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    AvaFern got a reaction from Suko75 in 60 pounds :(   
    I am 10 months out and I have lost 82 pounds...so, not much more than you! It's just a process. I will hopefully be very close to goal by my 1 year surgiversary and hopefully you will be to. I just have to remind myself that it's a marathon and not a sprint and everyday you get closer to the new person that you're going to become! Good luck!
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    AvaFern reacted to Jenny12 in Checking in...18 months post op   
    Hi everyone! I don't come around as much as I used to (Or should!!!), but I wanted to pop in and post an update on how I am doing. I am about 18 months post op. My highest weight was 206, and my lowest weight was 112. I reached goal of 125 lbs about 10 months after surgery, but I continued to lose. I have regained a little (I needed to, my butt disappeared). I'm at about 118-119 lbs right now. I'm wearing a size 2 in most brands. I wish I could say that I know the road ahead looks easy, but it doesn't at all. I will have to kick and fight my way ahead if I want to maintain this weight. I don't really rely on "restriction" much anymore. I can't eat as much as I could before surgery, but believe me, I can still put the food away! Just takes a little longer. since I was trying to regain a little, I wasn't watching my intake as much, and am pretty shocked sometimes at the amount I can eat. I did recently (two months ago) come off of my birth control (May get back on it), but I notice my appetite is pretty intense right before my period and I'm also able to eat more during this time (less restriction). Not sure why, but it is noticeable. Junk food is so easy to eat. So easy. And actually all food is pretty easy for me...I never had any issues eating anything. To this day I can eat bread and Pasta without a second thought. Nothing makes me sick. I haven't weighed my portions in a while, I'm at a point where I can eyeball things. If I were to guess, I'd say I can eat 8 ounces Protein and a side. But I get hungry very quickly. Usually within an hour I am hungry again, regardless of what I eat. It must go through my system so much faster than before surgery. Because even before surgery, my last meal stayed with me longer than it does now. The full feeling I have now isn't the same feeling as it was right after surgery or even at a year post op. Instead of a really painful pressure, like not a single bite more will fit, it's now kind of like just a normal full feeling similar to before surgery (but of course I reach that feeling sooner now). I'm not sure if it's because I've learned to stop eating at the right time, but I think it's more that my stomach has relaxed a lot and this is just how it is now. I do miss the painful restriction feeling. I'm still glad I chose to have the surgery. It wasn't easy but it's been rewarding and at the end of the day I can't sit down and eat an entire large pizza anymore, and I think that's a very great thing. I hope you all are doing well!! - jenny
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    AvaFern got a reaction from Suko75 in 60 pounds :(   
    I am 10 months out and I have lost 82 pounds...so, not much more than you! It's just a process. I will hopefully be very close to goal by my 1 year surgiversary and hopefully you will be to. I just have to remind myself that it's a marathon and not a sprint and everyday you get closer to the new person that you're going to become! Good luck!
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    AvaFern reacted to Vixynne in One Year Post Op -- My Progress Pic!   
    I was sleeved July 1, 2013 by Doctor Rayford Kruger at Tobey Hospital in Massachusetts. Here's my official before/after pic, with my stats for both the day of my surgery, and my one year surgiversary. It's mindblowing to me that not only am I NEVER again going to shop in the Plus Size section of any store, but I will willingly step in front of a camera, while wearing a bathing suit. Who is this person?!
    I have absolutely NO regrets and consider this surgery to have been a total success. For the first time in decades, I'm proud of the way I look and how hard I fought to achieve it, with my sleeve's help. Happy Independence Day, indeed!!

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    AvaFern reacted to Kfree401 in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    So relieved to hear back from you AvaFern. I was actually a little anxious to be able to get back online tonight. I was really afraid I might have offended you and others with what might seem negative. It does sound as if you have done your research very well. And our family has since found out that the 5-6 hour time limit is all any reputable surgeon and anesthesiologist would consider for an elective surgery.
