Family issues

[Kyn13 215]

So I got to meet my surgeon today and talk a little more about surgery. He told me today that I have to lose 15 lbs by my next appointment in 6 wks. I also seen then nutritionist today for the first time she gave me a meal plan, basically guide lines to fill in as I go. So after my son's football practice I went to the store and my son and my mom tagged along. While we were there I picked up stuff to make my birthday cake next week. It was the only junk I got. The rest was staples to start my diet tomorrow or tweak what I'm already doing. And it just seems like every time I turn around my mom was throwing junk in my basket, saying stuff like ooo ur last night before the big plunge you should get these, which started my son in on it. I did cave and got him a small pack of something I don't like. It took all I had not to go off on her in the store!!! This is hard enough for me already I don't need her help pushing junk food on me. And what gets me is she had her surgery in jan. And so she knows how much of a big deal it is that I stick with this, I don't know why it feels like she keeps throwing things/food in my way. Like when she cooks she knows I can't have fried food or Pasta so what are the two things she always makes... it's just getting so frustrating. Wish there was a way to find common ground, she lives with us I can't kick her out ......

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[melbell2222 244]

If she had surgery then why is she putting junk/ high carbs in the cart? Just say no or go alone. Which I do all the time, go alone! Even if it's a extra drive least there won't be junk in the house.

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[Kyn13 215]

Normally I do go alone just really fucking irritating lol I think I just finally snapped cause the nutritionist told me I could have my birthday cake so that was gonna be my little slice of heaven and here she was throwing tortillas in and other cakes, asking if I'd get ice cream. Think I just hit my breaking point with it all

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