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Hi ya'll. I am 38 years old, and I am 340 pounds, really beginning to freak out. I am having surgery at UT Southwestern in Dallas Texas. Dr. Revis is performing the good deed.

I am really beginning to freak out a tad. Did I mention that already? :D

I am a smoker and quiting is the hardest thing I have done. The Dr. is requiring me to quit and be smoke free for a minimum of 4 weeks. It sucks, and I am beginning to wonder if I will fail at the true life change ahead of me.

Just looking for some words of encouragement, anyone out there been through something similar.

I also have twins... boy & girl who turned 1 on 10/6, and a 3 1/2 year old boy.

HELP....looking to make some new friends, since all I have are thin ones who have no clue what I have gone through all of my life, my husband is 160, and bless him, he supports me as best as he can. I am ready to take this next huge step and become luscious by 40....:unsure: giggle giggle

Looking forward to hearing from ya'll!!!!

Congrats to those who have made this decision for themselves and thier families!

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We have the same surgery date so I thought I would say hi! I'm getting nervous too!

Have you received any instructions on your liquid diet as of yet? I go tomorrow to my dietician to get the details. I'm supposed to start the liquid diet on the 19th. I feel like I should try to start liquids right after the appointment because i have been nervously overeating ever since I got my surgery date!!!

I don't smoke so we need to find you a former smoker that can help you out...that must be rough!!! I gave up soda a couple weeks ago, but I think that pales in comparison!!!

Feel free to contact me anytime!

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amrcngrl1970-

good luck with the smoking!! how is that going?

i'm sure i will be getting nervous in a few weeks too, but for now i'm just excited. if you need a visitor for some extra support, let me know, i work at ut southwestern.

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Thanks so much for asking. I actually am doing quite well. I have stopped counting the days since my last smoke. Mind over matter I guess, plus lots and lots of prayer from friends and relatives, every little bit helps. Down to one diet coke a day, and my last diet coke is on Thanksgiving.

I went in yesterday 11/25 for me pre-op testing. Met some fantastic people at St. Paul. Next Tuesday is just around the corner, I was bouncing around that place like no bodies business, people probably thought I was on some great medication..... but I can see the light Carol-Anne! :)

Have a great holiday, and look forward to touching base with you!

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i'm glad to hear that things are going well for you! so yours will be at st. paul? mine will be at zale lipshy, i wonder why its in different places (maybe the surgeon)? anyhow, best of luck, and have a great thanksgiving.

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