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beachcitygirl

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  1. Pre-op diet sucks, but it works! I am down 14 pounds and can feel my ribs again. Laying down of course, but hay it's progress. I have been sick, and today I woke up feeling worse. This makes me vervous as I read a post about someone having to postpone surgery b/c of being sick. I am really excited to get this going! The last 2 days I have been kinda sad. I found out I did not have the support I thought I had. My middle son brought over a cheesecake from Kings Hawaian. He has never done this before. Anyways I am being good as I was tempted to at least snatch a strawberry, but I knew that would lead to disaster. As they sat around eating, and commenting how delicious it was, my lap band came up. They mentioned about how they think its the lazy way out, and how eating healthy and exercise is all a person needs and so on and so on.:biggrin: Really are these the same people who saw me try this a million times. Needless to say they dont have a weight problem. As they were talking and I was feeling so betrayed, I started thinking about this forum and how everyone is so helpful, and compasionet. I remembered I am not alone, and most of all I am not crazy, or week. I am so thankful for everyone who post thier feelings, and experiences. :wub: I'm thankful I have a place to turn to and people who understand. Because of this, I am able to focus on the positive. As I am writting this I have just decided I will not be sick, or nervous, ok just a little nervous. the point is I am focusing on the positive. 2 more days until I am banded. I will be thinking about my fellow April 29th bandbuddies as well, we can do this!!!!:w00t:
  2. Pre-op diet sucks, but it works! I am down 14 pounds and can feel my ribs again. Laying down of course, but hay it's progress. I have been sick, and today I woke up feeling worse. This makes me vervous as I read a post about someone having to postpone surgery b/c of being sick. I am really excited to get this going! The last 2 days I have been kinda sad. I found out I did not have the support I thought I had. My middle son brought over a cheesecake from Kings Hawaian. He has never done this before. Anyways I am being good as I was tempted to at least snatch a strawberry, but I knew that would lead to disaster. As they sat around eating, and commenting how delicious it was, my lap band came up. They mentioned about how they think its the lazy way out, and how eating healthy and exercise is all a person needs and so on and so on.:confused: Really are these the same people who saw me try this a million times. Needless to say they dont have a weight problem. As they were talking and I was feeling so betrayed, I started thinking about this forum and how everyone is so helpful, and compasionet. I remembered I am not alone, and most of all I am not crazy, or week. I am so thankful for everyone who post thier feelings, and experiences. I'm thankful I have a place to turn to and people who understand. Because of this, I am able to focus on the positive. As I am writting this I have just decided I will not be sick, or nervous, ok just a little nervous. the point is I am focusing on the positive. 2 more days until I am banded. I will be thinking about my fellow April 29th bandbuddies as well, we can do this!!!!:biggrin:
  3. Sandyjean I am very proud of you. First for asking for help, and then going to the Doctors. Good for you, I am glad you did not give up. I know I could not handle your schedule and try to do this as well. Sandi I am truly impressed with your advice to Sandyjean. I think it is amazing how people on this fourm are willing to reach out to help a stranger.
  4. 4 days to go until surgery. I'm down 14 pounds and lost 2 inches around my waist. I am so hungry though. My kids are sitting next to. 1 is eating a grill cheese and the other a BLT. The smell is rediculous. I am so fustrated right now. The only thing keeping me from eating is the whole liver shrinking.
