so... i dont want to wait a year now

[jillrn 0]

I have PCOS and I am overweight my bmi with both my children was about 40 I had to use fertility drugs, have surg, use injectibles--etc. I did finally conceive on clomid after surg, but my pg were difficult and b/c I was overweight I had gestational diabetes and other problems. It was 2 very difficult pg and my babies could have sufferred from it. I dont regret it and they are healthy-- but if you are under 36 I would get some more weight off-- I know how horrible it is to wait! I know how frustrating infertility is-- but your health and your babies will be so much better off if you lose more weight. You want to enjoy your pg as much as possible and you will feel so much better at a lower weight. Give yourself 6 more months- Start in April or May and have a cute little baby to cuddle with and keep warm next winter! Good luck and you are doing awesome on your weight loss btw-- you are such an inspiration to me as I have PCOS too and I am hoping the lap band will help me! Jill

[dylansmom 27]

I feel your pain. We went for years being the only ones without a child in our circle of friends, family, and acquaintances. It totally sucked.

4 miscarriages and 7 long years later, along came our beautiful son Dylan. He is such a miracle for us.

I say do what you feel is right in your heart. I wish you all of the luck in the world!