    I am going through the process myself to get sleeved. I hope to get over all the necessary hurdles in the next few months. I wish you all the best and I will keep following your journey!
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    AvaFern got a reaction from Kfree401 in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    I am so very sorry that you lost your sister. Thank-you for telling me your story. My doctor has a 5/5 on RealSelf and he's probably the best in my region. I actually went to him after I had already scheduled Lipo with another office because I wanted him to do my augmentation. The first time I met with him I mentioned I was doing lipo elsewhere and he did not mention having anything else done at that time. I then went back 2 days later and asked what he thought of the lipo recommended and at that point he suggested the Tummy Tuck. Everything that was suggested by him was something that I brought up first, so I did not feel as if they were selling me on something I didn't need.
    I am nervous about the surgery, but I did research it and the surgeon very well. Again, thank-you for your post and I'm sorry that your family lost your sister.
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    AvaFern reacted to CowgirlJane in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    Okay, I am relieved to hear - 5-6 hours is what most usa plastic surgeons cap it due to the general anesthesia so that sounds good.
    Arms - well, all the Julian Michael's workout DVDs in the kingdom did not get rid of my extra arm skin...haha... it took plastics. I will say that I didn't have any fat left on my arms by the time I went into surgery but i have a muscular body type so have good definition, but not alot of bulk. Of course, I lost over 160# and more like 185# from my lifetime high... so I had skin!
    Your procedures are different than mine but one thing to think about is putting stuff in reach for the first 2 weeks. I am not sure if it is due to the breast work or the arm work, but I wasn't supposed to do a bunch of reaching and lifting etc - even light things. My caretaker put a towel on the counter with drinking glasses, plates, flatware - so I didn't have to reach over my head or struggle with a drawer or anything. Not sure it was absolutely needed, but it was a nice to have.
    Line up some books, movies, friends to visit whatever charges you up and helps with boredom. Do NOT do what I did which was binge on all seasons of Walking Dead on netflix. What a freaking depressing show!!! LOL
    Even though I had nearly two weeks of nursing care, I still needed help after i got home - mostly with my garments. Talking those bad boys on and off for the daily shower and bandage changing routine was not something I could do myself at first. I am thinking yours will be simpler since I had a lower body lift plus other procedures. I think with a Tummy Tuck, they use a binder which is easier to manage. I am not sure how they compress you after Lipo, but you might be shocked at how challenging those garments can be especially if you still have drains or whatever.
    Good luck to you - you will love your new body!
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    AvaFern reacted to CowgirlJane in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    Kfree I am so sorry for your loss and it is a good reminder...
    Ok, it's well known I had multiple procedures at once. I don't take that lightly however. I wasn't sure how to reply because I want to be supportive,I had multiple procedures,but there is something uncomfortable for me in your description. I have no idea if my comments are on target but it is what I would mention to a friend to encourage her to seek more information.
    Let me start by saying none of the USA surgeons I consulted would do a 10hour surgery due to the risk of general anesthesia. My surgery was 9hours and was done with a twilight sedation combined with an epidural. The surgeon and his anesthesiologist specializes in this situation and had done hundreds of similar jumbo procedures before me. I was healthier and fitter than many. He has never lost anyone, never had someone go into ICU, but I still recognised it was a big deal to do so much at once.
    I had no Lipo and I am concerned with how much you describe. I have talked to several people who had lots of lipo and it is very painful and does not always deliver results. Have you seen before and afters of patients who are similar to you that had all that lipo? I know very little about lipo but I thought the garments are key to lipo results so it worried me that he is doing so much but you expect to wear the garments only 2-4 weeks. I was required to wear garments for 6 weeks and then voluntarily wore stage 2 ones another 6-8 weeks on my tummy for my own comfort.
    Do you have realistic expectations of results-that comes from looking at similar people.
