Daveo

was sleeved on Feb 9th 2015 with BMI of 73.1 now at 61.5! starting weight 467 and as of last week 393.

Oh my gosh!! That's awesome!!!

was sleeved on Feb 9th 2015 with BMI of 73.1 now at 61.5! starting weight 467 and as of last week 393.

was sleeved on Feb 9th 2015 with BMI of 73.1 now at 61.5! starting weight 467 and as of last week 393.

wow, hottie!

Hey everyone! I have a youtube channel where I am vlogging my weight loss journey check it out when you get a chance. Youtube.com/bsbeautymix
Also if you have a youtube channel comment below so me and others can check it out.

You look like a normal, healthy weight to me.
I've told this story before, and I'll tell it again. I'm not there yet, but my husband who had RNY almost 9 years ago was complaining to his surgeon about this very same subject. He went from 300lbs down to about 170lbs. He was getting all the "You look like you have AIDS, Cancer, etc.." and the "You're too skinny! Put on some weight!" comments.
His surgeon shrugged his shoulders and said "There are so many overweight and obese people these days, nobody even knows what a normal, healthy weight looks like anymore".
Made sense to me.

wow, hottie!

Well you ladies are rare, most don't like big men.

I actually find myself attracted to larger men. It's harder to meet them than you might think! And guess what? Most of them prefer to date thinner women.

Any single ladies on here? I'm looking for someone to talk with and see what could develop. Either an awesome friendship or maybe more doesn't matter, just looking for a cool woman to get to know.

Isn't this the guy's room? If you can't be nice.. Or offer advice other than to compare to your own husband and tell people to grow up, not sure why you are even in here!

Yeah I signed up last night. I have no problem going on Online Dating sites it is getting responses back. lol
I may try meet up and see if I can find a group or something. My problem is socializing, I work mid shift so I am always working at the time most people have off.

Just stay away from the FriendZone ... recently heard it referred to as 'Palcatraz'
-RC-

Any single ladies on here? I'm looking for someone to talk with and see what could develop. Either an awesome friendship or maybe more doesn't matter, just looking for a cool woman to get to know.

So I had VSG on 2/9/15 and was 467 going in and now I am 394 which I am down 73 lbs. I am feeling good but am very lonely. I work and go home no friends to hang out with other than work and they are all working on my days off. Been thinking of online dating but being a big guy I don't think I would have much luck right now. Just wondering if it is best to wait on trying to date until I shed more weight or should I start now? Would be nice to find someone to be active with and have someone. Any thoughts?

Yeah church is but then you got to deal with some serious religious stuff. I am not very religious.

So I had VSG on 2/9/15 and was 467 going in and now I am 394 which I am down 73 lbs. I am feeling good but am very lonely. I work and go home no friends to hang out with other than work and they are all working on my days off. Been thinking of online dating but being a big guy I don't think I would have much luck right now. Just wondering if it is best to wait on trying to date until I shed more weight or should I start now? Would be nice to find someone to be active with and have someone. Any thoughts?

I'm so flipping excited!!!! I joined a gym today and signed up for twelve sessions with a personal trainer starting tomorrow! This is it. I am starting the next phase of my weight loss adventure. I joined XSport near my office. Can't wait to get started!

Thanks Kathy! Hopefully I'll meet someone, otherwise I'll be walking alone every night.

The dreaded "friendship" lol, yeah I have had plenty of those. I would really like to find a friend right now but even that seems impossible to find at the moment.

@@CanyonBaby you bring up a good point! I think I will have to do some research in my area. There has to be some good women in Sin city. haha

@@Daveo
So here's an idea about that...church stuff...maybe research the churches in your area. Some are very open, freer-thinking than churches of the past. If you find one that is interesting, but doesn't require much, if any, commitment, it may be an idea to go and visit (and check out the sweeties). A lot of them now have singles activities, and age-focused groups.
I've always had the philosophy of "what can it hurt? At least I would make new friends". And if you don't like it, don't go back.
ANd most of the time the activities are very inexpensive, if not free. Worth a try!

Any single ladies on here? I'm looking for someone to talk with and see what could develop. Either an awesome friendship or maybe more doesn't matter, just looking for a cool woman to get to know.

Any single ladies on here? I'm looking for someone to talk with and see what could develop. Either an awesome friendship or maybe more doesn't matter, just looking for a cool woman to get to know.