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Hey guys, so I'm sure this is a thing we all experienced, and that is nervousness about going under! I never have before and am so scared.

Did anyone else feel this way? If so, how'd you calm your anxiety over it?

Thanks

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I think almost everyone feels this way before their first surgery. I have been under general anesthesia 3 times. It sounds scary, but it's really not a big deal, plus the drugs they give you right before will make you very comfortable. The best way to calm your anxiety is to busy yourself doing things you love. If you still have problems talk to your Dr. about anti-anxiety meds. Either way just remember there are millions of people who have gone through this and come out on the other side just fine!

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Totally normal to be nervous. I've been under five times. Once I woke up nauseous, the other times it was just like waking up from sleep. Every person is different, but remember the anesthesiologists do this for a living and are well-trained to take care of you. Best of luck with your surgery!

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I think this will be my seventh surgery, not counting things like colonoscopies that I was given the stuff that's supposed to make you feel woozy but basically means you don't remember the experience at all! But I've been put under for everything from a tonsillectomy to having my gall bladder removed.

My basic take on this is that I sure don't want to be awake for any of this, so I'm perfectly happy that there's a relatively easy method to avoid that. To be perfectly honest, my only concern with the whole process is that it's hard to find my veins for the initial IV. Once that's done, I'm good to go.

It's basically like being asleep. Minor aftereffects like being a bit bloated (which you may also be from the surgery itself) are not a big issue.

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been under many times for various reasons. I got a little teary eyed when I went under for my bypass surgery..I think more for the thought of ...this is the beginning of a new life...and I was right.

you'll do great and good luck !!

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It's perfectly normal to be nervous. just keep thinking about how much better things are going to be once you're healed and have lots a lot of weight :) Good luck!

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It all happens so fast the next thing you know you are in your room...then going home, then losing weight then skinny haha!! You will be happy you went through this experience...good luck!@

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I'm 4 days post op and this was my first surgery. My biggest fear was not waking up from the anesthesia but I had decided it was a necessary risk in order to get my weight and health under control. You're definitely better off having surgery at a younger age while still healthy as opposed to having a heart attack or something else down the road. After having the procedure done, I can look back and realize I was worrying much more than I should have. All of the pre-op testing and analysis that goes on before they will even put you under goes to show that you probably won't be recommended for surgery if you are a risk. Thousands of people go under anesthesia every day and the doctors really do know what they are doing. They are in complete control of your body while you are under since you have a breathing tube and they are monitoring and controlling blood pressure, oxygen, etc. The worst part of it for me was a headache and sore throat for a day or two. The biggest thing I wasn't prepared for was the pain, nausea, and inability to eat/drink for a few days due to the sleeve. It has gotten better every day though and the lbs are coming off so I'm still glad I went through with it. Be sure your mentally prepared for the journey, its not easy at first, but It may be one of the best decisions of your life! Best of luck!

HW: 330

SW: 294 6/27/2017

CW: 287

GW: 180

VSG, Dr. Jawad, Orlando, FL

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I'm 4 days post op and this was my first surgery. My biggest fear was not waking up from the anesthesia but I had decided it was a necessary risk in order to get my weight and health under control. You're definitely better off having surgery at a younger age while still healthy as opposed to having a heart attack or something else down the road. After having the procedure done, I can look back and realize I was worrying much more than I should have. All of the pre-op testing and analysis that goes on before they will even put you under goes to show that you probably won't be recommended for surgery if you are a risk. Thousands of people go under anesthesia every day and the doctors really do know what they are doing. They are in complete control of your body while you are under since you have a breathing tube and they are monitoring and controlling blood pressure, oxygen, etc. The worst part of it for me was a headache and sore throat for a day or two. The biggest thing I wasn't prepared for was the pain, nausea, and inability to eat/drink for a few days due to the sleeve. It has gotten better every day though and the lbs are coming off so I'm still glad I went through with it. Be sure your mentally prepared for the journey, its not easy at first, but It may be one of the best decisions of your life! Best of luck!
HW: 330
SW: 294 6/27/2017
CW: 287
GW: 180
VSG, Dr. Jawad, Orlando, FL


Thank you so much for your amazing response! I'm really happy to see that you and I are both having the same doctor as well! I really do like Dr. Jawad! He seemed like such an amazing guy and very caring for what he does!


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I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels like that Robert!

I worry about the anaesthetic, about coming out fro it. It's the thing that is nagging in the back of my mind and, even though I know it's irrational. But that's the problem with irrational thoughts!

I'm just focussing on every other part, where my head's much better.

See you when we come round!

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Thank you so much for your amazing response! I'm really happy to see that you and I are both having the same doctor as well! I really do like Dr. Jawad! He seemed like such an amazing guy and very caring for what he does!

Awesome, Dr Jawad is known as one of the best in the business. He doesn't talk a lot but has tons of experience and has done thousands of these procedures. I loved that he uses the davinci robot for the procedure which I don't think you find in most places. My wife and I were both sleeved by him with no complications and quick recoveries. The ORMC facilities were great also. When is your surgery?

HW: 330

SW: 294 6/27/2017

CW: 285

GW: 180

VSG, Dr. Jawad, Orlando, FL

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I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels like that Robert!
I worry about the anaesthetic, about coming out fro it. It's the thing that is nagging in the back of my mind and, even though I know it's irrational. But that's the problem with irrational thoughts!
I'm just focussing on every other part, where my head's much better.

See you when we come round!


It's a totally rational fear, but one that is not unexpected!


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Awesome, Dr Jawad is known as one of the best in the business. He doesn't talk a lot but has tons of experience and has done thousands of these procedures. I loved that he uses the davinci robot for the procedure which I don't think you find in most places. My wife and I were both sleeved by him with no complications and quick recoveries. The ORMC facilities were great also. When is your surgery?
HW: 330
SW: 294 6/27/2017
CW: 285
GW: 180
VSG, Dr. Jawad, Orlando, FL


Most likely towards the end of the year due to the 6 month diet. I'm really excited


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