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Everything posted by Kate rules
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How Long Was Your Hospital Stay?
I stayed overnight on a 23 hour stay. My surgery was at 12 pm and I didn't get out until after 2, which put me over time for short stay unit. I could have gone home the same day if I had an earlier slot. I will say, however, that I am glad I had the overnight stay because I was in a lot of pain. Was enjoying the pain pump and I had trouble getting fluids down so IV took care of that.
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Plastic Surgery/babies
I had a TT 7 years ago and two years later my dear son came along. I was really bad before my TT so I don't regret it but I gained 56 pounds during my pregnancy. Now that I'm banded and only 1.7 pounds away from my pre-pregnancy weight I can see that i do have some excess skin, just a little though, that I will have the surgeon get rid of during a mini-tuck. My TT was pretty radical I had a huge diastasis of my rectus abdominus muscle and luckily that condition has not returned. My advice: if you have money to burn go for it now and start a savings account for your "mommy makeover" after you are done with the kids. I'm saving for a mini-tuck and a crescent tuck (back fat roll excision).
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2 Days Until Mushy Foods..help!!!
I did Lima beans. Also cooked chicken breast in crockpot until it fell apart and added broth. Yum. Good protein and not bad tasting.
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9 Mths. And Only 30Lbs Down :(
I feel your pain. I'm 8 months out and have lost only 26 pounds since then. But my doctor said that my weight loss would be slower because I was on the lower end of the BMI spectrum when I was banded. I stalled at 172-170 for 4 months and have been steadily losing since my fill in December. My most recent fill has been great although I've had some reflux.
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Getting My Band In A Couple Of Weeks I'm Super Nervous!
I'm 30 years old and have been struggling with my weight for years. I wish I had this surgery when I was 24. I was not far from your weight when I was banded back in July. Now, I am looking the way I want to and know that I have the tools (not just the band, but the nutritional information, the motivation) to get to a healthier weight. It is amazing what a difference 40 pounds will make. If your friends are really friends, they will voice their opposition and their reasoning for their opinion, but will ultimately support your decision because they love you. Best of luck.
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I'm Sabotaging Myself, Any Advice?
I had my own period of mourning the foods I wouldn't be able to eat anymore. But I will be honest and tell you what your nutritionist would kill me for telling you: YOU WILL BE ABLE TO EAT PIZZA AND WHITE CASTLE. Ok, now that we put that bit of dirty truth on the table, I will tell you that my ability and desire to inhale an entire large pizza and a half-pound burger and large fries is completely gone. I share the 1/3 pound burger with my two kids (I eat a quarter of it and usually have to ditch the top of the bun) and eat maybe 5 fries before I feel the restriction of the band kick in. I used to love pizza but I don't really enjoy eating it that much anymore because it is hard to eat. I kind of eat like a toddler now. I sort of pick at my food and after a few bites I say "I'm not hungry anymore." It really used to bug me when my kids did that.
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&@#$%?!!
I cheated. Went to very liquidy mushies a little early. not saying you should violate docs orders but if u r losing ur mind...
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What Do You Do When Food Is Stuck Or Doesn't Agree With You?
Sliming is an unfortunate experience one has right before one is getting ready to hurl up one's food. LOL. I hate sliming. The puking is the easy part. I sometimes walk around or try putting my arms over my head. But there are times to just excuse yourself from the table, find a bathroom and puke it up. Not a great experience, so I've learned not to eat certain foods and to be extra careful when chewing.
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Help!!! Need To Find New Foods To Fulfill The New Me!!
My favorites (because I had a lot of post op pain) were lima beans and slow-cooked chicken. Basically put chicken breasts in crock pot and let them cook for a day. They should be falling apart after that. Section off 4 ounces and I added some of the broth for moisture and flavor. I added a tiny bit of butter sometimes, but a very tiny amount. Was a good protein fix and pretty tasty too.
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Finally Banded!
Welcome, and congrats on being banded!
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6 Months Post Op And No Restriction
I didn't really start to feel restriction until my band was around 5 cc in my 10 cc band. Half full, half empty, LOL. I have ok restriction now with around 5.5 in my band, but need a fill because getting hungry again like hollydolly does. Can you ask your doc to be more aggressive with your fills, making sure they are done at beginning of the week just in case you need an unfill? My PA was cool with that but I never had a problem after a fill.
