Start here
Where are you in your journey?
Choose the path that fits today. We’ll take you to the most useful discussions.
- GLP-1 medication Zepbound, Wegovy, access, side effects, progress, and support.
- Before surgery Compare procedures, plan ahead, and get honest pre-op answers.
- Post-op Recovery, food stages, symptoms, and support.
- Long-term Regain, labs, habits, and life after the honeymoon.
- Revision Explore revision options, complications, and next steps.
Everything posted by HarleyNana
-
Constipation
I'm so glad Betty told me about the apple juice. Now apple juice is a part of my "regular" routine everyday, and I've never been regular..... if you know what I mean.
-
Jealous husbands and lovers
Well, after 36 years, if he does have a problem, then it's just that, his problem. I did this for me, not my DH, and he knows it. I've been a people pleaser and family peacemaker for all these years, by golly, now it's my turn and they can kiss my grits.
-
Im so mad at myself I wanna cry
Been there done that, and I have the band, LOL. Tuesday, I ate off and on all day, little bits, but nachos and cheese dip, talk about good, but not good. Today's another day, it will be better.
-
Hello, I'm a new member.
Welcome Bernie, finding the right fill is the trick. Many of us have a number of fills before it's the right one. I'd give it another week and if you still don't have restriction, I'd would call and schedule another fill. Don't give up, it's not magic, but it is a wonderful tool to assist in this journey.
-
Hi! New member ready to walk the plank.
Welcome to bandland, good luck on your new journey to a thinner, happier you.
-
Life in Onederland
Thanks Zoe, I happen to be at a yoyo/upndown myself. Needless to say, you're quiet the inspiration to all of us.
-
Hallelujah! I Feel Normal Again!
Ok, I'm nosey, well we're nosey, where you going on vacation? That'll be about solids time too.
-
Some questions I have...Please answer...
Good Morning All ~ I have a few questions for those who have had the lap-band surgery... 1. How long were you out of work? Surgery Monday, stopped into the office on Thursday, (shhh, drove myself too). 2. Explain to me what getting "stuck" feels like. If you're talking about needles, ouch, if you're talking about food, think of swallowing a golf ball. 3. How soon after surgery can you begin to excercise? Now that you mentioned it, I'm going to start real soon. 4. Were you afraid to eat after the surgery? Not afraid at all, but I was very respectful of my band, ate very slowly, took very small bites, (used baby spoon and fork at first), and chewed ALOT! 5. If you have a spouse/significant other.. How did they handle your weight loss? My dh is thrilled, years ago when I was younger he used to *itch about my weight a lot, then as we got older it didn't bother him so much. He makes over it almost every day, he's very happy, but I remind him often, I'm glad he's happy, but I did it for me.
-
Stop The Presses!!!
CONGRATULATIONS! You've waited long enough, I'm so happy for you. It will be here before you know it, and most importantly, rest assured, you've made a wonderful decision. You will succeed.
-
Who can feel their port?
I can feel my port, which is rather hard. It's an interesting feeling. I tell people who know about my surgery, to touch it, then they'll say, "eww, what is that", then I laugh and have to explain the port thing.
-
Comparison of All Weightloss Surgeries
Thanks for the article Kelly. Alex thanks for the malabsorption explanation, makes sense.
-
I Have An Option-need Your Advice
I don't think the scar is that big, at least mine isn't and it's right in the waistline. Most 2 pc suits now are high cut on the legs with a regular waistline. At my age, I don't see a 2pc of any type in my future, lol, so placement was not a concern, also my port is sewn into the muscle. I too would worry about the length of the tube from the band to the port, but then again, I'm not a doctor.
-
Confession
Oh my gosh, if I drank anything while eating or even right before eating, I'd have the monster pb attack. I just by accident picked up a bottle of water and took a big gulp after having eaten something small, I thought I was gonna throw up or pass out. I know Betty drinks right up until she eats with no problem, but I can't even do that.
-
Port positions
Mine is on the right side, just below the rib cage and it is sewn into the muscle so it will be less likely to shift or move. Some days it's more sensitive than others.
-
1st fill today...questions
My mom got her first fill last week and didn't think it was doing anything, then today she had two episodes with pb, I explained to her that everyone is different and their fills react differently, some immediately, like me, others a week or two later. Be sure to chew, chew, chew and smaller bites. Good luck!
-
weekly scale challenge
Woohoo Betty, way to go, stayed the same here.
-
Liquid Vitamins
I was taking the liquid, green, yuky, Source of Life, then switched to Viactiv, which also doubles as a chocolate fix.
-
Questions before I get banded
Joe, I'm 55 and had the surgery in December, still at 54 then, but my mom who is 73 was banded April 7th and doing great. My port is on my right side and today was the first time I've been fishing since getting my band, wouldn't you know my port is right where I put my rod when I'm reeling in my big catch. I learned to place the rod in a different spot real fast.
-
will i ever be able to sleep on my stomach again?
I don't have any problems sleeping on my stomach, but if I turn to roll over too quickly I feel like I just pulled my port loose, so I try to be more cautious rolling and tumbling.
-
Anxiety
I had not doubt this was meant for me, I'd do it again in a heartbeat and $16,750.00, LOL.
-
So Disapointed
Woohoo, good for you girl. Welcome to bandland. Ya gotta keep us informed, we're a little nosey around here.
-
My $15 Outfit!
Looking good lady. At a different store those would probably be size 12 pants and size 16 shirt. I have found Wal-Mart sizing to be very conservative. Keep up the good work and thanks for sharing the pic.
-
Does everyone strain their food on full liquid phase?
I did the same thing Kathy did, chewed and spit, after being on liquids, it was just as good as swallowing, LOL. It is amazing what will go through a straw.
-
Why can't I not eat?
Before I hit the solid stage, I spent a many a minute over the kitchen sink, I actually got pretty good aim at that disposal. I'd chew, chew, chew to get over that need to chew, then into the sink it went. It may not have been pretty, but I sure saved a lot of mental anguish to have eaten and taken the chance to damage my new friend, my band. I'm not a perfect bandster, but I do try hard, and my band sure lets me know, really fast, if I've made a bad choice. You wouldn't abuse a friend, so don't abuse your band, it too is your friend.
-
First fill and wondering.......
Tanya, ask for the little needle. The first time I went for fills I almost passed out, just cause I had a lot ofo anxiety and....I'm a big chicken when it comes to needles. Now I take a half a valium and put some cream on before I get to his office, so it's a breeze now. Jack, you keep on waiting and you'll have lost all your weight and won't need one, you're doing such a great job. Betty of course it didn't hurt, you're a Harley Mama.