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heath024    4

heath024
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So i have a bachelorette party in 2 weekends and at that point ill be a little over a month. Ive lost 30lbs so far & dont really want to drink and i will most definatly not be doing shots. But i also dont feel like explainig my surgery choice to a group of girls i dont know all that well.. do i just fake drinking throughout the night? Has anyone else had plans that they cant break but dont want to sabtoge yourselves post sleeve? What did you do? Thanks!

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TommieT    30

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You may not be mentally or physically able to go! I had my gastric bypass surgery Oct 17th and still not comfortable with going around everybody. Not my cheerful self and still figuring out foods to nibble on. Good luck!

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itsYaneris    71

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Hey I'm 3 weeks post op I went out last night for he first time I've lost 30 pounds so far. My advice is to go! It's something your going to have to get use it. I had the tinest sip of my sisters Long Island and it was actually gross I had no desire to drink. U can fake drink or say ur not drinking because of mess or something but don't let this hold you back :)

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ella37    455

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Not totally sure why you wouldn't be able to go, unless you're still feeling very bad. I'm a little over a month and can go out fine.

Fake drinking seems ridiculous, is there really going to be that much peer pressure? Just tell them you're tired or you've been having some stomach problems and don't feel like drinking.

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zelmad    3

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If you want to go, go. Take a lime or lemon get a glass of Water, put a slice on the rim. Unless you tell them they'll never no the difference. Select safe food you know you can eat safely. Remember it's a lifestyle change!

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RNMomof4    86

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You should go and have a great time with your 30 lb weight loss! I would probably just claim a mild stomach issue. Can always offer to be the DD!

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Joypod    9

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Maybe say you're finishing a course of antibiotics and can't drink while you're on them.

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