A bit of an embarrassing question but has anyone experienced low or no libido at all??? And will it pass??? Was banded on July 30th 2009. Thanks, anything would be appreciated.:confused:

ROFL ROFL ROFL what a subject!!! I can honestly say that the first week post-op I was Def NOT in the mood. I was bruised, sore, and I felt cut up!!! Now I am 10 post op and of coarse once you do """" then you will get back in the groove again. Whats weird is when your significant other see's a big weight loss. Its kind of nice to hear "wow honey your butt is getting smaller" :confused:

libido - what's one of those? I seem to remember having one once but not sure where it went!

People vary a lot, but what you are experiencing is very normal. Your body has been through surgery and it takes a while to get back to 100% physically, and even mentally!

Give yourself time~!!

My doc said no sex for 4 weeks after procedure....you just had a surgery and you are healing....give it some time....I had mine July 16th and I am ready to jump back on that horse....down 23lbs and feeling goooooood.

libido - what's one of those? I seem to remember having one once but not sure where it went!

exactly LOL where's my sexual peak??? it skipped me :thumbup:

That is too funny, now my hubby has been lementing over the fact my butt won't be as big anymore, but I keep telling him it is not going anywhere, I had a big booty when I skinny it is not going down... it is too funny to hear when he is ready for the deed... he gave me two weeks:lol: yea we shall see...

I think I was back somewhat in the saddle around 2 weeks post op and very carefully. LOL It's in full great swing now at almost 6 weeks post op. I continue to lose weight and gain confidence and it seems to spur the libido right along.

Wow, you were just banded. Give your body a chance to heal. I definitly did not have any at that point (in fact I still haven't lol). My libido is back but I still get sore when I bend at the waist so I am not ready yet. Give yourself at least a month.

It's only been four weeks for me and I might feel like having some fun mentally but definetely not physically! When I had my hysterectomy it was almost 9 weeks before we had any fun. My husband is very understanding (thank the lord!).

It'll just be better when you finally can do it! :cool:

Man! I was banded on the 20th of July and didn't even want to dare do any of that.. until..... *wink*wink* last night! LOL my BF was happy.. i was too! Like they said once you get into the groooove.. its all comes back!

LOL

Hey guys thanks for all the reply's, but I gotta tell ya's we did the deed but on the side opposite my band, and no pain wat so ever once we got into the swing of things I got my groove back!!!!!:thumbup:

4 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!! I thought 1 week was a long time... My husbands going to be dying hahaha.

u dont have to have sex but u can always do foreplay n oral sex...after my surgury (july 17) my bf visited me everyday at my house, I didnt have sex for 2 weeks, but at da end of the 2 weeks I made sure he got oral sex lol....I started havin sex with him about 3 weeks post op...You'll know when ur body heals