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Menstrual Question And Tightening Of The Band... Ladies? :-)
I definitely feel everything tighten up when my period is coming. Usually around day 3 it let's up. Good news is that it keeps me from chowing down on the sweet stuff I crave around that time.
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Port Bump?
Yup, got the bump. Hey, being able to see it means we are losing!
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Personal Victories
My #1 goal is to get to 149 pounds, the weight I was the day I found out I was pregnant with my son. That was 6 years ago and as you can see by my ticker, I'm at 156.4 as of this morning. I want to accomplish this by April 14 which is my 31st birthday. I started at 205 on May 17, 2011, was banded on July 5, 2011, and have lost a total of 48.6 pounds since I started my lapband journey! Good luck.
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Soda Questions
I drink some soda but I have to be careful. I do not ever drink with a meal because soda plus food equals puke time for me. I pour my soda into a cup, let some of the carbonation taper off and sip. I was also a major diet coke addict.
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Gummy Bears...you Know..to Take The Edge Off..lol
I do gummy prenatal vitamins (not expecting, but good to be prepared) and I have no trouble getting them down the hatch and through the band. I chew them very carefully and they do help with my candy fix.
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Anyone Not Lose Much Weight Between Surgery And 1St Fill??
I didn't start losing weight (ok, I did lose 6 pounds) until December and I was banded in July. I've had 5 fills and have enjoyed the green zone for about 2 months. I'm starting to plateau again and getting hungry again. Time for a fill. Bandster hell is a good description. I was quite disappointed and embarassed by my lack of weight loss until mid December. Then it all came together. So, I'm hoping for a quick trip to the green zone for everyone out there in bandland.
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Todays My Bday And I Did It!!
Happy birthday!
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Lump/stuck/feeling Between My Throat Area
Getting stuck sucks. I cannot recommend my method, but when I'm stuck and I know it isn't going away I chug water until I puke and get unstuck. There is a nasty sinus infection going around. Is it your trachea or esophagus where u feel the lump?
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wannabe21bmi
wannabe21bmi, a weight loss surgery photo album by Kate rules on BariatricPal. 2 photos in Member Photo Gallery.
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Stuck Or What?
Holly Dolly has it right, if something is indeed stuck, time (or sometimes only throwing it up) will cure it. It will pass but I would switch back to thin liquids for a day or so in case you irritated your pouch. Sometimes, when I get stuck, I find that putting my arms over my head brings some relief. I have no idea why, but it works for me.
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Unrealistic Weight Goal ??
Your goal weight should be whatever you and your physician agree upon as healthy. My screen name is wannabe21bmi. I've since revised this goal to wanting to be 140 pounds. That's a BMI of 24.8. I will see how I look at 140 pounds (I'm 5'3" as well) and I may go lower. When I tell people that I want to lose at least another 20 pounds they tell me I'm going to be too skinny. I tell them that's only because they are not used to seeing me skinny. My experience in life has been that people who feel good about themselves spend time building others up instead of tearing others down. Be proud of your loss and aim "low" if that is what would make you happy and healthy.
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10 Lbs Down?Very Frustrated
I lost only 7 pounds between the day I was banded (July 5) and December. Wasn't anything I ate or lack of exercise. My body plateaued at 171 pounds and stayed there for months because my body needed to adjust to the 27 pounds I lost before the surgery. One I got past the plateau, I dropped 10 pounds in a month and a half. And I'm still losing. Believe me, during that 5 month period, I was starting to wonder why I went through all this. But now, I know! 20 pounds to go!
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Very Frustrated
I was stuck at 171 pounds for months! Then I went on a cruise and it seems that I broke my plateau. Your body gets used to being a certain way, let it adjust and then you will go down again. I was really regretting getting banded until about two weeks ago. Upping calories worked for me but be careful not to hurt yourself or do it for too long.
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Drink Or Not To Drink
I puke everything up if I drink with my meal. Liquids go down fine when just liquids but when on top of food, it is all bad. I stop 5 mins before I eat. I can feel when my pouch has emptied out and I can drink then.