, but I am trying to just take one pound at a time. Learning how much my tummy can hold has been kind of a challenge - those old habits of eating until the plate is clean can sure sneak back up in a hurry. I'm not really a puker, but I have had 3 times where I overdid it and it all came back up.:thumbup: Lately I have had some issues with head hunger - that restless bored feeling that comes when I am home alone and then want to turn to food again for comfort. Geesh! I need to get a hobby! When it's all said and done I love my sleeve!! I wish I could fast forward to next year at this time so I can see where I will be! Kathy
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One month out today
lol when you put it that way, then yes it is fast loss! When I read other's posts, I am amazed at how fast some lose, but I am completely happy with how I am doing. And....my boyfriend gave me a big squeeze the other day, told me that he could feel me shrinking and that I was stunning! I was on cloud nine for days.:001_wub:
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One month out today
I am officially 4 weeks out from surgery today! It has been an emotional roller coaster - the decision to do it, traveling alone and being oh so scared, learning to live a new lifestyle, my changing body. Through everything I have never regretted for one second getting my sleeve. I can see that I will not be one of those fast losers lol more of the slow and steady kind but I am okay with that. With the little amount I have lost since surgery I already feel sooooo much better and people are starting to notice, telling me that I look good and that feels awesome! I am in a losing stall right now, but I try to keep focused on where I will be one month, 6 months or even one year from now and I can hardly wrap my brain around the thought of the thinner me finally making its way to the surface! I love my sleeve and I love my new life!! I am never sure whether I should count my preop loss or not, my tracker reflects my loss since surgery. Here are my complete stats so far: Highest wt: 308 Surgery wt: 291 Today's wt: 267 Wt loss since surgery: 24lbs Wt loss since preop diet: 41 lbs
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Major goal reached - time to party!
Yaaay for you!!! That must feel so awesome! I am just over 3 weeks out, and I can't wait till I too can be at that 50lb mark! Keep up the good work!!! :crying:
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Birthday tomorrow - don't want to go to work!
Turns out it wasn't so bad - I had 2 little smokies in BBQ sauce, 1/2 of a deviled egg and 2 tiny cubes of cheese - I was stuffed! Luckily the ER was screaming busy so no one had time to notice. First meat other than tuna salad or deli sliced turkey, I was a little worried but it went down just fine.
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Birthday tomorrow - don't want to go to work!
Tomorrow is my birthday and I am really dreading going to work. Some of my coworkers know about my surgery but not all of them, and food is a HUGE thing where I work. People love to bring all kinds of junk to eat. I know my sleeve will prevent me from eating too much, but I was hoping not to have to take on this kind of situation so early out. Wish me luck!:svengo:
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3 Week freakout (post-op)
I am at the 3 week stall too. Lost 23 lbs, and there I am stuck. I think I just need to put the scale away for a bit, but once you get that taste of loosing, it is soooo hard when it stops. I keep telling myself that there is no way this won't work, I am eating only a fraction of what I used to eat and I am making good choices about what I am eating.
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Question about weight loss slowing!
I am 3 weeks postop today and have lost 23 lbs and have been sitting there for days!!!! I seriously hope this slump doesn't last long, it's so hard getting that wonderful taste of losing then it just stops
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Nsaids????
Donna - I hear you, I had to have a total knee replacement when I was 40. I had NO cartilage in that knee it was soooo painful and so awful!
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Three months
Wow! you look awesome! Way to go!:thumbup1:
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Nsaids????
I have been on a prescription NSAID for years for my arthritis in my knees. I resumed it 2wks postop and haven't had any probs as of yet. Just as Tiff said, I always make sure I take it with food. I seriously couldn't live without it and over the counter medications like ibuprofen don't cut it. I am hoping I won't need it after I lose my weight.
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Good Day
Sunshine - I am 18 days out from my surgery and your words could have come straight from my mouth!! Good job on all of the positive changes you have been making. I haven't grilled any chicken yet, but it sounds yummy. I think I can buy chicken "tenders" that are smaller pieces of chicken. I too can't stand the Protein drinks, and that has been a real struggle for me. Hang in there, you are doing great!!!
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Picking my doctor...Viva la Mexico
Tamboo I took about 2 weeks to get my passport, but you can travel to and from Mexico 3 times without it so don't sweat it if it doesn't come in time. One of the girls in my group didn't have hers and she didn't have any problems with that at all. Anyone who wants to can private message me or email me at kmacxx@hotmail.com and I will be glad to help you with what to expect and any questions you have. Dr. Almanza did a great job on my surgery and I have absolutely no complaints about him.
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Changes in friends
Thanks Will - Thanks for the boost - I know this will work, I just have to be patient. Not one of my finer qualities lol:001_tt2:
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Tummy Stretching? Opinions!
BJean - If you like ice cream, try getting the Yoplait Whips yogurt and putting it in the freezer. It is just like eating ice cream and they have a chocolate raspberry mousse that is really awesome this way!
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Do I need to be concerned about beans?
Tiffy That is interesting to hear that alot of people hit a stall when they go to mushies, that has happened to me, I am still losing a little but it definately doesn't just fall off like it did with liquids. I'm trying to get Proteins in first and really haven't missed the carbs too bad yet because the Protein fills me up so fast. At least I know the stall is normal. As for the refried Beans, they were a little piece of heaven when I went to the mushies! I have only done them about 3 times, but it is really nice to have something with that flavor. Yummy!!!:cursing: