May the fourth be with you

[Jenjenxox 2]

So I finally got my surgery day may the 4th any surgery twins out there?My partner is not very supportive and works nights.I don’t really have anyone at home for the first 24 hours as requested.I have a 7 year old and 14 year old at home with me.I will prepare meals and such.Do you all think I should hire a nurse also?

Edited April 21, 2021 by Jenjenxox

[catwoman7 11,270]

you probably won't need a nurse. My husband took the week off to be home with me, but he ended up going back to work after about three days. His help just wasn't needed. It was nice having him around the first couple of days to get things for me, but to be honest, I probably would have been fine on my own.

[ShoppGirl 5,072]

My husband went back to work the next day but told his boss that I had surgery And he may need to run home a couple of times if I needed things. I didn’t even have to call him.

[Arabesque 7,565]

I live alone & I was fine. I had a couple of friends who rang or txt me each day to check I was ok. I was weary more than anything & spent a lot of time on my couch. I think @ShoppGirl’s advice is good about your husband just letting his work know he may have to pop home to help you if needed.

[Veinnurse 2]

I had surgery May 4th also! Hope your doing good.