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WASaBubbleButt

By WASaBubbleButt, in Rants & Raves

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Michee    2

Michee
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Wasa I think you have been sending telepathic signals my way....... I was banded Aug 15, and MY goal is to get TT/Boob Lift, and possible a nose job next Aug 15. I have even been doing the math to see when all this will be paid for, (probably 10 years, that;s what the line of credit is for).

I think your goal was inspired, your success has been phenomenal, and it really sucks when the universe doesnt cooperate with your plan.

In the long term however I think Jachut is right, in 2 years the surgery date wont matter. Right now however, it still sucks!!

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losingjusme    12

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Good luck, I am here for you, and I won't lie....I am majorly jelous! :D

im going to have to jump on that band wagon too ... just paint me green ...

M...

I know you are right. It sucks today, it won't make a bit of difference in the near future. I just want it DONE and DONE quickly.

I've never been a patient person. :)

just like we all want to be at goal last week ... you have done an amazing job and should be proud (as i am of you...) i think you are making a good decision to stick to your wishes of the fat doctor (heh) be with you during Sx...

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WASaBubbleButt    41

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just like we all want to be at goal last week ... you have done an amazing job and should be proud (as i am of you...) i think you are making a good decision to stick to your wishes of the fat doctor (heh) be with you during Sx...

I *just* hung up from talking to sissy (the sane one). I told her that I had a heart to heart with my fat surgeon last week and he explained WHY I can't break or fudge on the rules. I can't freak'en move for 15 days. I have to be in a damn ball from my waist up for 15 verrry long days.

I told her that my friends have offered to let me stay with them or they would stay with me. I don't want that, I want to go to sissy's house. She's cool with that, insisted on it, matter of fact.

So I'll have the surgery when I have it and stay with sissy.

I still wanted it in under a freak'en damn year! I'm not over it yet but working on it. :D

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Boo Boo Kitty    3

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??? **confused** (which isnt difficult to do...)

lol me either, but this I think is confusing all together, what do you mean ball?

And BTW Wasa--I am glad you are staying with the sane sissy! WOO HOO!! :D

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WASaBubbleButt    41

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??? **confused** (which isnt difficult to do...)

Heh... I guess I failed to mention that I have ADHD. I can't sit still for five minutes if my bloody life depended on it.

I swear, I need mega tranqs for this one.

I run circles around everyone else. I don't have cable TV because I can't sit still long enough to watch a single movie. I can't sit still, I'm like an ADHD kid that climbs the walls... only in adult version.

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JUDE    0

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Hi Nina,

I empathise with your issue with the surgeon - I've changed doctors on a number of occasions when I haven't felt comfortable with them for one or another reason. I stopped going to one guy because he consistently kept me waiting for up to an hour and I thought it was highly inconsiderate especially as I had to get a babysitter in order to be there so I found someone else. At one time I had a female gynea who gave me the creeps for some reason - I just felt she enjoyed her work too much and she talked to me as though I was a child - stopped going to her too!

Thought I'd apply a little acronym to how you might rationalise your situation - it's the GROW method:

G - goal - what is your goal and why does it mean so much to you?

R - reality - consider the reality and how it is affecting you?

O - options - what options do you have to manage your situation?

W - will - do you have the will to manage your options so that you face your reality head on but still achieve your goal?

This might mean naff all to you but I find it good - it can make you take stock when you're faced with a difficult situation.

Hope it helps a bit.

cheers, Jude

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