I'm sorry but I'm so sick of seeing posts of people obviously cheating or making excuses to cheat and then crying because they didn't lose weight...

I'm sorry but if you're not ready to commit to this program and you're not ready to change your life then you're not ready for surgery okay....

Stop lying to yourself and stop making excuses to cheat. Stop blaming everyone else for your failures.

I spent about 20 years living obese but I woke up one day and made the mental decision and commitment to change my life and I didn't let anyone or anything interfere with my decision.

10 months later and I'm half the size u was literally I've lost 159lbs and I'm skinny and I'm healthy and happy and loving life.

You cannot begin this program thinking you can just breeze through without actually making an effort okay.

I'm saying this because I want people to make sure they are ready before they commit to being operated on.

It's a huge decision.

A huge commitment and mental stamina is needed to be successful okay.

I'm sorry but I'm over seeing all these people making you feel better for failing or cheating....

Tighten up. Toughen up.

5 hours ago, Brent701 said:

To Mikey’s credit he has been consistent with his attitude for a year now. Always a bit self centered and very matter a fact. Very much his way is right yours is wrong. A bit of a narcissist. He went from an awkward fat man to a confident skinny man. Outside of the WLS community this behavior is called being a d**k.

Tell em Brent!!!

2 hours ago, sillykitty said:

Not only is @MIKEYY84 an attention seeking narcissist, but a misogynist as well.

I'm sick of people telling me oh you must find a woman close to your age but I'm yet to meet a woman over 30 that doesn't have a bunch of kids yet and also the issue with the woman biological clock could stop at 40; as I'm yet to begin a family and it will be a year from now before I get near my goal weight and start a family so the only logical choice is looking for a girl that's around 10 years below as I want 4 kids which takes 10 years to make happen and that's only if all things are going perfectly so yeah it's hard to start dating when at my age I'm ready for kids and marriage and every girl I've spoken to anywhere near 30+ has kids and divorcee so it's hard indeed so I've made the decision for myself to look 10 years younger at least so I'll be able to have many kids

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/419131-i-can’t-date-overweight-people/?do=findComment&comment=4746355

**my own kids my own DNA** very important

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/419131-i-can’t-date-overweight-people/?do=findComment&comment=4746356

it is harder to find a girl as you get older because most have a bunch of kids or baggage but I've already decided because I want a big family I'll definitely have to look at ladies about 10 years below me so that there's no issues with them having children

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/419131-i-can’t-date-overweight-people/?do=findComment&comment=4772700

provided she has big breasts like DD or better , I like big butt too

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/411641-who-will-like-me-skinny/?do=findComment&comment=4746361

my age range is 18-25

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/428004-aus-male-looking-for-girl-18-25-to-text-whatsapp/

I want to find a woman that deserves everything I have to offer if she has big tits

https://www.bariatricpal.com/topic/428743-can-we-just-be-for-real/?do=findComment&comment=4823793

I'm living for all of this reconnaissance!

56 minutes ago, Kay9513 said:

I'm living for all of this reconnaissance!

Omg, she came with Receipts!

?? y'all are the best!!!

1 hour ago, Hcat said:

Bet he isn't loving all the TOUGH LOVE we've given him! LOL!!!

No... he's an expert, remember?

There are some fantastic people on this thread that have helped so many people along their journey including me when I was still visiting the site daily last year. There is the a right way and a wrong way and Mikey let the response you got here prove that this is not the right way.

2 hours ago, colormehappy said:

I want to find a woman that deserves everything I have to offer if she has big tits

Damn it, I only have one.

WHO in the world would want to date a “man” with that attitude? I hope he does some serious reflection and matures. He’s going to be lonely if he doesn’t make some major changes.

Well crap I didn’t join this for this drama! I’m only 2 months out on sleeve surgery and having a hard time and I see this shit!! ??‍♀️ Maybe I came to the wrong place!! WTF!! Cool down dude nobody would want you @MIKEYY84 you too much about yourself. Hate to tell you but even woman 10 years younger have a bunch of damn kids these days.

1 hour ago, Cheeseburgh said:

Damn it, I only have one.

WHO in the world would want to date a “man” with that attitude? I hope he does some serious reflection and matures. He’s going to be lonely if he doesn’t make some major changes.

pretty much nobody. His stating that he's looking for a woman with "big tits" would be a huge turn-off for every woman I've ever known...

9 hours ago, Brent701 said:

To Mikey’s credit he has been consistent with his attitude for a year now. Always a bit self centered and very matter a fact. Very much his way is right yours is wrong. A bit of a narcissist. He went from an awkward fat man to a confident skinny man. Outside of the WLS community this behavior is called being a d**k.

Cheers at least some constructive feedback.

Well it was abit of fun while it lasted hahaha I'm not going to cry over a little backlash I am who I am

Are you Superman?? Your posts are starting to sound familiar. They were always a little... agitating. I feel like you contribute so much to the conversation, Mikey. But you need to remember that you are not here to supervise or judge others. And your journey is nothing like anyone else's. Try being supportive only and ignore those who irritate you. It's good practice for real life.

2 minutes ago, MaybeMeow said:

Are you Superman?? Your posts are starting to sound familiar. They were always a little... agitating. I feel like you contribute so much to the conversation, Mikey. But you need to remember that you are not here to supervise or judge others. And your journey is nothing like anyone else's. Try being supportive only and ignore those who irritate you. It's good practice for real life.

Mikey has used the user name superman or a user name with superman in it, changed that user name after there was some criticism about some of his posts regarding women (and tattoos).

45 minutes ago, MIKEYY84 said:

Cheers at least some constructive feedback.

1 hour ago, MIKEYY84 said:

Well it was abit of fun while it lasted hahaha I'm not going to cry over a little backlash I am who I am