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I am so sorry that your husband is not supporting this. It’s unfortunate, maybe he’s scared that you will succeed and he may get insecure with himself. Listen you have one life and one life only. You have to put your health first and do what going to make YOU happy. Everyone is not going to support or even understand. I had to learn that the hard way after canceling my surgery over and over again. I finally said F this I’m tired of going through this because it me waking up every morning hating how I feel, Look etc. it’s my life! Nobody else’s. So I didn’t tell anyone, I mean nobody. I was scared as hell but I am officially 2 weeks and 2 days. I feel great, have no issues thank god. Im just following my surgeons rules. I hope that you do this for yourself because at the end of it all it’s your life. You deserve to make it better. I hope that you go through with it and if he still doesn’t support guess what you have a whole community that does!

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