    Why not wait until you are at goal? You were sleeved less than a year ago. I am unclear if you plan to try to get to goal between now and Aug 20th but now is the time to be building up strength, having lots of Protein, preventing anemia etc. It really isn't the time to try to crash diet lose weight. Now I did lose a few pre op because I was a bundle of nerves....but I was getting lots of Protein, wholesome foods and exercise.
    How many consults did you have? I had several and was shocked by the range of opinions and recommendations....very educational. Does your surgeon have great reviews on real self.com?
    I had a breast lift and augmentation. I was lucky that he was able to do it without the T scar...just the lollipop. 8 months out and breast scar is invisible. For me I wanted to see tons of breast pix for fear of looking artificial. I am pleased with my results.
    On the pain topic...I experienced very little. I had strong meds the first 3 days while I was in the clinic and after that Tylenol. However,ladies who had lipo hurt more. The recovery was long slow and difficult because of the severe restrictions on activity. I found that harder than expected.
    So I apologize if I offended and it could be that my concerns are way off base. All I know is what I learned going through my journey and the year I spent researching, doing consults and most insightful was the time on social media with fellow patients of my surgeon Dr Sauceda. I followed stories of perfect outcomes and a few complications. It's why I was hardcore about following Dr orders.....I wanted to do way more activity but that is strongly correlated with certain complications so I went stir crazy instead.
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    AvaFern reacted to Kfree401 in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    AvaFern, please, please find out everything that you can about your surgeon. I almost feel like I shouldn't say this because I don't want to unduly alarm you, but I feel compelled, so here I go...my beautiful 49 year old sister died 3 days after having all of the same procedures done at one time. She was a successful sleever and she decided to go for this body sculpting about 2 years after her sleeve. She was in surgery for about 10 hours and they removed about 1500 ml of fat. She went home from the hospital and went into cardiac arrest the very next day. A very fine team of skilled doctors and nurses could not save her.
    Maybe there are a lot of details that you have left out about your decision-making process, but it sounds like you went in for a consultation with a few modest requests and left with a long list of stuff to be done. I am really not trying to discourage you with my horror story, I'm only begging you to be as fully informed as possible. Please make sure you are going into this with your eyes wide open. I can't change what happened to her, but I think it's important to share her tragedy with other good people so that plastic surgeons (not all are greedy and unethical) can't harm innocents. My heart is heavy as I write this, and I'm wavering as I prepare to post the message, but as I said earlier, I feel compelled to do so. Good luck and may your journey take you where you are happy.
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    AvaFern got a reaction from BeagleLover in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    I had my sleeve surgery last year on 9/9/13 and I have lost 79 pounds since. I am now about 29 pounds away from my goal and today I scheduled a breast augmentation and lift, a Tummy Tuck and Lipo for my flanks, lower back, and inner thighs. Until this week I had never heard the words mastoplexy and abdominoplasty before, so I added two words to my vocabulary by just visiting the plastic surgeon. I had hoped for only a regular boob job (aka: just a minor augmentation) but apparently, they also require a bit of a lift too. The extra scar concerned me a bit, but I suppose I can either have a scar or droopy girls, so the scar it is!
    I had also originally only wanted lipo on my lower stomach, but my surgeon felt that the full tummy tuck would give me more the results I was looking for. He nixed my idea for lipo on my knees (apparently they aren't as fat as I think they look) but agreed with lipo on my inner thighs, flanks, and lower back/ upper bum area. I was also pleased to find out that he only recommends wearing the compression garment for 2-4 weeks as opposed to another place that required it for 2 months. I had originally intended to have the lipo done at a dermatology office, but they required each area be done on a different day and I couldn't imagine drawing out my misery that long, plus an additional surgery with the plastics guy.
    My only bummer in this situation (outside of the lift requirement issue) was that my arms can't be fixed without either doing some serious lifting or with a brachioplasty. I've always had biggish arms so I'm hoping that with a little work in the gym I can tame the flabbiness a bit without having any surgery on them. Anyone had success with that?
