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Jax - your comments "struck a cord" with me. My step-father was a prisoner of war and had major food issues, understandably. However, growing up I experienced severe punishment relative to food. It never dawned on me that these childhood situations might still be affecting my attitude toward food. These boards are very enlightening.

Day was hardest for me from late afternoon to bed time. Getting easier every day.

Had my pre-op testing today. Very nice nurse explained day of surgery routine and toured the surgical center facilities. Had blood drawn, urine specimen, & EKG. Also was given lots more paperwork to read in preparation for this drastic change. My focus now is more on the preparations and changes, than on the reward. Will see therapist tomorrow. This is day 4 of pre-op diet and it is getting easier. Joyce

My son-in-law had gastric bypass and has lost 170 lbs. Not yet at his goal and he has been shopping @ thrift stores until he reaches his size. Has found has real bargains.

Sincere congratulations to all 3 of you. Have fun shopping and wearing all those new clothes - plus enjoy the empty closets and cleaning out all those items that no longer fit. :rolleyes2:

Hi Mom, I'm not yet banded, but I love the Boca Burgers. Soy protein is something I enjoy. I will start using tofu again after surgery. Making shakes with fruit juice, 1/3 cube of tofu and ice cubes. yyumm and very filling

Sending good wishes and smooth sailing tomorrow. Joyce In Kansas City

Miss See_Ann - congratulations. So wonderful to hear that all went smoothly for you. Keep walking and following directions. And thanks for posting. Joyce In Kansas City

Wow - is this great for those of us Feb. 2010 to read. Thank you so very much. Joyce in Kansas City

Congratulations - hope day 3 is even better for you.

Jax - you GO GIRL. My daughter has verbally attacked me about my decision. I will meet with a therapist before, during and after to receive tools in dealing with these issues. I do NOT intend to share this decision with friends. Felt I should tell family. Fortunately, my husband is very supportive. This is the tool I feel I need.

My date is the 22nd - we can do this together. Joyce

Such an interesting thread with diverse responses and experiences. I remember mentioning to a dear friend (always very slender) that, due to illness "you are losing so much weight". She was angry - responding that others had also mentioned "how thin she was becoming". Her opinion was that she would never say, "I can't believe how fat your getting". What makes people think they can comment on my losing weight. A good point - and I took notice. She was informational in her comment, not rude.

Just what I want to read. No pain - no hunger. Nirvana.

Janelle - I began pre-op yesterday. Enjoy the sun in Mexico and the successful banding experience. We'll travel this journey together and with the others in Feb.

I'm jealous of Kathy & Mariposa. So eager to be starting the new life and having surgery behind me. Go team Feb. 2010 bandsters.

I'm on day 2. A shake for breakfast & lunch and lean cuisine for dinner. Doing OK - the beginning of NOT focusing on food and dealing with feelings. This is part of the journey and new habits. We can do it. :cursing:

Good job Michelle. Will anxiously await your return to the boards after surgery - and "Band new Girl".

I start pre-op tomorrow too. Also expecting headaches and severe moodiness. Here we go. If others could do it, so can I.

Tweety - How are you doing? Hope all is going well.

Sending lots of support with you Northern Mist. May everything go smoothly. Joyce in Kansas City

Congratulations - bet your son was happy to have you join the fun.

#1. Surgery date: 2-22-2010 #2. Kansas #3. Stephen Malley/Malley Surgical Center #4. Self pay #5. 66 yrs. young, 5'3" #6. 224/165 #7. Deciding factor? Self-esteem very low, & beginning to isolate. Tired of being trapped inside the "mask" of fat. Eager to embrace the life I deserve to enjoy. #8. Support of family & friends? Some family members are afraid for me - most support my decision. I elect to withhold my choice from others. #9. Concerns & questions -- will utilitze therapy to help make hugh changes the Lapband will require. i.e. no liquids during meals, small bites, chewing (not gulping), facing feelings and not numbing them with food. These forum threads are invaluable in offering the support and information to assist me and all of us.

Way to go ladies. And can you believe our mommies didn't want us to burp. lolol

Productive burping - also seen it shown as pbing :sifone: