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excuse us gentlemen, a poll from the ladies

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do enjoy back door play on your self?  

17 members have voted

  1. 1. do enjoy back door play on your self?

    • been there, done that, feels great, like it
      80
    • wont go there, no way, no how
      60
    • been there, done that, no thanks
      23
    • never been there, but curious
      27

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plain    12

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But HELL no im not taking anything up my ass.

Believe it or not, that was the original intent of the poll. In the ladies room, I (kinda jokingly, kinda not) said that there was a name for heterosexual men that enjoyed their wives inserting stuff into the anus: Gay.

I was immediately challenged by several ladies. One even said, basically, that she knew many rich, powerful men that enjoyed that.....In the end (no pun intended) it was decided that some brave soul would ask the guys this question in "The Men's Room".

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Oregondaisy    2,021

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Yes, but also in the ladies room we also discussed why men like to have anal sex with their wives or girl friends. It was also talked about that we would ask if they preferred or liked it, what was the reason.

There were plenty of gals they said that liked it although I can' t imagine why. So if they are having it, they are having anal sex with their boyfriends/ husbands.

I wish some of the guys would be brave enough to post in here why they like to have anal with their sig. other. What's so special about it anyway. I have heard of a lot of women saying their sig other wanted to, but they didn't want to let them. So, it's obvious some men are asking for this.

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jubjub    1

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I posted this in the powder room for the ladies to see.

I am jumping from the guys site to here to post this. Oregondaisy asked in the guys forum why guys seemed to like anal sex. To me anal is a tighter fit, so it just feels real good on my dick. (i thought about how to say that and had all kinds of crazy names and stuff, but f-it right, lets just call it what it is.) Guys like a tight fit because it causes more um friction for us.

Like say when we get oral right, we don't want the girl to open her mouth the widest she can and just go up and down and barley cause any suction. We want them lips to fit tight and hear that suction sound. HELL YEA !!

So back to anal, sorry was getting sidetracked. So since the usual (why am I blushing typing this) way is really nice and wet and inviting, sometimes we wanna switch it up. Get a new tight fit in there now and then.

What about this questions ladies. If your not into anal, are you into a guy "tossing your salad" when he is down there taking care of business?

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Okay, I'm not much of a prude by any stretch, but I have no idea what salad tossing is all about. Anyone else?

Bass, whatever you do, do NOT google "tossed salad", lol. At least not with kids in the room!!

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bassriley    0

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Bass, whatever you do, do NOT google "tossed salad", lol. At least not with kids in the room!!

A little too late for that. Eww.

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jubjub    1

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I have no idea why it's called that. Just something I heard back in the day when I was a young fellow. Gotta love that Dumpster Porn knowledge.

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JayTee562    1

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Bass, whatever you do, do NOT google "tossed salad", lol. At least not with kids in the room!!

And right below the link for this meaning is - Your Basic Tossed salad Recipe courtesy Rachael Ray :w00t:

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plain    12

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LOL!! WHY do they call it that?!!
I have no idea why it's called that. Just something I heard back in the day when I was a young fellow. Gotta love that Dumpster Porn knowledge.

Chris Rock was the first one I heard talk about it. I think it originally was "a prison thing". Yeeeesh.

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plain    12

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Note if you are thinking of tossing ones salad you should ask them first if they are into that kind of thing don't just go for it..FYI..

But then again, it's a unique "icebreaker", I guess.

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