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Zoe, I hope that this makes you feel better! Maybe you could get on the cancellation list and have the surgery sooner?

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Sorry, Zoe, but I'm bugging out of this thread and won't be able to check on you in fears of accidentally seeing Fred. No thanks, no time for passing out today. Can ya send me a PM when you have the date?

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Wishing you the best Zoe

They have wanted me to have a hysterectomy for the last 7 yrs..

Just had a pap done on Monday, waiting results

I hope everything goes smoothly for you.

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Vera, how are you feeling now?
I feel great! Been doing good for 4 weeks now, no pain killers! I've even lost 5lbs. in the last six weeks.

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I had my hysterectomy when I was 23. It was the best thing that a Doctor every did for me. From the time my daughter was borned to the day of surgery I had a period. I actually thought I was going to bleed to death.

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Sorry, Zoe, but I'm bugging out of this thread and won't be able to check on you in fears of accidentally seeing Fred. No thanks, no time for passing out today.

Don't panic yet, I can't find it on my computer, or on my old computer files on CD. BUT! I called my sister and she has the original Polaroid at her house. She's bringing it with her to dinner Friday night. I'll scan it and post it then. So you are safe until at least 9pm Friday evening...

However, I think it wise to post it on it's own thread with the appropriate disclaimers, out of respect for Zoe and others with fibroids, and out of respect for DeLarla who we definately don't want passing out under any circumstances! It's really not that bad. No, it's gross. I promise I won't post it here. Don't bug out on Zoe!!!!

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I hear you. I had one at 27 and after my son was born I bled for 8 months till the surgery.

I had my hysterectomy when I was 23. It was the best thing that a Doctor every did for me. From the time my daughter was borned to the day of surgery I had a period. I actually thought I was going to bleed to death.

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Thanks again, everyone, and a big thank you to Kathy for not publishing the Fred photo here! I still have a 1996 photo of my giant cyst, along with one of my surgeon, radiological oncologist & the lab workers all giving a big thumbs-up when they discovered it wasn't malignant after all. Don't worry -- I won't post them!

I sure hope I can get my surgery date bumped up, but I can't count on it. Meanwhile, the alien (which under ultrasound looks like an eclipsed sun) is pushing on my back and belly. My sciatica's back (no pun intended), but at least I haven't bled for a while. I just have to hang tough for another 5-1/2 weeks.

What really surprises me is how many women I know (in real life and online) who've undergone this surgery or who have been told they should do so. We are legion.

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I had a hyst in 2001, for major mechanical problems unfixable by other means--I delivered a mondo huge baby (for me, he was 10 pounds 9 ounces) and that pretty much ruined me. I was so ready to be comfortable and leak free when I finally decided to have the surgery. Told my doc I was spending my kid's college money on pads just to stay dry! (sorry if that's too much information!).

So, I am saying that for whatever reason you have a hyst, my hope for you is that you will be as comfy and carefree as I am now! ( now, if I could just lose the rest of my weight then I will be all set!)

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