    I decided to wait 2 months so that I could be within the 15% of weight loss goal that is recommended before having cosmetic surgery. Everything is scheduled for the same six hour surgery on August 20! I paid my deposit and this time 8 weeks from now I will be quite miserably in pain, lol.
    My questions for you all would be...
    Has anyone else had this particular combination of surgeries done at the same time or even individually? How horrible was the pain? I feel like I have a generally high tolerance level, but reading the descriptions of the surgeries and watching them online makes me cringe in anticipation of what looks roughly equivalent to being chewed on by a shark.
    For those of you who have had procedures done, what was your recovery time like...both mentally and physically? I can do my job laying in bed if neccessary, but I'd rather not be working while I'm high on pain medication. How long until you could switch to basic Tylenol or something that didn't make you loopy? Also, how long until you could walk like you didn't just have your skin cut off?
    Ladies...what cc size did you have placed? My surgeon feels confident we've chosen the right size, but I'm still nervous about waking up and looking like I have two cantaloupes on my chest.
    Overall...if you did have any of these surgeries done, are you happy with the results?
    Is there anything I need to absolutely have with me or at home after surgery? Like before the sleeve I had my gas-x strips and a heating pad...things I would never have thought of without reading through all the posts on here!
    Any experiences anyone wants to share would be greatly appreciated!
    Thank-you!
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    AvaFern reacted to jenngottaloseit in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    i hope everything goes well for you and wishing you a speedy recovery
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    AvaFern got a reaction from BeagleLover in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    I had my sleeve surgery last year on 9/9/13 and I have lost 79 pounds since. I am now about 29 pounds away from my goal and today I scheduled a breast augmentation and lift, a Tummy Tuck and Lipo for my flanks, lower back, and inner thighs. Until this week I had never heard the words mastoplexy and abdominoplasty before, so I added two words to my vocabulary by just visiting the plastic surgeon. I had hoped for only a regular boob job (aka: just a minor augmentation) but apparently, they also require a bit of a lift too. The extra scar concerned me a bit, but I suppose I can either have a scar or droopy girls, so the scar it is!
    I had also originally only wanted lipo on my lower stomach, but my surgeon felt that the full tummy tuck would give me more the results I was looking for. He nixed my idea for lipo on my knees (apparently they aren't as fat as I think they look) but agreed with lipo on my inner thighs, flanks, and lower back/ upper bum area. I was also pleased to find out that he only recommends wearing the compression garment for 2-4 weeks as opposed to another place that required it for 2 months. I had originally intended to have the lipo done at a dermatology office, but they required each area be done on a different day and I couldn't imagine drawing out my misery that long, plus an additional surgery with the plastics guy.
    My only bummer in this situation (outside of the lift requirement issue) was that my arms can't be fixed without either doing some serious lifting or with a brachioplasty. I've always had biggish arms so I'm hoping that with a little work in the gym I can tame the flabbiness a bit without having any surgery on them. Anyone had success with that?
    I decided to wait 2 months so that I could be within the 15% of weight loss goal that is recommended before having cosmetic surgery. Everything is scheduled for the same six hour surgery on August 20! I paid my deposit and this time 8 weeks from now I will be quite miserably in pain, lol.
    My questions for you all would be...
    Has anyone else had this particular combination of surgeries done at the same time or even individually? How horrible was the pain? I feel like I have a generally high tolerance level, but reading the descriptions of the surgeries and watching them online makes me cringe in anticipation of what looks roughly equivalent to being chewed on by a shark.
    For those of you who have had procedures done, what was your recovery time like...both mentally and physically? I can do my job laying in bed if neccessary, but I'd rather not be working while I'm high on pain medication. How long until you could switch to basic Tylenol or something that didn't make you loopy? Also, how long until you could walk like you didn't just have your skin cut off?
    Ladies...what cc size did you have placed? My surgeon feels confident we've chosen the right size, but I'm still nervous about waking up and looking like I have two cantaloupes on my chest.
