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Mattymatt    491

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Initially things started out looking like I would go the sleeve route but I want to go the traditional Roux-en-Y simply because I believe that I might have a bit of a sweet tooth and it would be better if sweets just were not an option. Plus, my Primary Care Physician is recommending the Roux-en-Y because she said that patients lose more weight and keep more of it off when compared to the sleeve. So, I am sold.

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GlowingGal    61

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My team said RNY is considered the "top of the line" of WLS with the best long-term weight loss results. I've read many success stories of those who've had the sleeve, so I would bet it's more of a personal decision. I went to my consultation appointment thinking of the sleeve, but due to my chronic GERD, my surgeon recommended RNY. My surgery went well. Right now, I just want to eat regular food. No. More. liquids. LOL

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Mattymatt    491

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5 minutes ago, GlowingGal said:

My team said RNY is considered the "top of the line" of WLS with the best long-term weight loss results. I've read many success stories of those who've had the sleeve, so I would bet it's more of a personal decision. I went to my consultation appointment thinking of the sleeve, but due to my chronic GERD, my surgeon recommended RNY. My surgery went well. Right now, I just want to eat regular food. No. More. Liquids. LOL

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Not even a full month has gone by and you're almost 40 pounds lighter! That's just incredible! Keep up the great work. You had your surgery when I had my first appointment with the surgeon.

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Luisajfc    402

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Hmmm... not everyone that gets the bypass loose their ability for sweet as I️ have read and watch. But I️ also chose that one cuz of my family history with diabetes and high blood pressure, plus a higher chance of more weight lost.


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

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BarbieVSG14    66

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60% of bypass patients don't dump from sweets, FYI. You may have the surgery and find you're one of them, so don't count on it too much ;)

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BarbieVSG14    66

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19 minutes ago, Luisajfc said:

Hmmm... not everyone that gets the bypass loose their ability for sweet as I️ have read and watch. But I️ also chose that one cuz of my family history with diabetes and high blood pressure, plus a higher chance of more weight lost.


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

Statistically, that's true. But I've seen sleevers go far above the average WLS expectations, too. I was one of them. I lost 100% of my excess weight, where as they say with the sleeve the "expected" is 60%. Whoever "they" are. I think it's 70% for bypass, but don't quote me on that.

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Hmmm... not everyone that gets the bypass loose their ability for sweet as I️ have read and watch. But I️ also chose that one cuz of my family history with diabetes and high blood pressure, plus a higher chance of more weight lost.

“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

I am just starting my process for bypass and I keep trying to explain this to a friend that bypass does not mean no more sweets forever. I have a relative who didn't even like sweets until after bypass and they don't make her sick. I have another relative who also has zero issues with sugae after bypass. I started the process considering the sleeve but eventually opting for bypass because of my family history of diabetes and high blood pressure. I don't have these things but I do not want them either. Also, my surgeon believes this is the best option for me because I have a metabolism problem. I don't eat much but I still gain/retain weight. Best wishes on your journey [emoji5]

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Mattymatt    491

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I am hoping that by telling myself sweets will make me sick, it will become the self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Statistically, that's true. But I've seen sleevers go far above the average WLS expectations, too. I was one of them. I lost 100% of my excess weight, where as they say with the sleeve the "expected" is 60%. Whoever "they" are. I think it's 70% for bypass, but don't quote me on that.

True that, i believe that it falls down on the person, how much weight they have and how much exercise and hardcore straight to the line diet one do. And body type/height... so many things.


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

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I am just starting my process for bypass and I keep trying to explain this to a friend that bypass does not mean no more sweets forever. I have a relative who didn't even like sweets until after bypass and they don't make her sick. I have another relative who also has zero issues with sugae after bypass. I started the process considering the sleeve but eventually opting for bypass because of my family history of diabetes and high blood pressure. I don't have these things but I do not want them either. Also, my surgeon believes this is the best option for me because I have a metabolism problem. I don't eat much but I still gain/retain weight. Best wishes on your journey [emoji5]

Ahhh kinda like me! I don’t have them but my parents did.. and i know if i keep gaining i might get them ( God forbid for both us). Plus i dont know if i mentioned, i suffer from heartburn- which sleeve would’ve made it worse. My metabolism .. what is that? 🤣 mines has been on vacation since i was 21 especially after giving birth!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

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Luisajfc    402

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I am hoping that by telling myself sweets will make me sick, it will become the self-fulfilling prophecy.

I guess it all comes down to how bad you want to loose weight and what are you willing to do to archive it. I was a coffee addict! Like everyday 3 to 4 cups of coffee even before bed.. like I’ll missed a day.. uff heeeeeeadches. But when i was told no more, no milk.. i did it .. lil by little before i get my surgery. Whats the point of tarnishing my weight lost. Start early! You will do great!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

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Ahhh kinda like me! I don’t have them but my parents did.. and i know if i keep gaining i might get them ( God forbid for both us). Plus i dont know if i mentioned, i suffer from heartburn- which sleeve would’ve made it worse. My metabolism .. what is that? 🤣 mines has been on vacation since i was 21 especially after giving birth!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps


Yes! God forbid! And the heartburn is awful! Mine has calmed down but it was pretty bad. My metabolism died before I even hit my teen years, lol. And the aches and pains of carrying around extra weight is no fun either. I think we are definitely making the right choices for ourselves (and in your case, for your family).

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Yes! God forbid! And the heartburn is awful! Mine has calmed down but it was pretty bad. My metabolism died before I even hit my teen years, lol. And the aches and pains of carrying around extra weight is no fun either. I think we are definitely making the right choices for ourselves (and in your case, for your family).

I believe so too! Plus places like this out of some i see, inspired us to do it even more.. those before and after pics of others, i cant wait to put mines!
Best of luck! And let us keep us posted!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps

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I believe so too! Plus places like this out of some i see, inspired us to do it even more.. those before and after pics of others, i cant wait to put mines!
Best of luck! And let us keep us posted!


“There will be obstacles. There will be doubters. There will be mistakes. But with hard work, there are no limits.” —Michael Phelps


The pictures are definitely inspirational and the community as a whole is beautiful! Thank you and will definitely keep posted! My first nutritionist appointment is tomorrow!

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