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Everything posted by tjharmon
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Has anyone used successfully slimmer ?
I went through christi at successfully slimmer for mine with dr kelly--she was wonderful and patient with me when I called her the hundreth time!!! lol What are you wanting to know???
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How much is average weight loss by end of 1st month?
i don't think there is an average--everyone is different--comparing yourself to others will drive you crazy
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baggy clothes???
ok--so I went to the bank this morning--(I live in a small town where everyone knows I had VSG) and the girls working in there start telling me that my clothes are way too baggy and that they look bad. Now, this is a little bit NSV and a little concerning. Concerning because I don't feel like I am ready for tighter clothes yet. I have spent the last 20 years making sure that my clothes covered everything and were never tight on me--the less skin they actually touched the better. Elastic waist and VERY long shirts have been normal for me. A friend called me the other day and told me she had a bunch of clothes for me so I went and got them and they all fit--but they are tight--not tight like they are too small--but tight like in style--I just can't see myself wearing them right now I have went from a tight size 24 to a nice fitting 14/16 in two months so I am happy about that--I am just a little worried about when will my head catch up with my body? I keep thinking that no one will even be able to notice that I have lost weight and am surprised when someone says something about it. Just wondering how long till your mind knows you are thinner???
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Thinking of backing out
my post was also called backing out--boy, am I glad I didn't!!! don't listen to those stories--it started being a joke to me that everyone heard about someone--blah blah blah--but no one could ever give me a name or place...listen to your heart
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baggy clothes???
ok--so I went to the bank this morning--(I live in a small town where everyone knows I had VSG) and the girls working in there start telling me that my clothes are way too baggy and that they look bad. Now, this is a little bit NSV and a little concerning. Concerning because I don't feel like I am ready for tighter clothes yet. I have spent the last 20 years making sure that my clothes covered everything and were never tight on me--the less skin they actually touched the better. Elastic waist and VERY long shirts have been normal for me. A friend called me the other day and told me she had a bunch of clothes for me so I went and got them and they all fit--but they are tight--not tight like they are too small--but tight like in style--I just can't see myself wearing them right now I have went from a tight size 24 to a nice fitting 14/16 in two months so I am happy about that--I am just a little worried about when will my head catch up with my body? I keep thinking that no one will even be able to notice that I have lost weight and am surprised when someone says something about it. Just wondering how long till your mind knows you are thinner???
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Really take time to check out who your doctor is
I was very very pleased with Dr Kelly--I feel like I had the best care I have ever had
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so what did you do to break the stall?
ok--I have been stalled for almost 3 weeks--I am going crazy--what did you guys do to get it to break?
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Time to shop?
pharmacy across the street from the hotel
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Preparation for Surgery and Post Surgery
the things we had to buy right after surgery were... diaper rash med and those wet wipes--believe me--they are a god send!!!!! i only used my heating pad--didn't need much else!!
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OMG..13 days till surgery and I am changing my mind
my pre op post was called "backing out" I was sure I was not going to make it and I was scared to death--my only regret now is that I didn't do this sooner!!!
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Increased Back Pain?
my back was killing me--Dr said I was standing differently and using different muscles due to the weight loss--mine stopped hurting after a couple of weeks--hang in there!!!
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How Are The Spitfires Doing?
feeling great!!! I am currently in my second week stalled and wishing it would quit-- I can't drink the Protein at all--the smell gags me--so I am doing the best I can with food--I don't eat cottage cheese or yogurt so I am just doing the best I can I didn't feel the restriction at first, but now two bites is about my limit--I have found if I eat more than that, I don't eat for the rest of the day--just too full!!! liquids are not a problem, but about two weeks ago, I started getting sick to my stomach when I would drink water--so I haven't been able to get much of it down lately I feel great and the loss is really starting to show--my only real problem is the 4 am wake-ups--i feel like I will never sleep through the night again!!!!
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Anyone Ever Had Gastric Sleeve Surgery In Mexico?
i was sleeved by dr kelly on sept 8th--had absolutely no problems--actually left early and drove half way across the country on the way home!! no complications and NO pain!!!
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9 Month Progress Pictures
WOW I hope my arms look like that!!! WOOHOO way to go!!!
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What I'm Planning to Pack for Hospital Stay
this is what i used (surgery was in mexico) houseshoes toothbrush/paste contact solution /case scrunchie cell phone and charger chapstick deodorant brush /comb took a book--never opened it used another one of their gown in reverse as a robe stayed in their gown--it was just easier did not need gas x and mouth spray--i was lucky did use those pre moisened wipes (like toilet paper) on the way home plus some diaper rash ointment--made my butt feel much much better!!!! be sure to leave ALL jewelry at home--remove nail polish and fake nails
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After eating too fast
LOL I have been wondering about this--it seems like every time I take a drink for the past few days I sneeze--it has been driving me crazy!!!! I have had the runny nose too--I am having issues with slowing down when I eat and drink--(old habits are hard to break) now I guess I know...
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can't sleep??
It seems, that since my surgery, I go to bed at a normal time, but seem to wake up at 3 or 4 in the morning and can't go back to sleep--this started about three days after surgery and continues until now --almost three weeks-- I never had a problem like this before. Did anyone else experience this?? Any idea??
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Mushies?
on my diet--ground meat is a mushie--I am two weeks and a few days out--I have had taco meat and chili--it was wonderful!!! tonight I am going to try sloppy joe meat--now I am talking less than two teaspoons full--but it is great!!! I also had 1/3 of a breakfast sausage patty--yummy
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Dr. Oz and the 700 pound woman
I saw it, I couldn't help but feel that she has some real mental issues--she was hearing what he was telling her, but it was like she was not processing it correctly... I feel bad for her, but I don't see anything changing unless she gets psy help
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Chewable vitamin...gag me!
gummy one a day for me--they are like a little treat!!
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Halloween (Oct. 31) - What will you Weigh?
checking in--I DID IT!!!!! I had my sleeve on September 8 my Halloween goal was to loose 30 pounds and I passed that by today!!! I don't think I have ever hit a weight loss goal in my life--woohoo woohoo woohoo
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travel back from Mexico, plane & car
we lest the hospital and drove from san diego to vegas for some fun--then decided to drive the rest of the way home--to TEXAS!! no pain whatsoever!! I even skipped out on the two days in the hotel--I just was too restless to stay there
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Need Ideas, sick of same foods
I am thinking about making sloppy joes tomorrow for my mushy--my list also includes the meat out of a taco, spaghetti sauce with some meat in it, and meatloaf. I had chili with cheese today and it was awesome!!!
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Problem with getting protein.
I am two weeks out and haven't had any protein at all--I can't even get the glass all the way to my mouth before I start gagging--the smell is awful I am lactose intolerant so all I can use is the isopure and the nectar. I started mushies a few days early and have had half an egg a couple times a day to get protein in--today I had some chili with cheese it was AWESOME!!!! I am thinking I am just going to have to get all my protein from food and the shakes are not gonna work for me.
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Dr. Kelly Nov 7th! Questions...
he did have a death--but you have to weigh how many surgeries he has done on us high risk people against his death numbers--which I believe to be one. I know several surgeons and don't think any of them have a number like that.