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Need advice ( off topic )

This has nothing to do with surgery but I have no friends and the people on here have been very nice to me

So, my boyfriend he's 35 he works and is in school but he never has time for me I haven't seen him in a month! Whenever I mention seeing each other and bring up how we never talk he says I'm selfish and need to be patient but it's days where he doesn't even text he never calls I really like him but I feel so alone in this as painful as it is should I just end it ? Because if someone really liked you wouldn't they make an effort to see you ? Or at least hold a conversation?

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  • When you haven't seen him in a month and you live in the same area and he won't text or return your calls, it's time for you to walk away. A man who wants to be with you and considers himself your bo

  • @@biglady904 I say there's no reason to "break-up" with him......He's already done it by not coming around for over a month. I would not text, or call, or anything!......just move on with your life.

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    Personally, I think in-person is better. If he doesn't call or return your messages, then quit calling and texting him. IF HE reaches out to YOU then you can tell him it is not working for you.

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Thank you everyone for your support I'm letting go I know I deserve better, but wow it's so hard and painful I've cried all weekend and I've been asking myself what's wrong with me ? I'm still hurt but I need to look to the future

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Thank you everyone for your support I'm letting go I know I deserve better, but wow it's so hard and painful I've cried all weekend and I've been asking myself what's wrong with me ? I'm still hurt but I need to look to the future

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He sounds like a tool! Nothing is wrong with you! Learn to be happy on your own. Go out - make friends - enjoy life! Being alone is better than being used by an asshole!

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there are 5 stages of grief...anger denial depression bargaining and acceptance...not necessarily in that order. you will go thru all of those and feel a rollercoaster of emotions. plus, have you ever heard of the 8 week wait?? it takes that long for a womans oxytocin levels to go down(thats what makes us "bond"). its a real thing! (can you tell i too have had my heart trampled on?? lolol)

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