BayougirlMrsS

I try to not eat late at night.

beside the fact that they went all the way over the edge.... why didn't they paint all of the brick? You know I have challenges when it comes to home decor and such.... this is why i need help.... like sophie..... and you....

no.... don't do that either.... Eat your portioned amounts. Even if you are still hungry after, never try to eat more.... stop and go do something else.

Is it just me or.... does anyone else take secret pictures of people in "what were they thinking" outfits? Please, someone, tell me i'm not alone...... lie if need be hehehehehehe . and now i wonder if someone out there has secret pictures of me in the same.....hmmmm

@ms.sss right..... that white "boob slingshot" thing..... like who looks at that and thinks.... yessssss this is for me.... not in the history of never ever.... and i don't even know why i look at jumpsuits..... they never fit and are always a foot too long. I'd pay more to have it hemmed than for the suit...... Short girl problems.

@WishMeSmaller..... OHHHHH I saw the perfect "skankified" perky boob dress.... https://us.shein.com/Solid-Mock-Neck-2-In-1-Peekaboo-Dress-p-2277372-cat-1727.html Like who would really wear this..??

@WishMeSmaller ..... this to me screams your name..... https://us.shein.com/Collared-Buttoned-Half-Placket-Split-Side-Dress-p-2185220-cat-1727.html @ms.sss you too.... Well Sh!t.... Now i'm on Shein looking at dresses. Tell me what yall think..... https://us.shein.com/Tie-Dye-Halter-Neck-Backless-Bodycon-Dress-p-2166870-cat-1727.html https://us.shein.com/One-Shoulder-Contrast-Panel-Jumpsuit-p-2102449-cat-1860.html https://us.shein.com/Ruffle-Straps-Crisscross-Back-Knot-Front-Slip-Jumpsuit-p-2233760-cat-1860.html https://us.shein.com/Floral-Print-Puff-Sleeve-Ruffle-Trim-Dress-p-2298139-cat-1727.html

100% agree..... You look great. I also suffer from "long leg envy".... @WishMeSmaller you look amazing

that last body con dress you posted in looks amazing on you.... Try Shein... If you are not in a hurry, you can get cute stuff and really good prices. I've bought from them a few times. Not the best of quality... but still good.

I'm trying to think when i left for a while i did gain weight. Not sure if that was from not coming, having the band removed, are the 30lbs gain.... i'm sure it all factors in. But either way, i don't miss a few of the people...... But, i do miss a lot of them.

You know.... i really don't know. but a very good question.... I do have a few that are doing ok..... one just revised to the sleeve and he is doing great.... down 100lbs

@alissajs....So glad your brought it up in counseling... and that he went with you. That is huge. as for....this... As for those telling me to stop being so sensitive and just get over it, I am happy that you might be able to do that. However, I am allowed to feel however I feel (whether you think that is right, wrong or indifferent) and you dont know the background I come from...just as I dont know your background. Something that hurts you might not hurt me, and vice versa. Thankfully we all have our place in this world. I'm ok with being sensitive at times. Its not always a bad thing I, like you, am sensitive and could not just get over it either.... I play crap over and over in my head. You did the right thing bring it up and the only place to go it up.... Maybe make a safe spot in your home where the two of you can come together and talk about you and your feelings... and him and his feelings. He is going through changes with you. But you can't keep it bottled up.

Yesssss.... me too. Plus you're never to old to learn.... Lots of people that are on my friend's list here don't come. but i have a lot of them on my fb page.

So I asked this of another friend.... but i'm extending here also.... Tell me about your favorite vacation. Tim and I are trying to plan something and we keep changing our minds.... We are Looking at June 1-5th. We want to stay in the states. Were thinking about the USVI of St thomas/John/Crox.....and it is still possible.... but we have to get to planning. Mind you.... I don't want to go where there are a lot of kids.... Relaxing is high on the list of things to do...... We were also thinking Napa Wine Train.... or down to Destin, Fl.... Really we could any place.

I remember Lipstick...... she hated me .... good riddance b*tches..... I think she may have gotten kicked off that one too. I do miss my friend Dub. I do still talk to a lot of people that dont come her anymore. Most all have gained all their weight back. Two that were my inspirations.....

i do remember the name.

how did i miss this.....

Just because you CAN eat a lot of food, doesn't mean you SHOULD. The dr. and NUT give you a plan to follow. It's for a reason. Portion control ............ and remember you can't eat what you don't buy.

I will admit I have a few.... but like someone said, been here so long, they have weeded themselves out. I'm sure I'm on a few as I know I can be blunt. Have had some differences of opinion.... But there is a few people still here that think they are the "be all". I like coming here and meeting people, talking, helping, and have them help me. Just for the record.... If you can read this..... it means I like you.

@Tim C Congrats.... So proud of you.

why are yall having to stay in for 4 weeks? Is covid on the rise there? Don't hate me, but things are opening up more and more. Cases are way down. Mr. got his vacc #1 was ok, shot #2 was horrible..... he got super sick. High fever, chills, shakes, body aches he most slept for about 2 days. He said it was worse than when he had Covid.... I sure hope things get back to normal.... soon. We have a vacation planned to St. Thomas in June....

@Arabesque Its still here as of Wednesday am. No streaking no color transfer.... this might be a winner.

I tried a self tanner on my wrist..... this one is a spray and supposed to be for the face. What do you think? https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B081KHK72J/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 I only sprayed once this am at 6..... this was 8 hours later

@alissajs Ok, so if i'm reading this correctly, you have been married for just over a year. Is that correct? And if I read between the lines, he did something besides this that is already put your marriage on alert..... Is this correct? Coming from my POV.... I can see where it could be hurtful what he said. But, like a few have said, women don't have the same POV as men in certain situations. "Most" men can get over things more quickly..... I bet he didn't even realize what he said (not excusing it)..... I, like you, would be going over it in my head again and again. I have a husband now that easily picks up on my feeling (normally written all over my face). My x did not. But he really didn't care either. He was/still is a very self-centered controlling man. If you continue to "let it go".... next thing you know... You will have years of resentment..... till you are planning your husband's death in your head while you lay next to him in bed..... Just saying it could happen. From experience, this will fester like a boil on a butt..... Eventually, you are going to have to pop it and let the healing begin. It will either go away or take over your entire a$$. If you guys can't handle this, please don't have any kids.... at least not till you had years of therapy....Imagine all the problems you have now x1000000000000..... and now you have another human involved.

@kristieshannon How did the visit go on Friday?.... I pm'd you