    Overall...if you did have any of these surgeries done, are you happy with the results?
    Is there anything I need to absolutely have with me or at home after surgery? Like before the sleeve I had my gas-x strips and a heating pad...things I would never have thought of without reading through all the posts on here!
    Any experiences anyone wants to share would be greatly appreciated!
    Thank-you!
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    AvaFern got a reaction from BeagleLover in Lift, Augmentation, Tummy Tuck & Lipo- Scheduled!   
    I had my sleeve surgery last year on 9/9/13 and I have lost 79 pounds since. I am now about 29 pounds away from my goal and today I scheduled a breast augmentation and lift, a Tummy Tuck and Lipo for my flanks, lower back, and inner thighs. Until this week I had never heard the words mastoplexy and abdominoplasty before, so I added two words to my vocabulary by just visiting the plastic surgeon. I had hoped for only a regular boob job (aka: just a minor augmentation) but apparently, they also require a bit of a lift too. The extra scar concerned me a bit, but I suppose I can either have a scar or droopy girls, so the scar it is!
    I had also originally only wanted lipo on my lower stomach, but my surgeon felt that the full tummy tuck would give me more the results I was looking for. He nixed my idea for lipo on my knees (apparently they aren't as fat as I think they look) but agreed with lipo on my inner thighs, flanks, and lower back/ upper bum area. I was also pleased to find out that he only recommends wearing the compression garment for 2-4 weeks as opposed to another place that required it for 2 months. I had originally intended to have the lipo done at a dermatology office, but they required each area be done on a different day and I couldn't imagine drawing out my misery that long, plus an additional surgery with the plastics guy.
    My only bummer in this situation (outside of the lift requirement issue) was that my arms can't be fixed without either doing some serious lifting or with a brachioplasty. I've always had biggish arms so I'm hoping that with a little work in the gym I can tame the flabbiness a bit without having any surgery on them. Anyone had success with that?
    I decided to wait 2 months so that I could be within the 15% of weight loss goal that is recommended before having cosmetic surgery. Everything is scheduled for the same six hour surgery on August 20! I paid my deposit and this time 8 weeks from now I will be quite miserably in pain, lol.
    My questions for you all would be...
    Has anyone else had this particular combination of surgeries done at the same time or even individually? How horrible was the pain? I feel like I have a generally high tolerance level, but reading the descriptions of the surgeries and watching them online makes me cringe in anticipation of what looks roughly equivalent to being chewed on by a shark.
    For those of you who have had procedures done, what was your recovery time like...both mentally and physically? I can do my job laying in bed if neccessary, but I'd rather not be working while I'm high on pain medication. How long until you could switch to basic Tylenol or something that didn't make you loopy? Also, how long until you could walk like you didn't just have your skin cut off?
    Ladies...what cc size did you have placed? My surgeon feels confident we've chosen the right size, but I'm still nervous about waking up and looking like I have two cantaloupes on my chest.
    Overall...if you did have any of these surgeries done, are you happy with the results?
    Is there anything I need to absolutely have with me or at home after surgery? Like before the sleeve I had my gas-x strips and a heating pad...things I would never have thought of without reading through all the posts on here!
    Any experiences anyone wants to share would be greatly appreciated!
    Thank-you!
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    AvaFern reacted to lark60 in 2 month stall broken   
    Well I finally saw a new "lower"number on the scale today! I have been bouncing from 156 to 159 for the past 2 months. Today I saw 155! I actually weighed myself twice to make sure I was seeing the right number.
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    AvaFern reacted to Bella66 in 11 mths out- 80 lbs down????   
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    AvaFern reacted to massindex in Here is what the local paper had to say about my success story...   
    http://www.lasvegassun.com/news/2013/jan/28/marathon-runner-mark-noel/
    Shortly after this story was published, I was contacted by NPR to participate in a round table discussion. During the course of the 45 minutes we were on the air, we discussed my journey and whether weight loss surgery was the answer for many people. I was on with the head of UCLA's Bariatric Surgery unit and discussed the VSG and other options for people with weight issues. As soon as the podcast is available, probably tomorrow, I'll post a link to it and you can down it.
