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Hello everyone! I've been surfing the forums for the past week and just felt it was time to make my introduction.

I'm Raven, 34 years old, married with a beautiful 3 year old daugther. I've been overweight for the majority of my life. I've made several attempts to lose weight over the last 10 years. I've tried the Atkins diet, visiting 2 weight loss clinics, joined a gym, and even hired a personal trainer. I've had no problem losing the weight but maintaining has proved very difficult.

I've never really considered WLS until recently. A co-worker was sleeved this past April and after speaking with him several times and seeing his results (60lbs to date), I feel this is what i truly want.

I saw my PCP 2 days ago and they have sent my referral to the surgeons office. I've called to set up my first consultation, just waiting for a call back. I can't wait to hear back from them and get this process started. :)

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Welcome Raven, and congrats on making the decision to better your life. You will find tons of support here. Good luck on your journey!

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Good luck Raven, four things you should do during this period of time

Plan - Write down your goals, current measurements and what you need

Prepare - start walking as much as you can, get as healthy as you can, and get ready for the emotional battles to come

Act - jump through all the hoops to get qualified for surgery

Evaluate - start trying post surgery food (esp soft stuff and Protein shakes)

This is just a short list you will find many great resources on this site and lots of support. And look at the pictures for motivation.

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I am new to this process too. I just saw my surgeon on Monday. Now I am waiting for the patient advocate to let me know what is next. It is all very exciting! :)

Hello everyone! I've been surfing the forums for the past week and just felt it was time to make my introduction.

I'm Raven, 34 years old, married with a beautiful 3 year old daugther. I've been overweight for the majority of my life. I've made several attempts to lose weight over the last 10 years. I've tried the Atkins diet, visiting 2 weight loss clinics, joined a gym, and even hired a personal trainer. I've had no problem losing the weight but maintaining has proved very difficult.

I've never really considered WLS until recently. A co-worker was sleeved this past April and after speaking with him several times and seeing his results (60lbs to date), I feel this is what i truly want.

I saw my PCP 2 days ago and they have sent my referral to the surgeons office. I've called to set up my first consultation, just waiting for a call back. I can't wait to hear back from them and get this process started. :)

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