  5. Congrats on the 6 pound loss!! My day is 29th as well. I am so excited. We should keep in touch.
  6. 6 days until surgery. I'm just trying to survive pre-op diet. I am very hungry, tired, headache, sore throat, chest congestion, and sinus hurt. Yep I am sick! A little stressed about being to sick for the opperation. I told my husband, I would just die if they postponed my surgery. He said to look on the bright side there would be no need for surgery if I am dead. Yea he thinks he is a comedian. Anyways, I am in good spirits, and still feel very blessed to be able to have this surgery paid for by insurance! Lots of fluids and rest for me :wink2:
  7. 6 days until surgery. I'm just trying to survive pre-op diet. I am very hungry, tired, headache, sore throat, chest congestion, and sinus hurt. Yep I am sick! A little stressed about being to sick for the opperation. I told my husband, I would just die if they postponed my surgery. He said to look on the bright side there would be no need for surgery if I am dead. Yea he thinks he is a comedian. Anyways, I am in good spirits, and still feel very blessed to be able to have this surgery paid for by insurance! Lots of fluids and rest for me :confused:
  8. Hi, I am 44 years old, hit my all time high wt. 250. At age 22 I was on un-suppervised liquid diet. lost 107 pounds weighing in at 103 and a size 1. Yea that did't last long. lol Anyways I am a mother of 6 kids, 4 grandsons, and just found out 30 min. ago, we have another on the way!! Grandbaby that is!!! My surgery is April 29. I am excited, nervous, but mostly wish my mom was hear for support. She passed 3 years ago. This is why I am so grateful for this fourm. I'll say it again everyone has been great!! THANKS
  9. I woke up yesterday with stufy nose, sore throat and chest congestion. This is usally follwed by a cough in a few days. My sugery is in 7 days. I just read someone else sugery was postponed until may b/c of sick with cough. I am frantick!!! Any suggestion on what I can do now or something I can take now to help from this turning into full blown cold. I really don't want surgery postponed.
  10. Moms can be tough. They think they are helping, but in reality it hurts. I know it is hard, but try to remeber she loves you and in her own way she thinks she is helping. I felt the same as you when it came to my mom. We were close but her comments made me so mad, and sometimes I really let her know!! lol. Anyways she has been gone for 3 years now, and I would love to have her bug me just 1 more time. Congrats on you weightloss. Your doing great!!
  11. Just wondering how we are all doing with our pre-op diets. This is day 3 for me. It really seems much longer :thumbup: I am starving, grouchy and o by the way I AM HUNGRY!!! lol I saw some post about this, they say day 4 it gets better. Knowing there is hope, and knowing there are people who know exacly what I feel helps so much. You guys have been a lifesaver!!
  12. LAP-BAND® date 4/29 What a shock!!!! My consolation was early January. All test were done by Early February. I went in for My gallbladder removal Feb. 22ND. I was told that day I was approved for LAP-BAND®®. I was shocked. I asked her if she was sure. She repeated herself and told me I could schedule surgery for 6 wks. I was so excited. Turned out she was wrong:cursing:. I was no where near surgery. I had to do 6 month pre op diet before paperwork could even be submitted. I was so frustrated, I cried. I started the diet very half hearted, OK, I really did not follow it at all. They were not very strict with me anyways. Dietitian thought 6 mos. was to long, and who was I to argue. Anyways I was looking at a date somewhere in August. This seemed forever. I did not think it was ever going to happen. I decided to past the time by lurking on different fourms. I happened upon a Gastric bypass group. There were lots of post against the LAP-BAND®®. I checked into the gastric bypass. Went to support mtg. at the hospital. Interviewed the Dr. I really liked him. The 2 years I spent researching the LAP-BAND®® went out the window. On April 8th I decided this is the surgery for me, no question about it I'M HAVING GASTRIC BYPASS. April 9th I receive a letter from my insurance saying I have been approved for LAP-BAND®®. WHAT!!! There has been another mistake made. My paperwork can not be submitted Until til July 7. I immediately called my Dr. to find out what is going on! Come to find out the insurance company accepted my primary care doctors records of my weight and diet I did through him last year. They gave me a date for my surgery. April 29th. Now I am stressed, and very confused. Remember I just decided yesterday, I don't want LAP-BAND®®. Now what I was on the Internet for 2 days straight, and very little sleep. I did get good advice from people, except for the mini war I started on one forum. I just posted a questionon about LAP-BAND®® vs RNY. I felt bad. After much more research and prayer I realized I was just panicking and really did want the LAP-BAND®®. I woke up the next day with such peace, and no stress. This is how I know this is the right thing for me to do. Now that I have made up my mind I stay off the Gastric Bypass site. I am glad I found a home here. Everyone is so encouraging and especially the veterans who tell it like it is. I even stopped cheating on my 2 wk pre-op diet thanks to their opinions and words of wisdom. I am hungry and grouchy. 8 days until surgery. Wt. 246 pounds Hieght 5'4