    It was hard to come 'out of the closet' to tell everyone about my surgery. Even now there are comments that somehow I'm weak for having the surgery and not doing this on my own. As the doctor on the show pointed out, 97-99% of the people who try to do this on their own without surgery will fail and likely gain even more weight. Without addressing all the issues, you are setting yourself up for failure.
    Enjoy my story...
    Mark
    (massindex)
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    AvaFern got a reaction from Debi Amador in I RAN   
    Good for you! I also run at a pace some people would probably call a jog, but it makes me happy. Keep up the good work!
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    AvaFern reacted to Debi Amador in I RAN   
    When I was in High School I loved to run. And I ran every night after work until I got pregnant with my 12 year old. While I was pregnant I had horrible morning sickness that didn't go away until after I delivered him, but the morning sickness always hit worse at night so I stopped running. Yada Yada Yada I never got back into running and got fatter and fatter.
    Tonight I decided I was going to try to run around the block and I did it. It took me 15 minutes and I'm sure most runners would have said I was jogging but to me it was a run.
    I came home and laid on the floor panting like a dog for 10 minutes but I did it, and wanted to share!
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    AvaFern got a reaction from lialove in What are your thoughts regarding Bananas?   
    My post-op diet included bananas and my nut never told me I couldn't have any. Adding half a banana to a smoothie adds that extra froth which makes it taste so much better, especially when you have to choke down those awful Protein shakes. I see nothing wrong with having one banana a day- if anything it also gives you potassium which you also need.
    Eat the banana, lol.
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    AvaFern reacted to shelly75 in If you have nausea this could help   
    Hi everyone, I've been nauseous for the past week. I'll be 6 weeks post-op in 2 days. I called the nurse so we can try to figure out what was causing the nausea. At first, I thought it was my Vitamins, so the nurse told me to
    stop them and see if the nausea would go away. It didn't. It always started after lunch and got worse throughout
    the day. The worst was in the evening. I kept feeling like I was about to throw up, but only saliva would come
    out (sorry for being so gross!). At the end of the worst episode, I felt something like heartburn. So, the next
    day, I tried Tums, lunch time and supper time and my nausea got better. The day after that, I took my regular
    antacid pill in the morning and also took one before supper and no nausea at all. I called the nurse today to let
    her know I thought it was acid reflux so we are still testing it out, but it looks like that's what it is. So
    heartburn is not always a side effect because I didn't have that, I just had bad nausea and the salivating. I feel
    much better now and wanted to share in case someone else was going through this and didn't know what was causing
    the nausea. Hope this helps.
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    AvaFern reacted to bagonian74 in 100 lbs gone wow   
    Hey guys 7months 1 week post op and 100 pounds gone wow excited
    20 more to go

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    AvaFern reacted to SandeeD in I made it ya'll!   
    I made it to wonderland today! What a nice early birthday present:)
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    AvaFern reacted to SassyMiss79 in medical bracelets for Sleevers?   
    My hospital gave me a laminated card that says I am a gastric sleeve patient. On the other side it says to let me order kids meals from restaraunts lol
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    AvaFern got a reaction from nesa83 in Starbuck drinkers?   
    I couldn't drink this right after surgery because a few sips made me super sick, but at 7 months I now occassionally have a tall skinny caramel machiatto. It has something like 110 calories and it's a nice treat.
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    AvaFern got a reaction from Comfy_Blue in Best Scar treatment?   
    I used mederma a few times after surgery, but then I forgot about it and used nothing. I'm 7.5 months out and my scars have faded to a point where you really have to be looking to see them. I was very worried about the scarring, but they do fade to a point that eventually no one should notice them without staring for awhile at your stomach.

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