Debbie3sons

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Wow I totally understand this as it happened to my Mother & She's not even banded, but has other issues , & they still don't know why it happened , but she has been back to normal for almost a year , but they operated & now she has a pacemaker & she was in the hospital for a week , hope they find out what went on & why that happened to you , feel better.

That is great , kids like apples and oranges so maybe that's some fruit dice it up and put it in the salad and have them try your lighter version , they may like it , als it is nice that the kids are involved to be healthier, I bet the parents are loving it also and the kids t to make choices , healthy ones , that they will eat , maybe Michelle Obama , will see this and know you are doing good.

Really needed this positive thinking , this day, and week very stressful for me , but I will continue to remember I am no good for my self if I don't continue on my journey , and since being banded I will take care of y self first so I can be around a lot longer for more mile stones in my childrens , lives and mine also.

Wow didn't think about some of these as I love cucumbers , and pickles and carrots but I stopped eating these and some other thing because it was not a good feeling and I would get stuck , so now maybe with your suggestion I will be able to eat some of these , fruits and veggies again , thankyou for bringing this to us at the band wagon.

Very interesting as I sometimes look up and get dizzy thank you for bringing this to my attn. as I never thought about it till you posted so keep us informed and let's hope they find out why this is happening to you , hope every thing comes out ok.

I have read a lot of things from people and have noticed my self , that when I did go to therapy I would not be judged , but then again I knew why and what I was doing , and of course my or our (banders) dysfunctional families that have had issues so yes I certanally know why food was a comfort for me , some things changed and there are still things I have no control over , but I refuse to let it affect e any more or at least I will give it my hardest to try and not let it get to me.

Way to go girl , see you must have done something right for you for someone else to see the ne improved healthy life style change , that made them say mmm and thought and watched to see how things went , that is great.

LMAO!!!! all I can say is I wandered when someone would put this out there , glad it was you and not e but I have noticed a few things no stretch marks though I guess it get it's exercise lol.

The saying if you build it they will come , well we are building our selves as bandsters to a better us health wise , also we have to remember we are not all the same , but some of us have or had many issues, weather it be health, mental or addictions , I know personally I went through a lot when I was younger , but now I look at the positive instead of the negative , when I watched the show my 600 lb, life the one wear the Husband was being t wanted to take the woman aside and ask are you wanting to do this for you or for some one else as if we are not right with us , then we can not help our selves , as we bandsters are doing and I got to a point I was fed up and wanted to not to have to go to the Doctors almost every week for this or that because I was not healthy and it was affecting me , and Really where are the Physcs, to evaluate these people, to ask them all kinds of questions so they can understand why they are this or that way , if they Really think they can put in the work it takes to have wls, you are doing you as I am doing me and I think we are doing good , you just keep on your journey.

I hope things get better for you , sometimes there are set backs after having major surgery , just try to remember why you wanted to be banded in the first place after losing your weight and looking and feeling more healthy , you will be able to do that again and other things you want , start back at pre op diet then go to post op diet or do the 5 day pouch test and see if that helps to get the 10 lbs off that you have gained , we won't beat you up or scold you , however , being depressed or stressed is what got us to our thinking and eating the way we did , just try to remember that you have that little tool that sometimes just needs to be cleaned and polished as you will be more polished soon enough and be able to shine even more.

Now go look at your before and after and be proud of your self , you have done great check you out and I am losing some of my badunk- a- dunk but lol that' ok as I had enough to share at one time lol , you look good .