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Hang in there, Emma. Better days are coming. You have a lot of support here too. I know that it’s not the same as having people physically support you but mental support can be very helpful as well.
Keeping you in my thoughts and following your progress. Godspeed on healing and getting back on track.
Sending you gentle ((((hugs)))) across the net.
thank you so much seriously this helps so much🥰🥰🥰[emoji173][emoji173][emoji173][emoji173][emoji173]

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2 hours ago, Emma809 said:

your words today came on perfect timing ...god bless you ..... love love loved how you said this ..cuz today i broke down soooooo bad here and cried and cried so much till my eyes were swolen then i calmed down took a shower and read ur message .... i do believe so much in energy and vibes and peoples mind set .... ur amazing

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I'm thankful that my spirit lead me to give you some words of encouragement. You do know that you've got this, if you don't know consider yourself informed. Your task now is to calm down because it's a hard task for the body to heal while under a lot of stress. We need you to heal for your son and husband, they need you around. Don't be mad at yourself or hard on yourself for making this decision to have wls. Cry, get it out and then breathe, repeat until it gets easier. My friend had revision surgery in July with complications that scared me from almost not having my surgery this upcoming January. She has recovered nicely, we've attended the Obesity Help Conference and I have met wonderful people like you. We deserve a second chance at an amazing healthy life. Bariatric Pal has been my mental and emotional support, because I'm private and less than a handful of ppl know I'm having this surgery. Emma, anything you want to talk about this is a great platform.

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I'm thankful that my spirit lead me to give you some words of encouragement. You do know that you've got this, if you don't know consider yourself informed. Your task now is to calm down because it's a hard task for the body to heal while under a lot of stress. We need you to heal for your son and husband, they need you around. Don't be mad at yourself or hard on yourself for making this decision to have wls. Cry, get it out and then breathe, repeat until it gets easier. My friend had revision surgery in July with complications that scared me from almost not having my surgery this upcoming January. She has recovered nicely, we've attended the Obesity Help Conference and I have met wonderful people like you. We deserve a second chance at an amazing healthy life. Bariatric Pal has been my mental and emotional support, because I'm private and less than a handful of ppl know I'm having this surgery. Emma, anything you want to talk about this is a great platform.
your a true angel[emoji173]

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5 hours ago, Emma809 said:

your words today came on perfect timing ...god bless you ..... love love loved how you said this ..cuz today i broke down soooooo bad here and cried and cried so much till my eyes were swolen then i calmed down took a shower and read ur message .... i do believe so much in energy and vibes and peoples mind set .... ur amazing

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I'm thankful that my spirit lead me to give you some words of encouragement. You do know that you've got this, if you don't know consider yourself informed. Your task now is to calm down because it's a hard task for the body to heal while under a lot of stress. We need you to heal for your son and husband, they need you around. Don't be mad at yourself or hard on yourself for making this decision to have wls. Cry, get it out and then breathe, repeat until it gets easier. My friend had revision surgery in July with complications that scared me from almost not having my surgery this upcoming January. She has recovered nicely, we've attended the Obesity Help Conference and I have met wonderful people like you. We deserve a second chance at an amazing healthy life. Bariatric Pal has been my mental and emotional support, because I'm private and less than a handful of ppl know I'm having this surgery. Emma, anything you want to talk about this is a great platform.

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Emma, how are you physically feeling this evening?

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Emma, how are you physically feeling this evening?

today a bit down ... today is actually my bday.. today they said they will put a drain inside me to start draining whatever is in the stmach... thought i would have a break today...they also said they will be giving me nutrients by a bag .... by I.V. so thats my food...hope to god for now... and so today im oficially 40yrs old....
have a blessed day[emoji173][emoji106]

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Wishing you a happy birthday, take care of yourself today and your healing. Try and nap, relax, watch a favorite show etc.... this will all be behind you soon and you will be celebrating with your husband and son. The biggest wave always winds up on the shore.....

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2 hours ago, Emma809 said:

today a bit down ... today is actually my bday.. today they said they will put a drain inside me to start draining whatever is in the stmach... thought i would have a break today...they also said they will be giving me nutrients by a bag .... by I.V. so thats my food...hope to god for now... and so today im oficially 40yrs old....
have a blessed day

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So sorry that you are spending your bday in the hospital. Please try to keep your eyes on the prize. I understand that will be hard. Keep reminding yourself that by your next bday this will all be a distant memory. You will be much healthier by then.

Your next bday will indeed be happy. Just try to get through this bump in the road as best you are able to and hang in there.

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Happy Birthday!!!

The good news is that it's old blood, yes? No new bleeding? :)

Hang in there and keep your eyes on the prize!

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Wishing you a happy birthday, take care of yourself today and your healing. Try and nap, relax, watch a favorite show etc.... this will all be behind you soon and you will be celebrating with your husband and son. The biggest wave always winds up on the shore.....
awwww ty sooooo very much god bless you🥰[emoji106]

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So sorry that you are spending your bday in the hospital. Please try to keep your eyes on the prize. I understand that will be hard. Keep reminding yourself that by your next bday this will all be a distant memory. You will be much healthier by then.
Your next bday will indeed be happy. Just try to get through this bump in the road as best you are able to and hang in there.
amen ....thank you 🥰[emoji173][emoji106]

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Happy Birthday. I have been following this thread. I hope you are feeling well enough to go home soon! Sorry you are having these issues.

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8 hours ago, Emma809 said:

today a bit down ... today is actually my bday.. today they said they will put a drain inside me to start draining whatever is in the stmach... thought i would have a break today...they also said they will be giving me nutrients by a bag .... by I.V. so thats my food...hope to god for now... and so today im oficially 40yrs old....
have a blessed day

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Happy Birthday! 🥳🎈🎉 Sending positive thoughts that they will get you right and out of the hospital soon.❤️

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