  13. LAP-BAND® date 4/29 What a shock!!!! My consolation was early January. All test were done by Early February. I went in for My gallbladder removal Feb. 22ND. I was told that day I was approved for LAP-BAND®®. I was shocked. I asked her if she was sure. She repeated herself and told me I could schedule surgery for 6 wks. I was so excited. Turned out she was wrong:cursing:. I was no where near surgery. I had to do 6 month pre op diet before paperwork could even be submitted. I was so frustrated, I cried. I started the diet very half hearted, OK, I really did not follow it at all. They were not very strict with me anyways. Dietitian thought 6 mos. was to long, and who was I to argue. Anyways I was looking at a date somewhere in August. This seemed forever. I did not think it was ever going to happen. I decided to past the time by lurking on different fourms. I happened upon a Gastric bypass group. There were lots of post against the LAP-BAND®®. I checked into the gastric bypass. Went to support mtg. at the hospital. Interviewed the Dr. I really liked him. The 2 years I spent researching the LAP-BAND®® went out the window. On April 8th I decided this is the surgery for me, no question about it I'M HAVING GASTRIC BYPASS. April 9th I receive a letter from my insurance saying I have been approved for LAP-BAND®®. WHAT!!! There has been another mistake made. My paperwork can not be submitted Until til July 7. I immediately called my Dr. to find out what is going on! Come to find out the insurance company accepted my primary care doctors records of my weight and diet I did through him last year. They gave me a date for my surgery. April 29th. Now I am stressed, and very confused. Remember I just decided yesterday, I don't want LAP-BAND®®. Now what :confused: I was on the Internet for 2 days straight, and very little sleep. I did get good advice from people, except for the mini war I started on one forum. I just posted a questionon about LAP-BAND®® vs RNY. I felt bad. After much more research and prayer I realized I was just panicking and really did want the LAP-BAND®®. I woke up the next day with such peace, and no stress. This is how I know this is the right thing for me to do. Now that I have made up my mind I stay off the Gastric Bypass site. I am glad I found a home here. Everyone is so encouraging and especially the veterans who tell it like it is. I even stopped cheating on my 2 wk pre-op diet thanks to their opinions and words of wisdom. I am hungry and grouchy. 8 days until surgery. Wt. 246 pounds Hieght 5'4
  14. beachcitygirl commented on s.smith's blog entry in Blog 90232
    Congratulation on your date!!!! Liquid diet is very hard, but there is a lot of support for us. I am amazed at the wonderful people here to help us get through this. I am on my second day of all liquids. We can do this!!!
  15. My consolation was early January. All test were done by Early February. I went in for My gallbladder removal Feb. 22ND. I was told that day I was approved for LAP-BAND®. I was shocked. I asked her if she was sure. She repeated herself and told me I could schedule surgery for 6 wks. I was so excited. Turned out she was wrong:cursing:. I was no where near surgery. I had to do 6 month pre op diet before paperwork could even be submitted. I was so frustrated, I cried. I started the diet very half hearted, OK, I really did not follow it at all. They were not very strict with me anyways. Dietitian thought 6 mos. was to long, and who was I to argue. Anyways I was looking at a date somewhere in August. This seemed forever. I did not think it was ever going to happen. I decided to past the time by lurking on different fourms. I happened upon a Gastric bypass group. There were lots of post against the LAP-BAND®. I checked into the gastric bypass. Went to support mtg. at the hospital. Interviewed the Dr. I really liked him. The 2 years I spent researching the LAP-BAND® went out the window. On April 8th I decided this is the surgery for me, no question about it I'M HAVING GASTRIC BYPASS. April 9th I receive a letter from my insurance saying I have been approved for