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look at it as being the first step to a new you lol I am on the pre opt diet now and I am losing mind I so hungry right now, but if I wat my surgery might get cancel so that's what keeping motivated

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Thanks!! That is what my husband says as well. I have to look at it as part of the procedure. I understand why its necessary but when you hear that others didn't have to preop it makes you wonder/question if it's really necessary!!!!!!

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My debit card looks like a who's who of fast fast food and my favorite restaurants. I have owned the bodybugg for 2 weeks now just to get a baseline of how I lived before being banded on Dec 18th. I was shocked that I burn 3500 calories a day so I must be eating more than that. I am a self pay so the voice in my head keeps saying "what if this doesnt work".

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I started out drinking slimfast. The first night I dreamed about ham, steak and fried chicken. The next day I could swear I smelled meat cooking as I walked across the parking lot.

Then I went home and had a can of cream of potato Soup. After all the cold liquids, something hot was very tasty. Just choose things you like, I made homemade oyster stew one night and fed the oysters to my dog. It was very good to me. I had to do liquids two weeks before surgery, and then they postponed me a week so I've had another week now. It's not as bad as you think. just think of the goal ahead, and it will be worth it. I know I'm SO ready for tomorrow!

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My pre-op was protien shake for Breakfast and lunch and a protien meal for dinner. I was allowed 4-6 oz. of protien and a half cup of vegetables. It seems every doc has a different idea for pre-op.

I also am supposed to drink 64 oz of Water a day. This for someone who is lucky to drink 6 oz a week, was a stretch. What I did was each time I felt like I was starving I made myself drink a bottle of Water. Then since I knew that my new life would dictate that I couldn't eat for 30 mins after water I wouldn't let myself do so. Usually by that time the hunger was gone. The only time it wasn't was when it was truly time for my next meal. I guess that's what they mean by head hunger vs. true hunger.

I don't know if that was a lot of help but my experience.

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I can hardly believe that my surgery is happening on Thursday. I am a self-pay, so I got scheduled quickly once I made the decision to go for it. I haven't been perfect on my two week pre-op diet, but I've lost 12 pounds! That was even with Thanksgiving and one week on vacation! I started thinking that I really don't need the band, that I can just do this on my own. DUH! How many times have I said that before, and then lost, then gained it all back plus some. Like a lot of you, I am looking forward to the band, but I have some mixed emotions too. I'm a little scared of complications, scared of being sick, and scared that it won't work for me. I am going to keep busy the next two days and look at some recent pictures of myself that are awful! I'll keep posting and reading all of your stories and thoughts. :nervous

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My date is set for the 31st and to be honest, I'm not sure I can go thru with it. I've been on a diet for 10 days now and lost 12 pounds. I'm just really scared of it right now.

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We have all felt like you are feeling at some point along this journey . . . but you have to remember we are doing this for OURSELVES . . . and a year from now we won't even recognize the person we left behind! We are making ourselves better and making our lives better .. . and oh my I'm sounding so "know it all" .. .sorry . . .but that's my feeling and I'm sticking to it! :) Hang in there!

Chris

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Lost in LS and Justin,

It is normal to be scared - you don't take surgery lightly.

I was terrified and even as I was being given the anaesthetic I kept thinking why am I doing this? Even now 3 days after surgery I am asking myself the question, but then I look back on my journal and realise exactly why I am doing this and how this will make my life better.

Have either of you started a journal - I find it theraputic to write down my thoughts so that I can look back and say either "what a load of cr*p" or "I still think that way". My blog address is below if you want to take a look, but I truly think that if you have got this far you have decided what is best for you.

Good luck

Danna:D

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tommorrow is the big day can't wait to this entire thing is over with I can put the insurance company and the waiting behine me and start my new life.

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tommorrow is the big day can't wait to this entire thing is over with I can put the insurance company and the waiting behine me and start my new life.

Good luck for your surgery - although I am sure everything will be fine. Let us know how you are when you get home.

Danna:whoo::clap2:

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My surgery date is 12/17/07 and my preop consists of a Diflucan on the Friday before (to prevent female infection), a colon cleanser on Saturday afternoon with nothing more to eat of course and stop all liquids early Monday morning because my surgery is Monday afternoon.

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