LAP-BAND®. WHAT!!! There has been another mistake made. My paperwork can not be submitted Until til July 7. I immediately called my Dr. to find out what is going on! Come to find out the insurance company accepted my primary care doctors records of my weight and diet I did through him last year. They gave me a date for my surgery. April 29th. Now I am stressed, and very confused. Remember I just decided yesterday, I don't want LAP-BAND®. Now what I was on the Internet for 2 days straight, and very little sleep. I did get good advice from people, except for the mini war I started on one forum. I just posted a questionon about LAP-BAND® vs RNY. I felt bad. After much more research and prayer I realized I was just panicking and really did want the LAP-BAND®. I woke up the next day with such peace, and no stress. This is how I know this is the right thing for me to do. Now that I have made up my mind I stay off the Gastric Bypass site. I am glad I found a home here. Everyone is so encouraging and especially the veterans who tell it like it is. I even stopped cheating on my 2 wk pre-op diet thanks to their opinions and words of wisdom. I am hungry and grouchy. 8 days until surgery. Wt. 246 pounds Hieght 5'4
  16. My consolation was early January. All test were done by Early February. I went in for My gallbladder removal Feb. 22ND. I was told that day I was approved for LAP-BAND®. I was shocked. I asked her if she was sure. She repeated herself and told me I could schedule surgery for 6 wks. I was so excited. Turned out she was wrong:cursing:. I was no where near surgery. I had to do 6 month pre op diet before paperwork could even be submitted. I was so frustrated, I cried. I started the diet very half hearted, OK, I really did not follow it at all. They were not very strict with me anyways. Dietitian thought 6 mos. was to long, and who was I to argue. Anyways I was looking at a date somewhere in August. This seemed forever. I did not think it was ever going to happen. I decided to past the time by lurking on different fourms. I happened upon a Gastric bypass group. There were lots of post against the LAP-BAND®. I checked into the gastric bypass. Went to support mtg. at the hospital. Interviewed the Dr. I really liked him. The 2 years I spent researching the LAP-BAND® went out the window. On April 8th I decided this is the surgery for me, no question about it I'M HAVING GASTRIC BYPASS. April 9th I receive a letter from my insurance saying I have been approved for LAP-BAND®. WHAT!!! There has been another mistake made. My paperwork can not be submitted Until til July 7. I immediately called my Dr. to find out what is going on! Come to find out the insurance company accepted my primary care doctors records of my weight and diet I did through him last year. They gave me a date for my surgery. April 29th. Now I am stressed, and very confused. Remember I just decided yesterday, I don't want LAP-BAND®. Now what :w00t: I was on the Internet for 2 days straight, and very little sleep. I did get good advice from people, except for the mini war I started on one forum. I just posted a questionon about LAP-BAND® vs RNY. I felt bad. After much more research and prayer I realized I was just panicking and really did want the LAP-BAND®. I woke up the next day with such peace, and no stress. This is how I know this is the right thing for me to do. Now that I have made up my mind I stay off the Gastric Bypass site. I am glad I found a home here. Everyone is so encouraging and especially the veterans who tell it like it is. I even stopped cheating on my 2 wk pre-op diet thanks to their opinions and words of wisdom. I am hungry and grouchy. 8 days until surgery. Wt. 246 pounds Hieght 5'4
  17. Anyone know Dr. Madan of Beverly Hills
  18. Congratulation on getting your date. 4/29 is mine as well. I will pray for both of our success
  19. My surgery is April 29. I was supposed to start pre-op diet 5 days ago. I just started today. I did'nt know the diet was so important. I learned on this fourm about liver shrinking and other reasons why it is necasary. I was supposed to do 2 shakes and one high protien low carb meal. I have chosen to due liquid diet for the rest of the 9 days. Hoping to make up for lost time. Any thoughts on this? I am really worried about not being able to get surgery.
  20. I am having surgry The 29th of april. I had decided a long time ago not to tell anyone except husband and kids. However that changed sun. Had a family/friend reunion. I told everyone. Part because I am excited, but mostly because I was embarresed of my weight gain so I just wanted them to know I knew what they were thinking and I was doing something about it. Now I regret it.
  21. Has anyone used Dr. Madan of Beverly Hills?

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